{"id":5658,"date":"2022-11-25T08:43:53","date_gmt":"2022-11-25T07:43:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=5658"},"modified":"2022-11-25T08:43:59","modified_gmt":"2022-11-25T07:43:59","slug":"vdecnost-se-musi-trenovat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2022\/11\/25\/vdecnost-se-musi-trenovat\/","title":{"rendered":"Vd\u011b\u010dnost se mus\u00ed tr\u00e9novat\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u010cty\u0159ic\u00e1t\u00fd sedm\u00fd t\u00fdden: Vd\u011b\u010dnost<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Kristi Nelsonov\u00e1 je \u0159editelkou organizace A Network for Grateful Living, kterou zalo\u017eil benediktinsk\u00fd bratr David Steindl-Rast s p\u0159\u00e1teli. Sd\u00edl\u00ed sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh o tom, jak se nau\u010dila p\u0159ijmout vd\u011b\u010dnost jako zp\u016fsob \u017eivota:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u201eKdy mi bude l\u00edp?\u201c, zeptala jsem se doktora. Odpov\u011bd\u011bl: \u201eTo nev\u00edm.\u201c<\/h4>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" data-layzr=\"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/47-Network-for-Grateful-Living.jpg\" alt=\"Network for Grateful Living\" class=\"wp-image-5659\" width=\"92\" height=\"138\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Kristi Neslon -Network for Grateful Living<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ve 33 letech mi byl diagnostikov\u00e1n Hodgkin\u016fv lymfom ve \u010dtvrt\u00e9m stadiu, kter\u00fd metast\u00e1zoval do p\u00e1te\u0159e. Po 18 m\u011bs\u00edc\u00edch hospitalizac\u00ed, operac\u00ed, chemoterapi\u00ed a l\u00e9\u010dby jsem se sv\u00e9ho onkologa zeptala: &#8222;Kdy budu z nejhor\u0161\u00edho venku?&#8220; Odpov\u011bd\u011bl mi: &#8222;Nev\u00edm. Odpov\u011bd\u011bl mi: &#8222;Nikdy nebudete z nejhor\u0161\u00edho venku.&#8220; Kdy\u017e jsem tak tvrd\u011b pracoval na tom, abych z\u016fstala na\u017eivu, nech\u00e1pala jsem m\u00edru nejistoty a boje, kter\u00e1 se poj\u00ed s t\u00edm, \u017ee jsem p\u0159e\u017eila. Pochopen\u00ed, \u017ee m\u016fj \u017eivot bude v\u017edycky prob\u00edhat jen s v\u00fdhradou &#8222;prozat\u00edm&#8220;, bylo vyst\u0159\u00edzliv\u011bn\u00ed. P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lela jsem o mnoha v\u011bcech: Jak m\u00e1m d\u00e1l \u017e\u00edt t\u00edmto zp\u016fsobem? Na co se mohu spolehnout? &#8230; Jak m\u00e1m \u017e\u00edt, kdy\u017e o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1m smrt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Za\u010dala jsem si v\u00e1\u017eit ka\u017ed\u00e9 chvilky \u017eivota i v\u0161ech\u00a0mali\u010dkosti pln\u00fdmi dou\u0161ky<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prvn\u00edch n\u011bkolik let nejistoty a remise mi ost\u0159e uk\u00e1zalo po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00ed m\u00e9ho \u017eivota. Byl jsem v re\u017eimu super nas\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed &#8211; ka\u017ed\u00e1 zku\u0161enost byla nasycena nov\u00fdm v\u00fdznamem a j\u00e1 jsem v\u0161e pln\u011b vst\u0159eb\u00e1vala. Neznala jsem jin\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak pro\u017e\u00edvat chv\u00edle, kter\u00e9 jsem m\u011bla, ne\u017e ka\u017edou z nich co nejvd\u011b\u010dn\u011bji v\u00edtat. Nebyla jsem si jist\u00fd, kolik \u010dasu mi je\u0161t\u011b zb\u00fdv\u00e1, ale byla jsem ohromena ka\u017ed\u00fdm okam\u017eikem, ka\u017ed\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem a ka\u017edou v\u011bc\u00ed. B\u00fdt vd\u011b\u010dn\u00fd bylo prvn\u00edch p\u00e1r let pom\u011brn\u011b snadn\u00e9 a objevn\u00e9. Probouzela jsem se v pokoji zalit\u00e9m sv\u011btlem, sly\u0161ela zp\u011bv pt\u00e1k\u016f a v\u0161imla si, \u017ee st\u00e1le d\u00fdch\u00e1m. . . . Mohla jsem polo\u017eit ob\u011b nohy na podlahu a voln\u011b doj\u00edt do kuchyn\u011b, kde jsem si mohla uva\u0159it \u0161\u00e1lek \u010daje. Sta\u010dilo to k tomu, abych ka\u017ed\u00fd den za\u010d\u00ednala se slzami radosti. Sta\u010dilo mi b\u00fdt na\u017eivu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Mo\u017en\u00e1 stejn\u011b jako mnoz\u00ed z n\u00e1s se i Nelsonov\u00e1 se stabilizac\u00ed zdravotn\u00edho stavu stala &#8222;imunn\u00ed&#8220; v\u016f\u010di spont\u00e1nn\u00ed ka\u017edodenn\u00ed vd\u011b\u010dnosti:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ale \u010dasem jsem cht\u011bla st\u00e1le v\u00edc a st\u00e1vala se v\u00edc a v\u00edc nespokojenou<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ale \u010dasem se v\u0161echny ty \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 d\u016fvody k vd\u011b\u010dnosti za\u0159adily mezi samoz\u0159ejmosti. Za\u010dala jsem b\u00fdt zdrav\u00e1 a zam\u011bstnan\u00e1. Za\u010dala jsem se honit za c\u00edli a napln\u011bn\u00edm, kter\u00e9 slibovaly. Mu\u010dednicky jsem se v\u011bnoval pr\u00e1ci, st\u011b\u017eovala si na v\u011bci, jako je doprava, moje v\u00e1ha a nachlazen\u00ed. Nemilosrdn\u011b jsem se srovn\u00e1vala s ostatn\u00edmi, podlehla maloobchodn\u00ed terapii a dluh\u016fm a trp\u011bla stresem. S ka\u017ed\u00fdm dal\u0161\u00edm rokem jsem si vybudovala jakousi toleranci k vd\u011b\u010dnosti &#8211; to, co mi d\u0159\u00edve sta\u010dilo, jsem v honb\u011b za t\u00edm, abych m\u011bla v\u00edc, nechala le\u017eet ladem. Kdy\u017e jsem podvedla smrt, za\u010dala jsem podv\u00e1d\u011bt i \u017eivot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Zjistila jsem, \u017ee vd\u011b\u010dnost  se mus\u00ed tr\u00e9novat<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po n\u011bkolika n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdch letech, dramatick\u00fdch probuzen\u00edch a sv\u00e9m pod\u00edlu na duchovn\u00edm utrpen\u00ed jsem si uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee udr\u017eet si vd\u011b\u010dnou perspektivu je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9. . . . Schopnost vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e9 perspektivy je sval, kter\u00fd jsem si musela vybudovat a pou\u017e\u00edvat, a st\u00e1le o n\u011bj mus\u00edm denn\u011b pe\u010dovat a starat se o n\u011bj. . . . Cvi\u010den\u00ed v pohledu na sv\u011bt vd\u011b\u010dn\u00fdma o\u010dima a s vd\u011b\u010dn\u00fdm srdcem je samo o sob\u011b n\u00e1dhern\u00fdm c\u00edlem.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Translated with www.DeepL.com\/Translator (free version), mezinadpisy si dovolil vlo\u017eit p\u0159ekladatel:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kristi Nelson, <em>Wake Up Grateful: The Transformative Practice of Taking Nothing for Granted <\/em>(North Adams, MA: Storey Publishing, 2020), 1\u20132, 3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Image credit:<\/strong> Aaron Burden, <em>Untitled<\/em> (detail), 2022, United States, photograph, <a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-zeulll-itiuujuudy-y\/\">Unsplash<\/a>. Vidar Nordli-Mathisen, <em>Laughing Nuns<\/em> (detail), 2018, Italy, photograph, <a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-zeulll-itiuujuudy-j\/\">Unsplash<\/a>. Aaron Burden, <em>Untitled<\/em> (detail), 2022, United States, photograph, <a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-zeulll-itiuujuudy-t\/\">Unsplash<\/a>. Jenna Keiper &amp; Leslye Colvin, 2022, triptych art, United States. <a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-zeulll-itiuujuudy-i\/\">Click here to enlarge image<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Image inspiration:<\/strong> <em>Thank you, Spirit, for life. Thank you for shared joy. Thank you for beauty. Amen<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Po n\u011bkolika n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fdch letech, dramatick\u00fdch probuzen\u00edch a sv\u00e9m pod\u00edlu na duchovn\u00edm utrpen\u00ed jsem si uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee udr\u017eet si vd\u011b\u010dnou perspektivu je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9. . . . Schopnost vd\u011b\u010dn\u00e9 perspektivy je sval, kter\u00fd jsem si musela vybudovat a pou\u017e\u00edvat, a st\u00e1le o n\u011bj mus\u00edm denn\u011b pe\u010dovat a starat se o n\u011bj. . . . Cvi\u010den\u00ed v pohledu na sv\u011bt vd\u011b\u010dn\u00fdma o\u010dima a s vd\u011b\u010dn\u00fdm srdcem je samo o sob\u011b n\u00e1dhern\u00fdm c\u00edlem.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5607,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[528],"class_list":["post-5658","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-vdecnost","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5658","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5658"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5658\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5660,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5658\/revisions\/5660"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5607"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5658"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5658"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5658"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}