Skute\u010dnou intimitu m\u016f\u017eeme za\u017e\u00edt jen tehdy, kdy\u017e se neboj\u00edme b\u00fdt zraniteln\u00ed(Richard Rohr)<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Minule jsme odhalili velk\u00e9 tajemstv\u00ed: V\u011b\u010dn\u00fd B\u016fh tou\u017e\u00ed po intimit\u011b s lidskou du\u0161\u00ed a vyhled\u00e1v\u00e1 j\u00ed. U\u017e jste intimitu za\u017eili? Takov\u00e9 setk\u00e1n\u00ed s Bohem lze popsat pouze intimn\u00edm jazykem milenc\u016f : tajemstv\u00ed, n\u011bha, jedine\u010dnost, zvl\u00e1\u0161tnost, nahota, riziko, ext\u00e1ze, neutuchaj\u00edc\u00ed touha a samoz\u0159ejm\u011b tak\u00e9 utrpen\u00ed. To jsou slova z mystick\u00e9ho slovn\u00edku svat\u00fdch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Intimn\u00ed z\u00e1\u017eitek vznik\u00e1 tehdy, kdy\u017e odhal\u00edme sv\u00e1 tajemstv\u00ed a sv\u00e9 touhy ostatn\u00edm. Nebo je p\u0159izn\u00e1me sami sob\u011b. D\u011bje se tak \u010dasto v atmosf\u00e9\u0159e smutku, selh\u00e1n\u00ed a nebo touhy ukr\u00fdt se bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 n\u00e1ru\u010di l\u00e1sky. Kdy\u017e sv\u011b\u0159\u00edme sv\u00e1 tajemstv\u00ed druh\u00fdm doch\u00e1z\u00ed na obou stran\u00e1ch k obohacen\u00ed. Osobnosti obou povyrostou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A stejn\u011b tak intimn\u00ed vztah s Bohem vznikne jedin\u011b tehdy, kdy\u017e mu sv\u00e9 city odhal\u00edme. B\u016fh n\u00e1m na opl\u00e1tku zjev\u00ed sv\u016fj vnit\u0159ek. Pot\u00ed\u017ee s t\u00edm maj\u00ed lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed se spol\u00e9haj\u00ed jen na sebe. Neodhal\u00ed sebe a Tajemstv\u00ed Bo\u017e\u00ed l\u00e1sky jim tak\u00e9 nen\u00ed odhaleno. Je odhaleno pouze t\u011bm, co maj\u00ed touhu a odvahu milovat. Miluj\u00edc\u00ed lid\u00e9 v\u00ed jak p\u0159ij\u00edmat touhy a pot\u0159eby milovan\u00fdch. Um\u00ed je p\u0159ijmout a nemaj\u00ed touhu intimitu druh\u00e9ho zneu\u017e\u00edt. Oba milenci jsou otev\u0159en\u00ed k d\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Oba si vz\u00e1jemn\u011b p\u0159izn\u00e1vaj\u00ed svoji touhu a vyzn\u00e1vaj\u00ed se z n\u00ed, ukazuj\u00ed pr\u00e1zdn\u00e9 m\u00edsto kter\u00e9 maj\u00ed pro druh\u00e9ho . A pr\u00e1v\u011b to \u017ee p\u0159izn\u00e1vaj\u00ed pr\u00e1zdnotu, \u017ee j\u00ed nab\u00edz\u00ed k napln\u011bn\u00ed, pr\u00e1v\u011b to je pro jejich vz\u00e1jemnou l\u00e1sku z\u00e1chrannou s\u00edt\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Zapln\u011bnost si l\u00e1sku nem\u016f\u017ee dovolit, proto\u017ee ji nem\u00e1 kam vlo\u017eit. Nenab\u00edz\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 v\u00fd\u010dn\u011blky, kde by se mohla uchytit. Plnost proto ned\u00e1v\u00e1 a ani nebere. Nevlastn\u00ed hlad a pr\u00e1zdnotu po l\u00e1sce. Jestli\u017ee odhal\u00edme svoji zranitelnost, svoj\u00ed nenapln\u011bnost a pr\u00e1zdnotu d\u00e1v\u00e1me na\u0161\u00ed du\u0161i velk\u00fd n\u00e1skok na cest\u011b k intimit\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mystikov\u00e9 osobn\u011b za\u017eili intimitu s Bohem. Byli Bohem vpu\u0161t\u011bni do velk\u00e9ho a podivuhodn\u00e9ho tajemstv\u00ed. Ti kdo intimn\u00ed vztah s Bohem neza\u017eili, je mo\u017en\u00e1 naz\u00fdvaj\u00ed troufal\u00fdmi, po\u0161etil\u00fdmi \u010di dokonce arogantn\u00edmi. Bo\u017e\u00ed tajemstv\u00ed v sob\u011b ukr\u00fdv\u00e1 v\u0161echny drahokamy moudrosti a pozn\u00e1n\u00ed (Kolosk\u00fdm 2:3).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Velk\u00e9 Tajemstv\u00ed b\u00fdv\u00e1 odhaleno jen lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed p\u0159ed Bohem nic neskr\u00fdvaj\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou ochotni p\u0159ijmout sebe sama a neboj\u00ed se odkr\u00fdt p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm p\u0159ed jednou dal\u0161\u00ed osobou. Ano je to riskantn\u00ed, ale je to jedin\u00fd zp\u016fsob jak za\u017e\u00edvat intimn\u00ed l\u00e1sku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee slovo intimita poch\u00e1z\u00ed z latinsk\u00e9ho intimus – <\/em>uvnit\u0159 nebo intern\u00ed. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee existuje je\u0161t\u011b star\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdznam (byl nalezen na mal\u00e9m ostrov\u011b Timor) a m\u011bl v\u00fdznam – v zajet\u00ed strachu. V obou p\u0159\u00edpadech je pointa jasn\u00e1. Intimita nast\u00e1v\u00e1, kdy\u017e odhalujeme sv\u016fj intimn\u00ed vnit\u0159ek, i p\u0159es to, \u017ee p\u0159ekon\u00e1v\u00e1me strach ze zran\u011bn\u00ed. Nikdy dop\u0159edu nev\u00edme, zda druh\u00e1 osoba p\u0159ijme to, co jsme j\u00ed odhalili, zda n\u00e1s bude respektovat, nebo naopak od n\u00e1s ute\u010de. Mus\u00edme b\u00fdt p\u0159ipraveni i na odm\u00edtnut\u00ed. Intimita je v\u017edy tak\u00e9 riziko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Adapted from Richard Rohr, Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self<\/u><\/a><\/em> (San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2013), 164\u2013165, 166, 167, 168\u2013169.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit:<\/u><\/strong> Barbara Holmes, Untitled 1<\/u><\/em> (detail), 2021, photograph, United States, used with permission. Jack Delano, View of crowd dancing to the music of „Red“ Sounders and his band, at the Club DeLisa, Chicago, Illinois<\/u><\/em> (detail), 1942, photograph<\/u><\/a>, New York Public Library, public domain. Nathan Dumlao, Untitled<\/u><\/em>, 2020 (detail), photograph<\/u><\/a>, Unsplash, free use<\/u><\/a>. Jenna Keiper and Leslye Colvin, 2021, triptych art, United States.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The creative team at CAC sent a single-use camera to core teacher Dr. Barbara Holmes as part of an exploration into contemplative photography. Her photos are featured here together with historical images in a form inspired by early Christian\/Catholic triptych art: a threefold form that tells a unified story. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Image inspiration:<\/u><\/strong> In the center photo we see two bushes, separate but entwined, touching and sharing space. Human intimacy requires us to come as ourselves, undefended, co-creating a space for connection. Friends, lovers, communities who share raw hopes for change: we welcome each other into the intimacy of authentic presence.<\/u><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Velk\u00e9 Tajemstv\u00ed b\u00fdv\u00e1 odhaleno jen lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed p\u0159ed Bohem nic neskr\u00fdvaj\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou ochotni p\u0159ijmout sebe sama a neboj\u00ed se odkr\u00fdt p\u0159inejmen\u0161\u00edm p\u0159ed jednou dal\u0161\u00ed osobou. Ano je to riskantn\u00ed, ale je to jedin\u00fd zp\u016fsob jak za\u017e\u00edvat intimn\u00ed l\u00e1sku.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3562,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[347,349],"class_list":["post-3568","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-intimita","tag-zranitelnost","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3568","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3568"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3568\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3571,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3568\/revisions\/3571"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3562"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3568"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3568"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3568"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Intimita v jazyku milenc\u016f<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Intimita vznik\u00e1 odhalen\u00edm sebe<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Intimita s Bohem<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Odemknout dve\u0159e do intimity<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
P\u0159ijmout velk\u00e9 tajemstv\u00ed intimity<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Neboj se riskovat kv\u016fli intimit\u011b<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Neboj se odhalit sv\u00e1 tajemstv\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny<\/h5>\n\n\n\n