{"id":10329,"date":"2025-01-21T09:01:16","date_gmt":"2025-01-21T08:01:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=10329"},"modified":"2025-01-21T09:01:21","modified_gmt":"2025-01-21T08:01:21","slug":"nase-rodiny-jsou-ucitele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2025\/01\/21\/nase-rodiny-jsou-ucitele\/","title":{"rendered":"Na\u0161e rodiny jsou u\u010ditel\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u010ctvrt\u00fd t\u00fdden: Integrace negativn\u00edho<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Duchovn\u00ed u\u010ditelka Mirabai Starrov\u00e1 se zam\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed nad t\u00edm, jak jsou na\u0161e nedokonal\u00e9 rodiny a vztahy p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k praktikov\u00e1n\u00ed bo\u017esk\u00e9 l\u00e1sky, p\u0159ijet\u00ed a soucitu:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nach\u00e1zet kr\u00e1su v\u0161ude<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 vzd\u00e1t se p\u0159edstavy o \u017eivot\u011b, kde je kr\u00e1sa zabudovan\u00e1 a kde ji nemus\u00edme pracn\u011b hledat. Je snadn\u00e9 rozpoznat p\u0159\u00edtomnost posv\u00e1tna ve svat\u00e9m hospicov\u00e9m kaplanovi, kter\u00fd prom\u011bn\u00ed smrtelnou postel va\u0161\u00ed matky v chr\u00e1m&#8230;.. Ale co va\u0161e nudn\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce, v\u00e1\u0161 z\u00e1visl\u00fd partner, va\u0161e rodn\u00e9 m\u011bsto, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m p\u0159ipad\u00e1 sp\u00ed\u0161 jako obchodn\u00ed centrum ne\u017e jako komunita? A co v\u00e1\u0161 st\u016fl v j\u00eddeln\u011b v dob\u011b ve\u010de\u0159e?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Mystik nach\u00e1z\u00ed kouzlo uprost\u0159ed v\u0161edn\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Jednou z v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 znamen\u00e1 b\u00fdt oby\u010dejn\u00fdm mystikem, je sklonit se k noh\u00e1m sv\u00e9 ka\u017edodenn\u00ed existence, s jej\u00edmi zklam\u00e1n\u00edmi a dramaty, klidn\u00fdmi r\u00e1ny a z\u00e1\u0159iv\u00fdmi nocemi, a uct\u00edt s\u00e1m sebe takov\u00e9ho, jak\u00fd jsi&#8230;.. Mystik nach\u00e1z\u00ed kouzlo uprost\u0159ed v\u0161edn\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed, v hrnci se \u0161pagetovou om\u00e1\u010dkou ve d\u0159ezu a v krokusu vykukuj\u00edc\u00edm z jarn\u00edho sn\u011bhu, v nepodepsan\u00fdch rozvodov\u00fdch pap\u00edrech na kuchy\u0148sk\u00e9m stole a ve v\u00fdsledc\u00edch posledn\u00edch krevn\u00edch test\u016f na obrazovce po\u010d\u00edta\u010de.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nen\u00ed to v\u017edy snadn\u00e9<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u00edm, \u017ee to nen\u00ed v\u017edycky snadn\u00e9. Neust\u00e1le jsem vyz\u00fdv\u00e1n, abych se p\u0159estal h\u00e1dat s realitou a m\u00edsto toho se obm\u011bk\u010dil t\u00edm, co je. Nap\u0159\u00edklad moji studenti si mohou myslet, \u017ee jsem moudr\u00fd, ale moje d\u011bti si z\u0159ejm\u011b mysl\u00ed, \u017ee jsem \u0148ouma. Tohle rozd\u011blen\u00ed se mi nel\u00edb\u00ed. Mo\u017en\u00e1 si stejn\u011b jako vy vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00edm \u0159adu p\u0159edsudk\u016f o tom, jakou rodinu bych cht\u011bla m\u00edt, a pak se tlu\u010du do hlavy, kdy\u017e v\u011bci nefunguj\u00ed podle m\u00fdch p\u0159edstav.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">P\u0159ijet\u00edm reality z\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1me v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed schopnost milovat to, co je.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Postupem \u010dasu jsem se nau\u010dila opustit sv\u00e9 p\u0159edstavy o dokonal\u00e9 rodin\u011b a naj\u00edt kr\u00e1su, smysl a celistvost v srdci reality. Nep\u0159edv\u00eddateln\u00e9, neust\u00e1le se m\u011bn\u00edc\u00ed, poni\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed a poko\u0159uj\u00edc\u00ed skute\u010dnosti. Za\u010dala jsem se d\u00edvat na nad\u0159azenost b\u00edl\u00e9 rasy zakotvenou v m\u00e9m liber\u00e1ln\u00edm sebepojet\u00ed a v\u0161imla jsem si z\u00e1pachu komplexu b\u00edl\u00e9ho spasitele, kter\u00fd vyv\u011bral z m\u00e9 nelibosti, \u017ee m\u00e9 hn\u011bd\u00e9 d\u011bti neocenily v\u0161e, co jsem pro n\u011b ud\u011blala. Nakonec jsem si navzdory v\u0161emu dokonce zamiloval nemilovan\u00e9 j\u00e1.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me krach sv\u00fdch p\u0159edstav<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Je pravd\u011bpodobn\u00e9, \u017ee pokud jste rodi\u010dem, a\u0165 u\u017e adoptivn\u00edm, nebo biologick\u00fdm, tak\u00e9 jste za\u017eili krach sv\u00fdch rodi\u010dovsk\u00fdch p\u0159edstav. Tak\u00e9 jste dostali otev\u0159enou v\u00fdzvu, abyste p\u0159ijali d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 m\u00e1te, a odpustili rodi\u010di, kter\u00fdm jste, s jistou m\u00edrou pokory hrani\u010d\u00edc\u00ed s pon\u00ed\u017een\u00edm a \u0161petkou humoru, kter\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt n\u011bkdy a\u017e maniak\u00e1ln\u00ed podtext&#8230;..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Hledejme z\u00e1blesk posv\u00e1tna v&nbsp;ka\u017edodenn\u00ed realit\u011b<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Takov\u00fd je lidsk\u00fd stav. A v sam\u00e9m st\u0159edu va\u0161eho vlastn\u00edho rozbit\u00e9ho snu se mihne a zableskne tv\u00e1\u0159 posv\u00e1tna. Svat\u00e1 katastrofa je v\u00e1ben\u00edm. P\u0159ij\u010fte. Vstupte do ohn\u011b l\u00e1sky a nechte se j\u00edm znovu a znovu p\u0159etv\u00e1\u0159et. B\u00fdt oby\u010dejn\u00fdm, ka\u017edodenn\u00edm mystikem znamen\u00e1 zaujmout sv\u00e9 pr\u00e1voplatn\u00e9 m\u00edsto na tr\u016fnu toho, co je.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na cac.org.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Translated with DeepL.com (free version)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Mirabai Starr,<em>&nbsp;Ordinary Mysticism: Your Life as Sacred Ground<\/em>&nbsp;(HarperOne, 2024), 30\u201331, 35\u201336.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><strong>Image credit and inspiration<\/strong>: Nadya Spetnitskaya,&nbsp;<em>Untitled&nbsp;<\/em>(detail), 2018, photo,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-sjrlluy-tlkrhyidn-h\/\">Unsplash<\/a>.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-sjrlluy-tlkrhyidn-k\/\">Click here to enlarge image.<\/a>&nbsp;<em>Making bread requires the integration of dry and liquid ingredients that must be kneaded and combined. They move from messiness to a cohesive form, just like any kind of integration process.<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mirabai Starrov\u00e1: Postupem \u010dasu jsem se nau\u010dila opustit sv\u00e9 p\u0159edstavy o dokonal\u00e9 rodin\u011b a naj\u00edt kr\u00e1su, smysl a celistvost v srdci reality. 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