{"id":3583,"date":"2022-02-25T12:23:18","date_gmt":"2022-02-25T11:23:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=3583"},"modified":"2022-02-25T12:28:30","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T11:28:30","slug":"prilezitosti-k-posileni-intimity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2022\/02\/25\/prilezitosti-k-posileni-intimity\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti k pos\u00edlen\u00ed intimity"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Osm\u00fd t\u00fdden: intimita<\/h5>\n\n\n\n

\u010c\u00edm v\u00edce si uv\u011bdomujeme sv\u00e1 selh\u00e1n\u00ed, t\u00edm v\u00edce tou\u017e\u00edme po napln\u011bn\u00ed nekone\u010dnou bo\u017eskou radost\u00ed. Tak jsme toti\u017e stvo\u0159eni.<\/em>\u2014Juli\u00e1na z Norwiche, Zjeven\u00ed Bo\u017esk\u00e9 L\u00e1sky, <\/em>kapitola 8<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Man\u017eelstv\u00ed a p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed jsou plodn\u00fdm v\u00fdcvikov\u00fdm prostorem pro intimitu s Bohem i s lidmi. Richard Rohr p\u00ed\u0161e:  <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

U\u017e jsi za\u017eil, \u017ee jsi milov\u00e1n bez podm\u00ednek?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

V\u0161ichni pot\u0159ebujeme za\u017e\u00edt zku\u0161enost s bezpodm\u00edne\u010dnou l\u00e1skou. Bez osobn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti s bezpodm\u00edne\u010dnou l\u00e1skou, kter\u00e1 za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me v dobr\u00e9m man\u017eelstv\u00ed nebo v bl\u00edzk\u00e9m p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, je t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 v\u011b\u0159it v Bo\u017e\u00ed bezpodm\u00edne\u010dnou l\u00e1sku. N\u00e1\u0161 p\u0159\u00edtel nebo partner n\u00e1m neust\u00e1le nastavuje zrcadlo a ukazuje n\u00e1m na\u0161i dobrou i \u0161patnou str\u00e1nku a p\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 n\u00e1m, \u017ee jsme se je\u0161t\u011b nenau\u010dili milovat. Setk\u00e1v\u00e1me se tak tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 s nekone\u010dn\u00fdm tajemstv\u00edm, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s uji\u0161\u0165uje, \u017ee je podle n\u011bj t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 \u017e\u00edt. Proto Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 \u0159ekl \u017ee si i dob\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed , „sedmdes\u00e1tkr\u00e1t sedmkr\u00e1t“ navz\u00e1jem odpustit. V podstat\u011b nekone\u010dn\u00e9 odpou\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na\u0161e selh\u00e1n\u00ed spolu s velkou l\u00e1skou vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed pevn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed intimitu<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Evangelium n\u00e1m (na\u0161t\u011bst\u00ed) \u017eehn\u00e1 uji\u0161t\u011bn\u00edm, \u017ee \u017eijeme uprost\u0159ed hojn\u00e9, neomezen\u00e9 a nekone\u010dn\u00e9 L\u00e1sky. I kdy\u017e budeme neust\u00e1le selh\u00e1vat, selh\u00e1n\u00edm to nikdy nekon\u010d\u00ed. \u017dijeme v nad\u011bji, \u017ee v\u0161e m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt napraveno, uzdraveno a obnoveno. Nakonec svar na kovov\u00e9 ty\u010di m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt jej\u00ed nejsiln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st\u00ed. Je to roz\u0159\u00edznut\u00ed a pak sva\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed a oprava, kter\u00e9 vytv\u00e1\u0159ej\u00ed skute\u010dnou kr\u00e1su vztahu. Je to tanec intimity: pros\u00edme jeden druh\u00e9ho o odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, kdy\u017e znovu vyzn\u00e1v\u00e1me, \u017ee jsme op\u011bt jednali \u0161patn\u011b. Nemus\u00edme z toho b\u00fdt p\u0159ekvapen\u00ed nebo se za to trestat. Ale vlastn\u011b to tak v\u0161ichni. Sakra, u\u017e jsem zase nemiloval spr\u00e1vn\u011b! Jak mohu tolikr\u00e1t zklamat?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u011bdom\u00ed zranitelnosti n\u00e1s pos\u00edl\u00ed k p\u0159irozenosti l\u00e1sky<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee to co d\u011bl\u00e1me spr\u00e1vn\u011b n\u00e1s nenau\u010d\u00ed zranitelnosti. Zranitelnosti se u\u010d\u00edme pr\u00e1v\u011b kdy\u017e se m\u00fdl\u00edme. Pr\u00e1v\u011b tehdy si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, jak se propad\u00e1me do n\u011b\u010deho nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9ho. Do trval\u00e9 zranitelnosti a do neust\u00e1l\u00e9ho rizika. Nen\u00ed to n\u011bco mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9ho \u2013 jen tu a tam. Zranitelnost se nakonec se stane na\u0161\u00ed druhou p\u0159irozenost\u00ed. Bude pro n\u00e1s p\u0159irozen\u00e9 se omluvit , p\u0159iznat, \u017ee se m\u00fdl\u00edme, po\u017e\u00e1dat o odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, ale nebudeme sami sebe kv\u016fli tomu nen\u00e1vid\u011bt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cesta skrze lidskou a Bo\u017e\u00ed intimitu <\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Bo\u017esk\u00e1 intimita a lidsk\u00e1 intimita sd\u00edlej\u00ed stejnou dynamiku. V\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee jednou se u\u010d\u00edme t\u00e9 druh\u00e9. V\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s za\u010dala nejprve pozn\u00e1vat lidskou intimitu a skrze n\u00ed sm\u011b\u0159uje k bo\u017esk\u00e9 intimit\u011b. Ale v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee existuje i n\u011bkolik du\u0161\u00ed, kter\u00e9 se nejprve setkali s Bohem. U n\u011bj se u\u010dili b\u00fdt zraniteln\u00ed. A pak svoji zku\u0161enost p\u0159enesli i do lidsk\u00fdch vztah\u016f. Mne tomu u\u010dili moji nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00ed. Jsou to Terezie z Lisieux a Juliana z Norwiche. P\u0159inesly mi skv\u011blou mystiku a ob\u011b jsou \u017eeny. Zd\u00e1 se mi proto, \u017ee \u017eeny nebo i mu\u017ei, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou v bl\u00edzk\u00e9m kontaktu se svou \u017eenskou str\u00e1nkou osobnosti, jsou v\u00edce p\u0159ipraveny na intimitu, vz\u00e1jemnost a zranitelnost. A mo\u017en\u00e1 \u017ee intimita a zranitelnost je nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed poselstv\u00ed pro v\u0161echny v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Prameny:<\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Adapted from Richard Rohr: Essential Teachings on Love<\/u><\/a><\/em>, selected by Joelle Chase and Judy Traeger (Maryknoll, NY: Orbis Books, 2018), 149\u2013150.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Image credit:<\/u><\/strong> Barbara Holmes, Untitled 1<\/u><\/em> (detail), 2021, photograph, United States, used with permission. Jack Delano, View of crowd dancing to the music of „Red“ Sounders and his band, at the Club DeLisa, Chicago, Illinois<\/u><\/em> (detail), 1942, photograph<\/u><\/a>, New York Public Library, public domain. Nathan Dumlao, Untitled<\/u><\/em>, 2020 (detail), photograph<\/u><\/a>, Unsplash, free use<\/u><\/a>. Jenna Keiper and Leslye Colvin, 2021, triptych art, United States.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The creative team at CAC sent a single-use camera to core teacher Dr. Barbara Holmes as part of an exploration into contemplative photography. Her photos are featured here together with historical images in a form inspired by early Christian\/Catholic triptych art: a threefold form that tells a unified story. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Image inspiration:<\/u><\/strong> In the center photo we see two bushes, separate but entwined, touching and sharing space. Human intimacy requires us to come as ourselves, undefended, co-creating a space for connection. Friends, lovers, communities who share raw hopes for change: we welcome each other into the intimacy of authentic presence.<\/u><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee to co d\u011bl\u00e1me spr\u00e1vn\u011b n\u00e1s nenau\u010d\u00ed zranitelnosti. Zranitelnosti se u\u010d\u00edme pr\u00e1v\u011b kdy\u017e se m\u00fdl\u00edme. Pr\u00e1v\u011b tehdy si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, jak se propad\u00e1me do n\u011b\u010deho nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9ho. Do trval\u00e9 zranitelnosti a do neust\u00e1l\u00e9ho rizika. Nen\u00ed to n\u011bco mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9ho \u2013 jen tu a tam. Zranitelnost se nakonec se stane na\u0161\u00ed druhou p\u0159irozenost\u00ed. Bude pro n\u00e1s p\u0159irozen\u00e9 se omluvit , p\u0159iznat, \u017ee se m\u00fdl\u00edme, po\u017e\u00e1dat o odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, ale nebudeme sami sebe kv\u016fli tomu nen\u00e1vid\u011bt.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3562,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[349],"class_list":["post-3583","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-zranitelnost","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3583","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3583"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3583\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3588,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3583\/revisions\/3588"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3562"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3583"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3583"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3583"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}