{"id":6787,"date":"2023-03-28T08:14:51","date_gmt":"2023-03-28T06:14:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=6787"},"modified":"2023-03-28T08:14:54","modified_gmt":"2023-03-28T06:14:54","slug":"ucime-se-tim-ze-to-delame-spatne-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2023\/03\/28\/ucime-se-tim-ze-to-delame-spatne-2\/","title":{"rendered":"U\u010d\u00edme se t\u00edm, \u017ee to d\u011bl\u00e1me \u0161patn\u011b"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">T\u0159in\u00e1ct\u00fd t\u00fdden: Bezmoc<\/h6>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image is-style-rounded\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" data-layzr=\"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/023-ObitChapmanJean.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6788\" width=\"90\" height=\"108\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><em>Dominik\u00e1nsk\u00e1 sestra a poradkyn\u011b Catherine Chapmanov\u00e1 popisuje, pro\u010d se mnoz\u00ed z n\u00e1s sna\u017e\u00ed p\u0159ijmout svou bezmocnost:&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">B\u00fdt bezmocn\u00ed?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>My\u0161lenka, \u017ee jsme bezmocn\u00ed v\u016f\u010di lidem, m\u00edst\u016fm a v\u011bcem, je v na\u0161\u00ed severoamerick\u00e9 kultu\u0159e pro mnoh\u00e9 z n\u00e1s, zejm\u00e9na pro mu\u017ee, ciz\u00ed. Ve Spojen\u00fdch st\u00e1tech jsme vyrostli s p\u0159edstavou, \u017ee m\u016f\u017eeme d\u011blat, co chceme, kdy\u017e se do toho pust\u00edme&#8230;.. B\u00fdt bezmocn\u00fd je t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 neamerick\u00e1 my\u0161lenka&#8230;.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ano bezmocn\u00ed a n\u011bkdy z\u00e1visl\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Jsme bezmocn\u00ed a nem\u016f\u017eeme ovl\u00e1dat nikoho a nic krom\u011b sebe; a dokonce jsou v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 na sob\u011b nem\u016f\u017eeme ovl\u00e1dat. Jsme-li z\u00e1visl\u00ed, jsme bezmocn\u00ed v\u016f\u010di drog\u00e1m a alkoholu [T\u00fdm DM: nebo \u010demukoli jin\u00e9mu, co nutkav\u011b u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me ]. Ti z n\u00e1s, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou ve vztahu se z\u00e1visl\u00fdmi, jsou bezmocn\u00ed v\u016f\u010di z\u00e1visl\u00e9mu. V\u0161ichni jsme bezmocn\u00ed k tomu, abychom n\u011bkoho p\u0159im\u011bli b\u00fdt, c\u00edtit a d\u011blat p\u0159esn\u011b to, co chceme. Nad t\u00edm, co se d\u011bje ve sv\u011bt\u011b, m\u00e1me jen velmi omezenou kontrolu ve velk\u00e9m&#8230;..&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">P\u0159iznejme si por\u00e1\u017eku<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u0159iznat si, \u017ee jsme bezmocn\u00ed v\u016f\u010di lidem, m\u00edst\u016fm a v\u011bcem a \u017ee se n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot stal nezvladateln\u00fdm, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt jedn\u00edm z nejt\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00edch, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 jedn\u00edm z nejv\u00edce osvobozuj\u00edc\u00edch p\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00ed v na\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b. Obvykle je mimo na\u0161e ch\u00e1p\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017ee p\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00ed bezmoci a nezvl\u00e1dnutelnosti n\u00e1m pom\u016f\u017ee naj\u00edt klid. Pro mnoh\u00e9 z n\u00e1s, ne-li pro v\u011bt\u0161inu, toto p\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00ed znamen\u00e1, \u017ee jsme se vzdali nebo \u017ee jsme pora\u017eeni. P\u0159esn\u011b o to n\u00e1s v\u0161ak Prvn\u00ed krok \u017e\u00e1d\u00e1: p\u0159iznat si por\u00e1\u017eku. P\u0159izn\u00e1v\u00e1me v\u0161ak por\u00e1\u017eku pouze ve vztahu k na\u0161emu zp\u016fsobu jedn\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Chapman sd\u00edl\u00ed, co se stane na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b p\u0159i na\u0161em p\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00ed por\u00e1\u017eky:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">P\u0159ijmi s\u00e1m sebe<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u0159izn\u00e1n\u00ed na\u0161\u00ed bezmoci n\u00e1s osvobozuje, abychom umo\u017enili tomu, kdo je Moc, p\u016fsobit v na\u0161em \u017eivot\u011b. Kdy\u017e dovol\u00edme Bohu, aby n\u00e1s miloval a u\u010dil n\u00e1s, jak d\u00e1vat a p\u0159ij\u00edmat l\u00e1sku, st\u00e1v\u00e1me se otev\u0159en\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi nov\u00fdm zp\u016fsob\u016fm jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me tak\u00e9 p\u0159ij\u00edmat lidi a situace takov\u00e9, jak\u00e9 jsou. Kdy\u017e si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, \u017ee to nem\u00e1me pod kontrolou my, ale B\u016fh, dok\u00e1\u017eeme se l\u00e9pe odpoutat od lid\u00ed a situac\u00ed, kter\u00e9 jsou pro n\u00e1s nezdrav\u00e9, a p\u0159ijmout je takov\u00e9, jak\u00e9 jsou. To neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee se p\u0159estaneme starat. Z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed n\u00e1m na nich, ale nedovol\u00edme, aby situace ur\u010dovala na\u0161e my\u0161lenky, \u010diny a pocity. S prohlubuj\u00edc\u00edm se odpout\u00e1n\u00edm a p\u0159ijet\u00edm zjist\u00edme, \u017ee m\u00e1me v\u00edce emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed energie, kterou m\u016f\u017eeme v\u011bnovat sami sob\u011b a \u010dinnostem, kter\u00e9 bychom r\u00e1di d\u011blali.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">U\u017e se nekontroluj a dovol druh\u00fdm, &nbsp;aby t\u011b poznali<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed slo\u017ekou 1. kroku je nav\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed kontaktu s na\u0161\u00ed bezmoc\u00ed v\u016f\u010di lidem, m\u00edst\u016fm a v\u011bcem. Behavior\u00e1ln\u00ed reakc\u00ed na Krok 1 je uvoln\u011bn\u00ed kontroly. Nekontrolovat znamen\u00e1, \u017ee se nesna\u017e\u00edme jak\u00fdmkoli zp\u016fsobem \u0159\u00eddit n\u011b\u010d\u00ed \u017eivot. Nekontrolovat znamen\u00e1, \u017ee dovol\u00edme druh\u00fdm lidem, aby byli zodpov\u011bdn\u00ed za sv\u00e9 \u017eivoty&#8230;.. Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me naslouchat druh\u00fdm a p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitostn\u011b zkou\u0161\u00edme v\u011bci po jejich zp\u016fsobu. U\u017e nejsme rigidn\u011b sv\u00e1z\u00e1ni s p\u0159edstavou, \u017ee na\u0161e cesta je jedin\u00e1 spr\u00e1vn\u00e1. Nekontrolovat znamen\u00e1 nechat se un\u00e1\u0161et a j\u00edt s proudem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Translated with www.DeepL.com\/Translator (free version), mezinadpisy si dovolil vlo\u017eit p\u0159ekladatel<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p>Catherine Chapman, <em>Step Spirit: The 12 Steps as a Spiritual Program<\/em> (New York: Paulist Press, 1992), 19, 21, 23.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Image credit:<\/strong> A path from one week to the next\u2014Jenna Keiper, <em>Mystic<\/em>. Jenna Keiper, <em>North Cascades Sunrise<\/em>. Jenna Keiper, <em>Jonah<\/em>. Used with permission. <a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-zhkkrhk-itiuujuudy-j\/\">Click here to enlarge image <\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Regardless of the conditions we find ourselves in, we learn to navigate in the midst of our lack of control.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nekontrolovat znamen\u00e1, \u017ee dovol\u00edme druh\u00fdm lidem, aby byli zodpov\u011bdn\u00ed za sv\u00e9 \u017eivoty&#8230;.. Za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me naslouchat druh\u00fdm a p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitostn\u011b zkou\u0161\u00edme v\u011bci po jejich zp\u016fsobu. U\u017e nejsme rigidn\u011b sv\u00e1z\u00e1ni s p\u0159edstavou, \u017ee na\u0161e cesta je jedin\u00e1 spr\u00e1vn\u00e1. Nekontrolovat znamen\u00e1 nechat se un\u00e1\u0161et a j\u00edt s proudem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6767,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[1042,1040,1043,1044],"class_list":["post-6787","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-alkoholici","tag-bezmoc","tag-nekontrolovanost","tag-odhalit-sebe","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6787","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6787"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6787\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6789,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6787\/revisions\/6789"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6767"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6787"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6787"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6787"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}