{"id":12818,"date":"2025-09-19T08:55:02","date_gmt":"2025-09-19T06:55:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=12818"},"modified":"2025-09-19T08:55:06","modified_gmt":"2025-09-19T06:55:06","slug":"laska-v-lecivych-davkach","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2025\/09\/19\/laska-v-lecivych-davkach\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u00e1ska v l\u00e9\u010div\u00fdch d\u00e1vk\u00e1ch"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">T\u0159ic\u00e1t\u00fd osm\u00fd t\u00fdden: Vid\u011bt o\u010dima l\u00e1sky-P\u00e1tek, 19. z\u00e1\u0159\u00ed 2025<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p><em>V rozhovoru s Richardem Rohrem v podcastu Everything Belongs popisuje zakladatel Homeboy Industries, otec Greg Boyle, jak n\u00e1s l\u00e1ska l\u00e9\u010d\u00ed:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">L\u00e1ska nikdy nezklame<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>V jednom podcastu jsem ned\u00e1vno \u0159ekl: \u201eL\u00e1ska nikdy nezklame.\u201c Moder\u00e1tor na to odpov\u011bd\u011bl: \u201eNa\u0161i poslucha\u010di si budou myslet, \u017ee jste naivn\u00ed.\u201c A j\u00e1 si pomyslel: \u201eNo, nev\u00edm, jak to dok\u00e1zat [\u017ee l\u00e1ska nikdy nezklame], krom\u011b toho, \u017ee \u0159eknu, \u017ee si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee kdy\u017e se n\u011bkdo zamysl\u00ed nad t\u00edm, jak to funguje v jeho \u017eivot\u011b, uv\u011bdom\u00ed si, \u017ee ve skute\u010dnosti to nikdy nezklamalo. Pokud se n\u00e1m zd\u00e1, \u017ee selhala, nen\u00ed to je\u0161t\u011b konec.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">N\u011b\u017enost a \u017eivot<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Z n\u011bjak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu v ni nem\u00e1me d\u016fv\u011bru. Mysl\u00edme si, \u017ee je rozumn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed l\u00e1sku n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem nep\u0159ij\u00edmat \u2013 \u017ee m\u00e1me hlavu v oblac\u00edch v dob\u011b, kdy pot\u0159ebujeme d\u011blat konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed v\u011bci. Nemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee l\u00e1ska vylu\u010duje konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. Je to jak\u00e9si spojen\u00ed kontemplace a jedn\u00e1n\u00ed&#8230; Kdy\u017e v\u00e1s ego vyru\u0161\u00ed, sna\u017ete se se vzpamatovat, abyste se mohli vr\u00e1tit k n\u011b\u017enosti&#8230; Vydr\u017ete pro n\u011b\u017enost a \u017eivot, proto\u017ee to je to, co p\u0159inese d\u016fv\u011bra v l\u00e1sku jako \u201enikdy neselh\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed\u201c \u2013 ten druh spojen\u00ed a sp\u0159\u00edzn\u011bnosti.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">V\u00e1\u017eit si druh\u00fdch<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u017edy mluv\u00edm o \u201ev\u00e1\u017een\u00ed si\u201c, proto\u017ee slovo \u201el\u00e1ska\u201c se jaksi ztr\u00e1c\u00ed. V\u00e1\u017eit si je l\u00e1ska s vyhrnut\u00fdmi ruk\u00e1vy. Je to o tom, \u017ee opravdu vid\u00edte lidi. V Homeboy chceme vytvo\u0159it bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 m\u00edsto, kde jsou lid\u00e9 vid\u011bni, aby si jich mohli v\u00e1\u017eit, proto\u017ee to je to, co l\u00e9\u010d\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Boyle vypr\u00e1v\u00ed, jak jeho organizace dosp\u011bla k p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee l\u00e1ska a v\u00e1\u017een\u00ed si jsou cestou k uzdraven\u00ed:&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Uzdravit se \u010dinnost\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Na za\u010d\u00e1tku jsme \u0159\u00edkali: \u201eNic nezastav\u00ed kulku tak jako pr\u00e1ce.\u201c Mysleli jsme si, \u017ee zam\u011bstnan\u00fd \u010dlen gangu se nikdy nevr\u00e1t\u00ed do v\u011bzen\u00ed. Pot\u00e9, co jsme zalo\u017eili \u0161kolu, jsme si \u0159ekli: \u201eNo, vzd\u011blan\u00fd \u010dlen gangu se nikdy nevr\u00e1t\u00ed do v\u011bzen\u00ed,\u201c ale uk\u00e1zalo se, \u017ee to nen\u00ed pravda. Pak jsme asi p\u0159ed 20 nebo 25 lety (z na\u0161ich 37 let) dosp\u011bli k z\u00e1v\u011bru, \u017ee \u201eNe, uzdraven\u00fd \u010dlen gangu se nikdy nedopust\u00ed dal\u0161\u00edho trestn\u00e9ho \u010dinu.\u201c Te\u010dka. A uk\u00e1zalo se, \u017ee je to pravda, tak\u017ee na tom klademe d\u016fraz.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kdo okus\u00ed l\u00e1sku vrac\u00ed se k n\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u011bl\u00e1me i v\u0161echny ostatn\u00ed v\u011bci: zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed, pen\u00edze v kapse, v\u00fdd\u011ble\u010dn\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce, vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed a v\u0161echny ty ostatn\u00ed v\u011bci, jako odstran\u011bn\u00ed tetov\u00e1n\u00ed a terapie. V\u0161echny tyto v\u011bci jsou sekund\u00e1rn\u00ed k prim\u00e1rn\u00edmu spole\u010denstv\u00ed uzdraven\u00ed, kde lid\u00e9 neust\u00e1le dost\u00e1vaj\u00ed d\u00e1vky [l\u00e1sky], a to velmi opakovan\u011b. Je to opakuj\u00edc\u00ed se povaha uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, potvrzen\u00ed, n\u00e1klonnosti, objet\u00ed \u2013 v\u0161ech t\u011bchto v\u011bc\u00ed. D\u0159\u00edve jsme se tr\u00e1pili, kdy\u017e n\u011bkdo znovu za\u010dal br\u00e1t drogy nebo se na chv\u00edli vr\u00e1til k gangu nebo \u0161el do v\u011bzen\u00ed. \u0158\u00edkali jsme: \u201eNo, mo\u017en\u00e1 se vr\u00e1t\u00ed.\u201c Te\u010f to nikdo ne\u0159\u00edk\u00e1. V\u0161ichni \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed: \u201eOn se vr\u00e1t\u00ed\u201c \u2013 a v\u0161ichni se vr\u00e1t\u00ed. Nev\u00edm o \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 v\u00fdjimce. Vr\u00e1t\u00ed se, proto\u017ee jakmile jednou okus\u00edte, jak\u00e9 to je b\u00fdt up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b milov\u00e1n, je to tak p\u0159ita\u017eliv\u00e9, \u017ee [se tomu podd\u00e1te].&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Translated with DeepL.com (free version)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Adapted from Mike Petrow and Paul Swanson, cohosts,&nbsp;<em><a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-glutydk-tlkrhyidn-n\/\">Everything Belongs<\/a>,<\/em>&nbsp;podcast, season 3, ep. 6, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-glutydk-tlkrhyidn-p\/\">Bonus: Fr. Richard and Greg Boyle Reflect on Lives Committed to Loving Action<\/a>,\u201d June 13, 2025. Available as MP3 audio download and PDF transcript.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><strong>Image credit and inspiration<\/strong>:&nbsp;Sankhadeep Barman,&nbsp;<em>untitled&nbsp;<\/em>(detail), 2019, photo,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-glutydk-tlkrhyidn-x\/\">Unsplash<\/a>.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-glutydk-tlkrhyidn-m\/\">Click here to enlarge image<\/a>.&nbsp;<em>The person lingers in awe, wholly present with the flowers, letting herself be consumed by their quiet beauty, choosing to behold and simply be with them.<\/em>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mysl\u00edme si, \u017ee je rozumn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed l\u00e1sku n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem nep\u0159ij\u00edmat \u2013 \u017ee m\u00e1me hlavu v oblac\u00edch v dob\u011b, kdy pot\u0159ebujeme d\u011blat konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed v\u011bci. Nemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee l\u00e1ska vylu\u010duje konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. 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