Autorka a \u010dlenka t\u00fdmu CAC Cassidy Hallov\u00e1 se zam\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed nad cenou rozhodnut\u00ed z hanby a nad \u201etoxick\u00fdm tichem\u201c, kter\u00e9 vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00edce ne\u017e p\u011bt let jsem se aktivn\u011b \u00fa\u010dastnila jednoho z nejtoxi\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00edho ticha sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Byla jsem v romantick\u00e9m vztahu s n\u011bk\u00fdm, kdo se mnou necht\u011bl ve\u0159ejn\u011b chodit, proto\u017ee nebyl otev\u0159en\u00fd ohledn\u011b sv\u00e9 sexuality. Vyd\u00e1na na milost a nemilost pohodl\u00ed n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho \u2013 nebo sp\u00ed\u0161e jeho nedostatku \u2013 jsem se \u00fa\u010dastnila uml\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed sebe sama na ve\u0159ejn\u00fdch m\u00edstech, v p\u0159\u00edtomnosti \u010dlen\u016f rodiny, s p\u0159\u00e1teli, v pr\u00e1ci, dokonce i v obchod\u011b s potravinami\u2026 Tento druh ticha, zp\u016fsoben\u00fd hanbou, vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed dlouhodob\u00e9 \u0161kody a uzly, kter\u00e9 se budou rozvazovat po mnoho let. Ticho, kde l\u00e1ska nem\u016f\u017ee zv\u00edt\u011bzit, je m\u00edstem toxicity, m\u00edstem zakrn\u011bl\u00e9 existence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hall popisuje pozitivn\u00ed \u00fa\u010dinky \u201emiluj\u00edc\u00edho ticha\u201c kultivovan\u00e9ho kontemplativn\u00ed prax\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mus\u00edme pojmenovat toxick\u00e9 ticho jako ticho, kter\u00e9 zp\u016fsobuje na\u0161emu sv\u011btu \u00fajmu, stud, minimalizaci a \u0161kodu. A miluj\u00edc\u00ed ticho mus\u00edme pojmenovat jako ticho, kter\u00e9 je generativn\u00ed a kreativn\u00ed, ticho, kter\u00e9 prohlubuje na\u0161i jednotu se sebou sam\u00fdm a s ostatn\u00edmi \u2013 druh ticha, kter\u00e9 kultivuje rozs\u00e1hlej\u0161\u00ed a miluj\u00edc\u00ed sv\u011bt\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e jsem kone\u010dn\u011b odstoupila od k\u0159e\u010d\u010d\u00edho kola toxick\u00e9ho ticha v tomto vztahu, za\u010dala jsem si uv\u011bdomovat, jak jsem uml\u010dela i jin\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti sebe sama. Krom\u011b zp\u016fsob\u016f, jak\u00fdmi jsem skr\u00fdvala svou sexualitu, jsem skr\u00fdvala i \u010d\u00e1sti sebe sama, kter\u00e9 jsem inspirovala intuic\u00ed \u2013 m\u00edsta kreativity a \u017eivosti, m\u00edsta otev\u0159enosti a spole\u010denstv\u00ed, m\u00edsta jasnosti a klidu \u2013 v kone\u010dn\u00e9m d\u016fsledku m\u00edsta, kde miluj\u00edc\u00ed ticho vzkv\u00e9talo\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9m kontextu toxicita tich\u00fdch p\u0159ihl\u00ed\u017eej\u00edc\u00edch vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed a \u017eiv\u00ed nespo\u010det n\u00e1siln\u00fdch \u010din\u016f: sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed v mnoha c\u00edrkevn\u00edch prost\u0159ed\u00edch a jeho pokra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed skrze pr\u00e1zdn\u00e9 omluvy; nedostatek k\u0159es\u0165anstv\u00ed k vypo\u0159\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed se s histori\u00ed kolonizace; odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed denominac\u00ed ct\u00edt a povy\u0161ovat v\u016fd\u010d\u00ed postaven\u00ed a d\u016fstojnost \u017een, barevn\u00fdch lid\u00ed, uprchl\u00edk\u016f, lid\u00ed s posti\u017een\u00edm a lid\u00ed z jin\u00fdch marginalizovan\u00fdch komunit; kostely pln\u00e9 k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9ho nacionalismu a kultury b\u00edl\u00e9 nad\u0159azenosti; nespo\u010det p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f, kdy tich\u00e9 p\u0159ijet\u00ed \u0161patn\u00e9 teologie zp\u016fsobilo, \u017ee sebe LGBTQIA+ osoba nen\u00e1vid\u011bla nebo si ubli\u017eovala; a dal\u0161\u00ed. Toto je ticho ubli\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed, n\u00e1sil\u00ed, studu a toxicity\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Toxick\u00e9 ticho je zako\u0159en\u011bno v struktu\u0159e na\u0161eho ka\u017edodenn\u00edho \u017eivota\u2026 P\u0159esto lze tak\u00e9 usilovat o [kontemplativn\u00ed] l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 ticho a m\u016f\u017eeme ho hledat a nach\u00e1zet i v chaosu na\u0161ich dn\u016f. N\u011bkdy pronik\u00e1 s na\u0161\u00edm \u00fasil\u00edm opakovat vnit\u0159n\u00ed mantru nebo se \u00famysln\u011b zastavit, jindy se vl\u00e9v\u00e1 jako barevn\u00e9 rann\u00ed sv\u011btlo skrz okno orientovan\u00e9 na v\u00fdchod. Toto je kontemplativn\u00ed ticho, kter\u00e9 neust\u00e1le hled\u00e1m a praktikuji. Toto ticho regeneruje, reguluje, umo\u017e\u0148uje vznik l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edtomnosti a jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. \u010c\u00edm v\u00edce se v\u011bnujeme tich\u016fm, kter\u00e1 nejsou toxick\u00e1 \u2013 kr\u00e1sn\u00fdm, l\u00e1skypln\u00fdm a nekone\u010dn\u00fdm mo\u017enostem ticha \u2013 t\u00edm v\u00edce se s tichem setk\u00e1v\u00e1me jako s tvo\u0159ivou, generativn\u00ed silou, a nikoli s destruktivn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Cassidy Hall, Queering Contemplation:<\/em> Finding Queerness in the Roots and Future of Contemplative Spirituality<\/em> (Broadleaf Books, 2024), 40, 42, 43, 44.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Image Credit and Inspiration<\/strong>: Elianna Gill, untitled <\/em>(detail), 2023, photo, Unsplash<\/a>. Click here to enlarge image<\/a>. A group of people, regardless of background, welcome each other into community.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Toxick\u00e9 ticho (skr\u00fdv\u00e1n\u00ed) je zako\u0159en\u011bno v struktu\u0159e na\u0161eho ka\u017edodenn\u00edho \u017eivota\u2026 P\u0159esto lze tak\u00e9 usilovat o [kontemplativn\u00ed] l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 ticho a m\u016f\u017eeme ho hledat a nach\u00e1zet i v chaosu na\u0161ich dn\u016f. Toto ticho regeneruje, reguluje, umo\u017e\u0148uje vznik l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edtomnosti a jedn\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14147,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[401,2560,171],"class_list":["post-14173","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-kontemplace","tag-mlceni-o-chybach","tag-ticho","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14173","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14173"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14173\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14174,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14173\/revisions\/14174"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14147"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14173"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14173"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14173"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}