Rev. Dr. Jacqui Lewisov\u00e1 p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed o osvobozuj\u00edc\u00edm vlivu p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pokud jste rodi\u010d, jste p\u0159\u00edtomni p\u0159i d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fdch okam\u017eic\u00edch objevov\u00e1n\u00ed a r\u016fstu po celou dobu… M\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt moud\u0159\u00ed a tak\u00e9 \u010derpat moudrost od toho \u010dlov\u011bka, kter\u00fd se formuje p\u0159\u00edmo p\u0159ed va\u0161ima o\u010dima. Sledujte, pozorujte, sledujte, co se st\u00e1v\u00e1; oslavujte tajemstv\u00ed toho, co se odv\u00edj\u00ed. Ve\u010fte ho, jak nejl\u00e9pe um\u00edte, abyste zajistili jeho bezpe\u010dnost, a z\u00e1rove\u0148 vytvo\u0159te odv\u00e1\u017en\u00fd prostor, kde m\u016f\u017ee experimentovat a st\u00e1t se… Va\u0161e l\u00e1ska \u2013 va\u0161e velkorys\u00e1, v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 l\u00e1ska \u2013 obklop\u00ed va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b svobodou a sebed\u016fv\u011brou, aby mohlo b\u00fdt t\u00edm nejlep\u0161\u00edm, \u010d\u00edm m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt. Bude se vyh\u0159\u00edvat ve va\u0161\u00ed l\u00e1sce; ta se prom\u011bn\u00ed v l\u00e1sku k jeho vlastn\u00edmu jedine\u010dn\u00e9mu a \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9mu j\u00e1. Va\u0161e l\u00e1ska, hluboce p\u0159ijat\u00e1, umo\u017en\u00ed va\u0161emu d\u00edt\u011bti postavit se na vlastn\u00ed nohy a \u0159\u00edct: \u201eJsem dost dobr\u00fd; jsem milov\u00e1n.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V ka\u017ed\u00e9m vztahu n\u00e1s v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00e1 l\u00e1ska vede k p\u0159ekra\u010dov\u00e1n\u00ed hranic a bari\u00e9r, abychom se navz\u00e1jem objevovali, podporovali a uzdravovali. Kdy\u017e to d\u011bl\u00e1me, kdy\u017e se zbl\u00e1zn\u00edme l\u00e1skou a nab\u00edz\u00edme divokou laskavost sv\u00e9mu sousedovi p\u0159es ulici nebo na druh\u00e9m konci sv\u011bta, vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00edme mezi sebou nov\u00fd druh prostoru. Vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00edme prostor pro objevov\u00e1n\u00ed a zv\u011bdavost, pro u\u010den\u00ed a r\u016fst. Vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00edme prostor pro sd\u00edlen\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f a pro to, aby n\u00e1s to, co sd\u00edl\u00edme, zm\u011bnilo. Toto je prostor hranice oboj\u00edho. Je to druh prostoru, kde m\u016f\u017eeme obohatit sv\u00e9 pozn\u00e1n\u00ed t\u00edm, co v\u00ed ten druh\u00fd; m\u016f\u017eeme rozv\u00edjet tento druh pozn\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00fd W. E. B. Du Bois nazval \u201edvoj\u00ed v\u011bdom\u00ed\u201c. M\u016f\u017eeme se nau\u010dit vid\u011bt sv\u011bt nejen skrze na\u0161e vlastn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, skrze na\u0161e vlastn\u00ed o\u010di, ale tak\u00e9 skrze p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy a sv\u011btov\u00fd n\u00e1zor takzvan\u00e9ho druh\u00e9ho. Toto je ten druh prostoru, kter\u00fd n\u00e1s m\u011bn\u00ed, kter\u00fd rozv\u00edj\u00ed empatii, toto je ubuntu\u2026. Mus\u00edme prost\u011b otev\u0159\u00edt o\u010di, pod\u00edvat se p\u0159es m\u00edstnost, ulici, rozd\u011blen\u00ed, hranici \u2013 a nat\u00e1hnout ruku k tomu sousedovi, nab\u00eddnout mu na\u0161i ruku, n\u00e1\u0161 soucit a na\u0161e srdce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Lewis uzn\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 milovat i ty, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou n\u00e1m nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed, kdy\u017e nespl\u0148uj\u00ed na\u0161e o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V\u00edte, co by mohlo b\u00fdt nejrizikov\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, nejnepohodln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, nejv\u00edce srdce roz\u0161i\u0159uj\u00edc\u00ed a hranice p\u0159ekra\u010duj\u00edc\u00ed prac\u00ed ze v\u0161ech? Milovat ty nemo\u017en\u00e9 lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou s v\u00e1mi p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00ed, by mohlo b\u00fdt t\u00edm, co v\u00e1s prov\u011b\u0159\u00ed nejv\u00edce. Pr\u00e1v\u011b tam, ve va\u0161em dom\u011b, kde \u017eij\u00ed va\u0161i nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed soused\u00e9, jsou lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u00e1m lezou na nervy. Va\u0161e dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 ka\u017ed\u00fd den bojuje s t\u00edm, k\u00fdm je, a to natolik, \u017ee ho chcete u\u0161krtit. V\u00e1\u0161 syn, kter\u00fd se vr\u00e1til do hn\u00edzda, proto\u017ee si nem\u016f\u017ee dovolit vlastn\u00ed bydlen\u00ed… V\u00e1\u0161 man\u017eel nebo man\u017eelka, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u00e1m ukazuj\u00ed str\u00e1nky sv\u00e9 osobnosti, kv\u016fli kter\u00fdm m\u00e1te chu\u0165 sbalit si kufry a odej\u00edt… I tito bl\u00edzc\u00ed soused\u00e9 pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed b\u00fdt milov\u00e1ni. I kdy\u017e s nimi nesouhlas\u00edte, i kdy\u017e je nem\u016f\u017eete zm\u011bnit, kdy\u017e je milujete p\u0159es hranice rozd\u00edl\u016f, kdy\u017e je p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1te s laskavost\u00ed, milujete je intenzivn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jacqui Lewis,\u202fFierce Love: A Bold Path to Ferocious Courage and Rule-Breaking Kindness That Can Heal the World <\/em>(Harmony Books, 2021), 109\u2013110, 111\u2013112.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit and inspiration<\/strong>: Beth Macdonald, untitled <\/em>(detail), 2022, photo, Unsplash<\/a>. Click here to enlarge image<\/a>. An estuary reveals a world that is more than just land or water, but something beyond them both<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Milovat ty nemo\u017en\u00e9 lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou s v\u00e1mi p\u0159\u00edbuzn\u00ed, by mohlo b\u00fdt t\u00edm, co v\u00e1s prov\u011b\u0159\u00ed nejv\u00edce. Pr\u00e1v\u011b tam, ve va\u0161em dom\u011b, kde \u017eij\u00ed va\u0161i nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed soused\u00e9, jsou lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u00e1m lezou na nervy. Va\u0161e dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b, kter\u00e9 ka\u017ed\u00fd den bojuje s t\u00edm, k\u00fdm je, a to natolik, \u017ee ho chcete u\u0161krtit. V\u00e1\u0161 syn, kter\u00fd se vr\u00e1til do hn\u00edzda, proto\u017ee si nem\u016f\u017ee dovolit vlastn\u00ed bydlen\u00ed… V\u00e1\u0161 man\u017eel nebo man\u017eelka, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u00e1m ukazuj\u00ed str\u00e1nky sv\u00e9 osobnosti, kv\u016fli kter\u00fdm m\u00e1te chu\u0165 sbalit si kufry a odej\u00edt… I tito bl\u00edzc\u00ed soused\u00e9 pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed b\u00fdt milov\u00e1ni. I kdy\u017e s nimi nesouhlas\u00edte, i kdy\u017e je nem\u016f\u017eete zm\u011bnit, kdy\u017e je milujete p\u0159es hranice rozd\u00edl\u016f, kdy\u017e je p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1te s laskavost\u00ed, milujete je intenzivn\u011b. (Rev. Dr. Jacqui Lewis)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14440,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[2648,2646,2647],"class_list":["post-14449","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-laska-bez-podminek","tag-pribvuzni","tag-puberta","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14449","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14449"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14449\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14450,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14449\/revisions\/14450"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14440"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14449"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14449"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14449"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}