Podle u\u010ditele CAC Jamese Finleyho n\u00e1m praktikov\u00e1n\u00ed kontemplativn\u00edho odstupu pom\u00e1h\u00e1 rozpoznat, \u017ee na\u0161e pocity, jakkoli jsou skute\u010dn\u00e9, nakonec neur\u010duj\u00ed, k\u00fdm jsme.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Na z\u00e1klad\u011b sv\u00e9 pr\u00e1ce psychoterapeuta a duchovn\u00edho v\u016fdce nab\u00edz\u00ed Finley jemn\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak tomuto u\u010den\u00ed porozum\u011bt: <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nep\u0159ipout\u00e1vejte se. Pokud pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te smutek a naprostou ztr\u00e1tu, nep\u0159ipout\u00e1vejte se k pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed sebe sama ve chv\u00edl\u00edch naprost\u00e9 ztr\u00e1ty. Sp\u00ed\u0161e se od sv\u00e9 ztr\u00e1ty odpoutejte. Je skute\u010dn\u00e1 – ale v\u011bzte, \u017ee ztr\u00e1ta nem\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo pojmenovat, kdo jste, nebo\u0165 pouze nekone\u010dn\u00e1 \u0161t\u011bdrost Boha, kter\u00fd se v\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b v tomto okam\u017eiku, m\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo pojmenovat, kdo jste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ztr\u00e1ta je tedy skute\u010dn\u00e1. Proci\u0165te ji, je skute\u010dn\u00e1. Ale nepodl\u00e9hejte jej\u00edmu n\u00e1roku, aby v\u00e1s unesla, jako by smutek, kter\u00fd pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te, m\u011bl autoritu pojmenovat, kdo jste a co je pro v\u00e1s mo\u017en\u00e9. Proto\u017ee tuto autoritu m\u00e1 pouze nekone\u010dn\u00e1 Bo\u017e\u00ed l\u00e1ska.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Stejn\u011b tak, pokud jste v okam\u017eiku radosti, t\u0159eba skute\u010dn\u00e9 radosti nad n\u011b\u010d\u00edm, bu\u010fte radostn\u00ed, ale od sv\u00e9 radosti se odd\u011blte. Proto\u017ee radost je kone\u010dn\u00e1, radost je pom\u00edjiv\u00e1, radost pom\u00edj\u00ed. U\u017e\u00edvejte si ji, ale uv\u011bdomte si, \u017ee ve srovn\u00e1n\u00ed s v\u011b\u010dnou radost\u00ed – „radost\u00ed, kterou smrt nem\u00e1 moc zni\u010dit“ – je tato radost, kterou pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te, pom\u00edjiv\u00e1. Nenechte se kv\u016fli sv\u00e9 radosti un\u00e9st. Bu\u010fte od radosti odpout\u00e1ni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Finley nab\u00edz\u00ed moudrost, kterou se nau\u010dil od Thomase Mertona (1915-1968), kter\u00fd byl jeho novicmistrem v dob\u011b, kdy byl Finley mlad\u00fdm mnichem:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kdy\u017e jsem p\u0159i\u0161el za Thomasem Mertonem na duchovn\u00ed veden\u00ed, \u010dasto se m\u011b zeptal: „Jak to jde?“ „Jak to jde,“ odpov\u011bd\u011bl jsem mu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A j\u00e1 mu odpov\u00eddal: „Jde mi to dob\u0159e!“.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A on \u0159\u00edkal: „Ned\u011blej si z toho t\u011b\u017ekou hlavu, bude to je\u0161t\u011b hor\u0161\u00ed.“<\/p>\n\n\n\n A jindy jsem p\u0159i\u0161el opravdu sklesl\u00fd kv\u016fli n\u011b\u010demu. A on \u0159ekl: „Ned\u011blej si z toho t\u011b\u017ekou hlavu, bude l\u00edp.“<\/p>\n\n\n\n To se m\u011bn\u00ed a m\u011bn\u00ed, to se m\u011bn\u00ed a m\u011bn\u00ed. Ale co je to ta nekone\u010dn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska, kter\u00e1 neochv\u011bjn\u011b prostupuje kol\u00edsav\u00fdmi cestami na\u0161eho srdce? A jak si m\u016f\u017eeme vyhradit toto vnit\u0159n\u00ed j\u00e1dro m\u00edsta v sob\u011b, k n\u011bmu\u017e nem\u00e1 kone\u010dn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup, proto\u017ee zcela n\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed Bohu? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mimochodem, m\u011bli bychom se od toho odpoutat i t\u00edm, \u017ee si budeme v\u011bdomi sv\u00e9 neschopnosti to praktikovat, proto\u017ee jsme jen lidsk\u00e1 bytost. V\u00edme, \u017ee kdy\u017e jsme na dn\u011b, jsme opravdu na dn\u011b. A kdy\u017e jsme radostn\u00ed, jsme radostn\u00ed. Mus\u00edme si tedy d\u00e1vat velk\u00fd pozor, abychom se nep\u0159ipoutali k c\u00edli st\u00e1t se odpoutan\u00fdmi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Mus\u00edme se zhluboka nadechnout a valit se na vln\u00e1ch v\u00fdvoje sebe sama. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Translated with www.DeepL.com\/Translator (free version), mezinadpisy si dovolil vlo\u017eit p\u0159ekladatel<\/p>\n\n\n\n Adapted from James Finley, \u201cMeister Eckhart: Session 3\u201d in Turning to the Mystics<\/em><\/a>, season 7 (Albuquerque, NM: Center for Action and Contemplation, 2023), podcast, MP3 audio. Forthcoming episode. On retreat, the CAC staff used watercolors to connect to our collective grief. This is one of the watercolor paintings that came from that exercise. <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nep\u0159ipout\u00e1vejte se. Pokud pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te smutek a naprostou ztr\u00e1tu, nep\u0159ipout\u00e1vejte se k pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed sebe sama ve chv\u00edl\u00edch naprost\u00e9 ztr\u00e1ty. Sp\u00ed\u0161e se od sv\u00e9 ztr\u00e1ty odpoutejte. Je skute\u010dn\u00e1 – ale v\u011bzte, \u017ee ztr\u00e1ta nem\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo pojmenovat, kdo jste, nebo\u0165 pouze nekone\u010dn\u00e1 \u0161t\u011bdrost Boha, kter\u00fd se v\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 pr\u00e1v\u011b v tomto okam\u017eiku, m\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo pojmenovat, kdo jste.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6922,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[516,1086],"class_list":["post-6931","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-radost","tag-tezkosti","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6931","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6931"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6931\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6932,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6931\/revisions\/6932"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6922"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6931"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6931"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6931"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Na\u0161e smutky a ztr\u00e1ty neru\u0161\u00ed \u0161t\u011bdrost Bo\u017e\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Ztr\u00e1ta smutek je skute\u010dn\u00fd, ale nem\u00e1 autoritu nad n\u00e1mi<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Tak\u00e9 radost je skute\u010dn\u00e1 ale odpoutejte se i od n\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
I Thomas Merton byl realista<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Na\u0161e srdce pat\u0159\u00ed jen n\u00e1m<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Odpoutejme se i od sv\u00e9 neschopnosti se odpoutat<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
V\u00fdvoj je mo\u0159e, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s nese na sv\u00fdch vln\u00e1ch<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n
Image credit:<\/strong> A path from one week to the next\u2014Margi Ahearn, Exercise on Grief and Lamentation<\/em>. McEl Chevrier, Untitled<\/em>. CAC Staff, Untitled<\/em>. Used with permission. Click here to enlarge image<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n