Zp\u0159\u00edstupnit sebe<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Odhalme sebe sama a\u017e do hlubin sv\u00e9ho nezkrotn\u00e9ho byt\u00ed. Odhalme sebe druh\u00fdm. Milujme beze strachu a budeme milov\u00e1ni bez z\u00e1bran, bez obrann\u00e9ho valu. Za\u010dn\u011bme b\u00fdt emocion\u00e1ln\u011b otev\u0159en\u00ed. Je pravda, \u017ee se p\u0159itom budeme c\u00edtit odhalen\u00ed a budeme m\u00edt obavy ze zranitelnosti. P\u0159estaneme v\u0161ak vym\u00fd\u0161let zbyte\u010dn\u00e9 strategie, kter\u00e9 jsme pou\u017e\u00edvali k ochran\u011b sv\u00e9 intimity, kv\u016fli tomu abychom se c\u00edtili v bezpe\u010d\u00ed a m\u011bli v\u0161e pod kontrolou. Nalezn\u011bme v sob\u011b odvahu milovat, p\u0159esto \u017ee se n\u00e1m nedost\u00e1v\u00e1 z\u00e1ruk nebo spln\u011bn\u00ed na\u0161ich po\u017eadavk\u016f. Budeme-li se u\u010dit otev\u0159en\u00e9 intimit\u011b, objev\u00edme, \u017ee l\u00e1ska m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt trvale p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00e1 v na\u0161ich emoc\u00edch a p\u0159estaneme se c\u00edtit ne\u00fapln\u00ed, nemilovan\u00ed a m\u00edt ztuhl\u00e9 emoce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zru\u0161it svoje obrann\u00e9 syst\u00e9my<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
V\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s pou\u017e\u00edvala obranu a ochranu sv\u00fdch emoc\u00ed pop mnoho let, a\u017e jsme \u00fapln\u011b ztratili p\u0159\u00edstup ke sv\u00e9mu srdci, zapomn\u011bli jsme jak milovat bez ochrany. St\u00e1le \u010dek\u00e1me na prav\u00e9 okolnosti, hled\u00e1me spr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho partnera, na ten spr\u00e1vn\u00fd okam\u017eik, aby se n\u00e1m nic nestalo. M\u016f\u017eeme tak \u010dekat do nekone\u010dna a promarnit p\u0159\u00edtomnou p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost, kter\u00e1 tu zrovna je\u2026.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Otev\u0159\u00edt vr\u00e1tka do sv\u00e9 intimity<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e se odhal\u00edme, kdy\u017e budeme milov\u00e1ni pro na\u0161i otev\u0159enost, kter\u00e1 je sice zraniteln\u00e1, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 vzru\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed, kdy\u017e se rozhodneme pozn\u00e1vat a milovat druh\u00e9ho zcela bez v\u00fdhrad, takov\u00e9ho jak\u00fd je, nalezneme centrum intimity. Na\u0161e cesta je sice zat\u00ed\u017eena minulost\u00ed, zklam\u00e1n\u00edm, strachem z dal\u0161\u00edho selh\u00e1n\u00ed, ale my u\u017e nyn\u00ed d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujeme sv\u00e9mu srdci. Srdce n\u00e1s povede a\u017e za na\u0161e sou\u010dasn\u00e1 omezen\u00ed , p\u0159ekon\u00e1 na\u0161i obranu a my pozn\u00e1me sebe sama a druh\u00e9 na \u00farovni zranitelnosti, a autenti\u010dnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dovol druh\u00fdm vid\u011bt<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e si dovol\u00edme b\u00fdt druh\u00fdmi pozn\u00e1ni a milov\u00e1ni, kdy\u017e budeme otev\u0159en\u00ed, a\u010dkoliv se c\u00edt\u00edme zraniteln\u00ed , bude vzru\u0161uj\u00edc\u00ed se rozhodnout poznat a milovat druh\u00e9ho, tak\u00e9 zcela a bez v\u00fdhrad, tehdy dosp\u011bjeme k epicentru intimity. M\u016f\u017eeme se vydat na cestu sice zat\u00ed\u017eenou minul\u00fdmi zklam\u00e1n\u00edmi a strachem z dal\u0161\u00edch selh\u00e1n\u00ed, ale z\u00edsk\u00e1me velkou d\u016fv\u011bru ve sv\u00e9 srdce. Srdce n\u00e1s provede a\u017e za na\u0161e sou\u010dasn\u00e9 limity a obrann\u00e9 linie, a my pozn\u00e1me opravdov\u00e9 sebe a druh\u00e9 na na\u0161ich nejzraniteln\u011bj\u0161\u00edch a autentick\u00fdch \u00farovn\u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Navzdory tomu, \u010deho se n\u011bkdy boj\u00edme, Psaris a Lyons tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee opravdov\u00e1 intimita n\u00e1s dovede k v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed svobod\u011b b\u00fdt t\u00edm, k\u00fdm jsme. Svoji identitu neztrat\u00edme, naopak j\u00ed z\u00edsk\u00e1me.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Intimita je o svobod\u011b b\u00fdt sami sebou. Na\u0161e skute\u010dn\u00e1 emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed svoboda znamen\u00e1, \u017ee ji\u017e nepot\u0159ebujeme potvrzen\u00ed, souhlas nebo schv\u00e1len\u00ed od druh\u00fdch. Jsme sami sebou. Zn\u00e1me svou vnit\u0159n\u00ed hodnotu, jsme schopni b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00edtomni takov\u00ed jac\u00ed jsme i ostatn\u00edmi a nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed p\u0159itom na okolnostech. Na\u0161e svobodu u\u017e neomezuje na\u0161e minulost . Jsme t\u00edm, k\u00fdm jsme ni\u010d\u00edm nezat\u00ed\u017eeni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kdy\u017e otev\u0159eme sv\u00e1 srdce pravd\u011b o na\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b, zahl\u00e9dneme na konci jej\u00ed cesty nov\u00e9 sv\u011btlo. Sv\u011btlo\u00a8, kter\u00e9 osv\u00edt\u00ed a odhal\u00ed novou cestu do na\u0161eho nitra a\u017e za na\u0161e nejistoty a zhrzen\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed sny. Na konci se setk\u00e1me s \u00fapln\u00fdm a skute\u010dn\u00fdm a prav\u00fdm J\u00e1. Jakmile se se sebou setk\u00e1me, za\u017eijeme nov\u00e9 siln\u00e9 \u00farovn\u011b intimity i v b\u011b\u017en\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b. Tak z\u00edsk\u00e1me onu nechr\u00e1n\u011bnou intimitu. Na\u0161e touha milovat a b\u00fdt milov\u00e1ni se objev\u00ed p\u0159\u00edmo, okam\u017eit\u011b a bez jak\u00fdchkoliv omezen\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jett Psaris and Marlena S. Lyons, Undefended Love<\/u><\/em> (Oakland, CA: New Harbinger Publications, 2000), 15, 22, 23.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit:<\/u><\/strong> Barbara Holmes, Untitled 1<\/u><\/em> (detail), 2021, photograph, United States, used with permission. Jack Delano, View of crowd dancing to the music of „Red“ Sounders and his band, at the Club DeLisa, Chicago, Illinois<\/u><\/em> (detail), 1942, photograph<\/u><\/a>, New York Public Library, public domain. Nathan Dumlao, Untitled<\/u><\/em>, 2020 (detail), photograph<\/u><\/a>, Unsplash, free use<\/u><\/a>. Jenna Keiper and Leslye Colvin, 2021, triptych art, United States.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The creative team at CAC sent a single-use camera to core teacher Dr. Barbara Holmes as part of an exploration into contemplative photography. Her photos are featured here together with historical images in a form inspired by early Christian\/Catholic triptych art: a threefold form that tells a unified story. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Image inspiration:<\/u><\/strong> In the center photo we see two bushes, separate but entwined, touching and sharing space. Human intimacy requires us to come as ourselves, undefended, co-creating a space for connection. 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Nov\u00e1 \u00farove\u0148 l\u00e1sky<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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