Jak ch\u00e1pat intimitu? Co n\u00e1m br\u00e1n\u00ed pro\u017e\u00edvat d\u016fv\u011brn\u00fd vztah s Bohem a mezi sebou navz\u00e1jem? N\u011bkter\u00e9 odpov\u011bdi n\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 Richard Rohr:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u016fv\u011brn\u00fd vztah m\u016f\u017eeme popsat jako na\u0161i schopnost b\u00fdt v n\u011b\u017en\u00e9 bl\u00edzkosti druh\u00e9mu . Intimita vznik\u00e1 ve chv\u00edl\u00edch d\u016fv\u011brn\u00fdch sd\u011blen\u00ed. Intimita otev\u0159e sv\u00e9 dve\u0159e a pust\u00ed druh\u00e9ho k n\u00e1m dovnit\u0159. D\u016fv\u011brn\u00fd vztah se sna\u017e\u00ed vybudovat l\u00e1sku a proto n\u011bkdy odhal\u00ed na\u0161\u00ed neschopnost l\u00e1sku druh\u00e9mu vracet (v m\u00ed\u0159e jak by si j\u00ed druh\u00fd zaslou\u017eil). Do intimity nelze vej\u00edt, ani\u017e bychom neporazili ochrannou ze\u010f kolem n\u00e1s. Otev\u0159i sv\u00e9 hlub\u0161\u00ed j\u00e1 druh\u00e9mu a dovolit druh\u00e9mu tam vej\u00edt<\/p>\n\n\n\n Lidsk\u00e1 i bo\u017esk\u00e1 intimita je vz\u00e1cn\u00fd jev. Pro \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9ho z n\u00e1s nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00e9 b\u00fdt druh\u00e9mu p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nabl\u00edzko. Pro lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed se pova\u017euj\u00ed za d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je to je\u0161t\u011b t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed. M<\/em>aj\u00ed pot\u0159ebu chr\u00e1nit si svoje hranice, v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e9 bl\u00edzkosti \u00fato\u010dit a ned\u00e1vat nikdy najevo zn\u00e1mky slabosti nebo nedostatku. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee B\u016fh za\u010dal pom\u00e1hat zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b mu\u017e\u016fm rozmrazovat jejich osobnostn\u00ed bari\u00e9ru z ledu t\u00edm, \u017ee p\u0159i\u0161el v mu\u017esk\u00e9 podob\u011b. Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 tak odhalil samotn\u00e9 mu\u017estv\u00ed jako bezbrann\u00e9 a zraniteln\u00e9. I mu\u017ei pot\u0159ebuj\u00edc\u00ed n\u011bhu. A proto n\u00e1s u\u010dil, \u017ee intimn\u00ed tajemstv\u00ed Boha se p\u0159ed\u00e1v\u00e1 skrze „mali\u010dk\u00e9“ a „chud\u00e9 v duchu“. I on se takov\u00fdm stal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mnoz\u00ed z n\u00e1s se boj\u00ed intimity. D\u00e1v\u00e1me si pozor odhalovat svoji nejhlub\u0161\u00ed identitu jin\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku. A ani Bohu. P\u0159esto existuj\u00ed lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed se intimity neboj\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed sebe neskr\u00fdvaj\u00ed p\u0159ed zraky ostatn\u00edch. V\u0161imn\u011bte si, \u017ee jsou v\u017edy \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a realisti\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Maj\u00ed v\u00edce sil pom\u00e1hat druh\u00fdm k d\u016fv\u011brn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed bl\u00edzkosti. Otev\u0159enost jim dovoluje b\u00fdt sami sebou. Lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed se otev\u0159enosti vyh\u00fdbaj\u00ed b\u00fdvaj\u00ed naopak uv\u011bzn\u011bni jen v mal\u00e9m a ohrani\u010den\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b. Do \u0159\u00ed\u0161e lidsk\u00e9 i bo\u017esk\u00e9 l\u00e1sky lze vstoupit jen intim<\/em>n\u00edm vztahem.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Na\u0161e touha po intimit\u011b m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt napln\u011bna pouze tehdy, kdy\u017e zm\u00edrn\u00edme svoji ostra\u017eitost v\u016f\u010di druh\u00fdm<\/em> ( terapeutu jett Psaris a Marlena Lyons )<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tou\u017e\u00edme milovat z cel\u00e9ho otev\u0159en\u00e9ho srdce a p\u0159ejeme si b\u00fdt milov\u00e1ni bez podm\u00ednek a bez v\u00fdhrad. Jak toho dos\u00e1hnout? Hlavn\u011b t\u00edm, \u017ee usilujeme o pozn\u00e1n\u00ed sebe sama a objeven\u00ed m\u00edst, kde jsme zraniteln\u00ed. \u010c\u00edm v\u00edce do hloubky pozn\u00e1me sami sebe, t\u00edm siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed bude na\u0161e schopnost m\u00edt d\u016fv\u011brn\u00fd vztah s druh\u00fdmi. Touha po l\u00e1sce n\u00e1m pom\u00e1h\u00e1 p\u0159ekonat<\/em> odpor, strach a z\u00edskat v\u00edce odvahy uvid\u011bt, \u010d\u00edm jsme v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00ed a v \u010dem jsme jedine\u010dn\u00ed. Jakmile se otev\u0159eme d\u016fv\u011brn\u011bj\u0161\u00edm vztah\u016fm , objev\u00edme i sami sebe.. [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Otec Richard uzav\u00edr\u00e1:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u0161ichni tou\u017e\u00edme po opravdov\u00e9 a d\u016fv\u011brn\u00e9 l\u00e1sce. Na\u0161e touha je uvnit\u0159 n\u00e1s samotn\u00fdch. Mus\u00edme siln\u011b zatou\u017eit milovat a b\u00fdt milov\u00e1ni \u2013 jinak nikdy nedojdeme k podivuhodn\u00e9mu m\u00edstu intimity a nikdy nenajdeme sv\u00e9 prav\u00e9 J\u00e1. B\u016fh n\u00e1s sv\u00e1zal k sob\u011b touhou po intimn\u00edm vztahu s n\u00edm a vetkal do n\u00e1s bezednou a nekone\u010dnou pot\u0159ebu b\u00fdt milov\u00e1n a z\u00e1rove\u0148 i milovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n [1] Jett Psaris and Marlena S. Lyons, Undefended Love<\/u><\/em> (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 2000), 14, 15. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Adapted from Richard Rohr, Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self<\/u><\/a><\/em> (San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass, 2013), 159\u2013160, 171\u2013172, 174. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit:<\/u><\/strong> Barbara Holmes, Untitled 1<\/u><\/em> (detail), 2021, photograph, United States, used with permission. Jack Delano, View of crowd dancing to the music of „Red“ Sounders and his band, at the Club DeLisa, Chicago, Illinois<\/u><\/em> (detail), 1942, photograph<\/u><\/a>, New York Public Library, public domain. Nathan Dumlao, Untitled<\/u><\/em>, 2020 (detail), photograph<\/u><\/a>, Unsplash, free use<\/u><\/a>. Jenna Keiper and Leslye Colvin, 2021, triptych art, United States.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The creative team at CAC sent a single-use camera to core teacher Dr. Barbara Holmes as part of an exploration into contemplative photography. Her photos are featured here together with historical images in a form inspired by early Christian\/Catholic triptych art: a threefold form that tells a unified story. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Image inspiration:<\/u><\/strong> In the center photo we see two bushes, separate but entwined, touching and sharing space. Human intimacy requires us to come as ourselves, undefended, co-creating a space for connection. Friends, lovers, communities who share raw hopes for change: we welcome each other into the intimacy of authentic presence.<\/u><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" V\u0161ichni tou\u017e\u00edme po opravdov\u00e9 a d\u016fv\u011brn\u00e9 l\u00e1sce. Na\u0161e touha je uvnit\u0159 n\u00e1s samotn\u00fdch. Mus\u00edme siln\u011b zatou\u017eit milovat a b\u00fdt milov\u00e1ni \u2013 jinak nikdy nedojdeme k podivuhodn\u00e9mu m\u00edstu intimity a nikdy nenajdeme sv\u00e9 prav\u00e9 J\u00e1. B\u016fh n\u00e1s sv\u00e1zal k sob\u011b touhou po intimn\u00edm vztahu s n\u00edm a vetkal do n\u00e1s bezednou a nekone\u010dnou pot\u0159ebu b\u00fdt milov\u00e1n a z\u00e1rove\u0148 i milovat.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3562,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[347],"class_list":["post-3561","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-intimita","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3561","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3561"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3561\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3564,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3561\/revisions\/3564"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3562"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3561"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3561"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3561"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}B\u00fdt druh\u00fdm bl\u00ed\u017e<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Zbo\u0159it ochrann\u00e9 valy<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
V\u00edce se otev\u0159\u00edt<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Objevme na\u0161e skryt\u00e1 bolestiv\u00e1 m\u00edsta<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
P\u0159irozen\u00e1 touha milovat a b\u00fdt milov\u00e1n\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny<\/h5>\n\n\n\n