{"id":3781,"date":"2022-03-27T12:22:27","date_gmt":"2022-03-27T10:22:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=3781"},"modified":"2022-03-27T12:22:31","modified_gmt":"2022-03-27T10:22:31","slug":"strach-ochromuje-dusi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2022\/03\/27\/strach-ochromuje-dusi\/","title":{"rendered":"Strach n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee ochromit"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
T\u0159in\u00e1ct\u00fd t\u00fdden: Nebojte se<\/h5>\n\n\n\n

\u00a0Otec Richard Rohr hled\u00e1 hlavn\u00ed p\u016fvod na\u0161ich strach\u016f v na\u0161em mal\u00e9m nebo fale\u0161n\u00e9m j\u00e1, kter\u00e9 ned\u016fv\u011b\u0159uje pln\u011b Bo\u017e\u00ed l\u00e1sce. Bo\u017e\u00ed l\u00e1ska je p\u0159itom p\u0159\u00edtomna v\u0161ude.<\/em>
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Strach je jako kontrakce<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Strach velmi rychle spojuje nesourod\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti na\u0161eho fale\u0161n\u00e9ho j\u00e1. Ego se pohybuje vp\u0159ed pomoc\u00ed kontrakce, sebeobrany a odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed, a t\u00edm n\u00e1m rad\u00ed odm\u00edtat. Kontrakce n\u00e1m pom\u00e1h\u00e1 se soust\u0159edit, naj\u00edt c\u00edl a sm\u011br, poskytuje n\u00e1m fale\u0161n\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a jak\u00fdsi pocit bezpe\u010d\u00ed. Pou\u017eije na\u0161i paniku, zkou\u0161\u00ed j\u00ed zakr\u00fdt a sna\u017e\u00ed se ji prom\u011bnit v c\u00edlev\u011bdomost a nal\u00e9havost. Probouz\u00ed v n\u00e1s na\u0161i pudovost. Na\u0161e pudy v\u0161ak nebudou klidn\u00e9 a neu\u010din\u00ed n\u00e1s \u0161\u0165astn\u00fdmi. Budeme i nad\u00e1le plni strachu a v\u0161e nebezpe\u010d\u00ed bude\u201eTam venku\u201c . Neuv\u011bdom\u00edme si, \u017ee m\u016f\u017eeme hledat cestu \u201euvnit\u0159 n\u00e1s\u201c.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Na\u0161e vnit\u0159n\u00ed j\u00e1 m\u016f\u017ee rozli\u0161it dva sm\u011bry<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Na\u0161e Du\u0161e (neboli na\u0161e Prav\u00e9 J\u00e1) nebere s\u00edlu ze zmen\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed ale naopak z roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed. Nepracuje vylou\u010den\u00edm, ale naopak za\u010dlen\u011bn\u00edm. Vid\u00ed v\u011bci do hloubky a do \u0161\u00ed\u0159e. Proto n\u00e1m ne\u0159\u00edk\u00e1 n\u00e1m ne, ale \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 ano. Alespo\u0148 do ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u00farovn\u011b hodnot\u00ed pozitivn\u011b v\u0161e, co j\u00ed p\u0159ijde do cesty. Dok\u00e1\u017eete v sob\u011b rozli\u0161it oba dva opa\u010dn\u00e9 pohyby?\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Strach a nebo odvaha p\u0159ijmout?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Strach a uzav\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1m sice umo\u017e\u0148uj\u00ed druh\u00e9 lidi eliminovat, odepsat, vylou\u010dit a n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem je vyhnat (tedy alespo\u0148 v na\u0161\u00ed mysli). Z\u00edsk\u00e1me okam\u017eit\u011b pocit, \u017ee v\u0161e m\u00e1me pod kontrolou a \u017ee jsme na\u0161ly bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 hranice (n\u011bkdy dokonce, \u017ee jsou to svat\u00e9 hranice). Lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed se takto um\u00ed ovl\u00e1dat, se v\u0161ak nakonec obvykle boj\u00ed, \u017ee o n\u011bco p\u0159ijdou. Pokud se pono\u0159\u00edme hloub\u011bji do sebe, zjist\u00edme, \u017ee v ka\u017ed\u00e9m z n\u00e1s je jak rebel, tak i dikt\u00e1tor, jsou v n\u00e1s dva r\u016fzn\u00e9 konce z t\u00e9ho\u017e spektra. T\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v\u017edy je to strach, kter\u00fd ospravedlni bu\u010f na\u0161i vzpouru na kolenou nebo na\u0161i pot\u0159ebu dominovat \u2013 je to v\u017edy strach, kter\u00fd si m\u00e1lokdy uv\u011bdom\u00edme, proto\u017ee se sv\u00fdm jedn\u00e1n\u00edm sna\u017e\u00edme zvl\u00e1dat ka\u017edou situaci .\u00a0\u00a0

Autor Gareth Higgins popisuje jak p\u0159ej\u00edt p\u0159es „ne“ zp\u016fsoben\u00e9 strachem k „ano“ kter\u00e9 plod\u00ed l\u00e1ska:\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Gareth Higgins<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Kdy\u017e se nau\u010d\u00edte pod\u00edvat se za sv\u016fj strach, zjist\u00edte , na \u010dem v\u00e1m skute\u010dn\u011b z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. Co si opravdu p\u0159ejete chr\u00e1nit: lidi, m\u00edsta, v\u011bci, nad\u011bje, sny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Obrann\u00fd val a nebo roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159it srdce?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Va\u0161e pokusy vytvo\u0159it pro sebe lep\u0161\u00ed \u017eivot, nebo i lep\u0161\u00ed \u017eivot pro v\u0161echny nefunguj\u00ed za pomoci agresivity, studu a nebo odlou\u010den\u00ed se. Kdy\u017e v\u0161ak roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159\u00edme sv\u016fj okruh p\u00e9\u010de tak, aby zahrnoval v\u0161echny lidi, v\u0161echna m\u00edsta, cel\u00e9 stvo\u0159en\u00ed, zjist\u00edme, \u017ee m\u00e1me v\u0161ichni spole\u010dn\u00e9 obavy a \u017ee v\u0161echny na\u0161e starosti maj\u00ed stejn\u00fd p\u016fvod. Sna\u017ete se porozum\u011bt sv\u00e9mu strachu a mo\u017en\u00e1 zjist\u00edte, \u017ee se v\u0161ichni jen sna\u017e\u00edme p\u0159ij\u00edt jen na to jak milovat a b\u00fdt milov\u00e1ni. [1]\u00a0
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Bo\u017esk\u00fd doprovod k l\u00e1sce<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Otec Richard pokra\u010duje:\u00a0\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u011bt\u0161inou pot\u0159ebujeme n\u011bkoho, kdo by n\u00e1s na vnit\u0159n\u00edch cest\u00e1ch na\u0161eho j\u00e1 pom\u00e1hal a doprov\u00e1zel n\u00e1s. Jinak budeme pat\u0159it nejsp\u00ed\u0161e k velk\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1st lidstva , kter\u00e1 nezn\u00e1 cestu do hlubin sv\u00e9ho nitra. K\u00e9\u017e bychom v\u011bd\u011bli, s k\u00fdm se tam setk\u00e1me. Pak bychom mohli \u0159\u00edci spolu se svatou Kate\u0159inou z Janova (1447-1510): „Moje nejhlub\u0161\u00ed j\u00e1 je B\u016fh!“. [2] Nenajdeme-li doprov\u00e1zen\u00ed z\u016fstane v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s na povrchu vlastn\u00edho \u017eivota. A tam n\u00e1s bude ochra\u0148ovat na\u0161e ustra\u0161en\u00e1 du\u0161e – chr\u00e1nit n\u00e1s p\u0159ed obt\u011b\u017eov\u00e1n\u00edm druh\u00fdch lid\u00ed. P\u0159ijmeme-li bo\u017esk\u00fd doprovod, doslova „najdeme svou du\u0161i“ a najdeme Toho, kdo v n\u00ed s l\u00e1skou p\u0159eb\u00fdv\u00e1.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nenajdeme-li doprov\u00e1zen\u00ed z\u016fstane v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s na povrchu vlastn\u00edho \u017eivota. A tam n\u00e1s bude ochra\u0148ovat na\u0161e ustra\u0161en\u00e1 du\u0161e – chr\u00e1nit n\u00e1s p\u0159ed obt\u011b\u017eov\u00e1n\u00edm druh\u00fdch lid\u00ed. P\u0159ijmeme-li bo\u017esk\u00fd doprovod, doslova „najdeme svou du\u0161i“ a najdeme Toho, kdo v n\u00ed s l<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3783,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[301,402],"class_list":["post-3781","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-duse","tag-strach","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3781","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3781"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3781\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3784,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3781\/revisions\/3784"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3783"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3781"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3781"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3781"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}