{"id":7049,"date":"2023-05-25T08:25:42","date_gmt":"2023-05-25T06:25:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=7049"},"modified":"2023-05-25T08:25:45","modified_gmt":"2023-05-25T06:25:45","slug":"nekonecna-laska-v-nasi-zlomenosti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2023\/05\/25\/nekonecna-laska-v-nasi-zlomenosti\/","title":{"rendered":"Nekone\u010dn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska v na\u0161\u00ed zlomenosti\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Dvac\u00e1t\u00fd prvn\u00ed t\u00fdden: Deprese a duchovn\u00ed uzdraven\u00ed          <\/h6>\n\n\n\n

Podle Jamese Finleyho n\u00e1m terapeutick\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce m\u016f\u017ee pomoci d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat v bo\u017esk\u00fd hlubinn\u00fd rozm\u011br na\u0161ich \u017eivot\u016f. P\u0159edstavuje model, kter\u00fd nab\u00eddl psycholog Carl Rogers (1902-1987): <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

T\u0159i body terapeutick\u00e9ho vztahu<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Pozitivn\u00ed respekt<\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Carl Rogers vytvo\u0159il n\u011bco, \u010demu se \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 „rogeri\u00e1nsk\u00e1 tri\u00e1da“. [1] U\u010dil, \u017ee existuj\u00ed t\u0159i body troj\u00faheln\u00edku, kter\u00e9 p\u0159edstavuj\u00ed tepaj\u00edc\u00ed srdce terapeutick\u00e9ho vztahu. Prvn\u00edm bodem troj\u00faheln\u00edku je bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00fd pozitivn\u00ed respekt. Prob\u00edh\u00e1 takto: Terapeut sed\u00ed s pacientem v terapii. Terapeut d\u00e1v\u00e1 doty\u010dn\u00e9mu najevo, \u017ee bez ohledu na to, co mi o sob\u011b sd\u011bl\u00edte, to nijak nesn\u00ed\u017e\u00ed m\u016fj hlubok\u00fd respekt k tomu, k\u00fdm jste jako lidsk\u00e1 bytost. Postupn\u011b se tak terapeutova hlubok\u00e1 \u00facta a bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00fd pozitivn\u00ed respekt k v\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159en\u00e9st i na v\u00e1s. M\u016f\u017ee se za\u010d\u00edt st\u00e1vat va\u0161\u00edm obnoven\u00fdm pocitem bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e9 pozitivn\u00ed \u00facty k sob\u011b sam\u00e9mu. Internalizujete si ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

empatie<\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Druh\u00fdm bodem je empatie. Terapeut \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: „Sly\u0161\u00edm, \u017ee \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te…“ a op\u011btuje to takov\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem, \u017ee v\u00edte, \u017ee v\u00e1s sly\u0161el. Kdy\u017e v\u00edte, \u017ee jste byli vysly\u0161eni, v\u00edte tak\u00e9, \u017ee jste byli pochopeni. Zku\u0161enost, \u017ee jste pochopeni, m\u016f\u017ee prohloubit va\u0161i schopnost sly\u0161et se, porozum\u011bt si a vc\u00edtit se do sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Respekt a up\u0159\u00edmnost<\/h5>\n\n\n\n

T\u0159et\u00edm bodem troj\u00faheln\u00edku je kongruence, co\u017e znamen\u00e1, \u017ee terapeut je k v\u00e1m v\u017edy up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fd a respektuje v\u00e1s. Terapeut m\u016f\u017ee \u0159\u00edci: „V\u00edte, up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b \u0159e\u010deno, m\u00e1m o v\u00e1s obavy, kdy\u017e takto mluv\u00edte. Opravdu mi d\u011bl\u00e1 starosti, jak na tom jste.“ To znamen\u00e1, \u017ee si d\u011bl\u00e1te starosti. A v t\u00e9to soucitn\u00e9 up\u0159\u00edmnosti se postupn\u011b nau\u010d\u00edte b\u00fdt up\u0159\u00edmn\u00ed sami k sob\u011b. Kdy\u017e riskujeme, \u017ee se pod\u011bl\u00edme o to, co n\u00e1s nejv\u00edc bol\u00ed, v p\u0159\u00edtomnosti n\u011bkoho, kdo n\u00e1s nenapadne a neopust\u00ed, m\u016f\u017eeme se nau\u010dit nenapadat a neopou\u0161t\u011bt sami sebe. Ve spojenectv\u00ed s klinikem m\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt znovu vychov\u00e1v\u00e1ni v l\u00e1sce. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Navrhuji v\u00e1m toto: Vezmeme-li t\u0159i body tri\u00e1dy, polo\u017e\u00edme je naplocho na zem a nakresl\u00edme t\u0159i \u010d\u00e1ry dol\u016f, zjist\u00edme, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd bod se spojuje s Bohem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pozitivn\u00ed \u00facta terapeuta zt\u011bles\u0148uje pozitivn\u00ed \u00factu Boha<\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e1 pozitivn\u00ed \u00facta l\u00e9ka\u0159e k v\u00e1m zt\u011bles\u0148uje propastnou nekone\u010dnou pozitivn\u00ed \u00factu Boha k v\u00e1m jako milovan\u00e9mu. P\u0159\u00edtomnost klinick\u00e9ho l\u00e9ka\u0159e se pak st\u00e1v\u00e1 zt\u011blesn\u011bn\u00fdm projevem vyv\u011braj\u00edc\u00edho pramene t\u00e9to hlubinn\u00e9 dimenze a d\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u00e1m najevo, \u017ee jste nep\u0159ekonateln\u011b vz\u00e1cn\u00ed ve v\u0161ech sv\u00fdch cest\u00e1ch. Shrneme-li Thomase Mertona, je ve v\u00e1s n\u011bco, co nepodl\u00e9h\u00e1 brutalit\u011b va\u0161\u00ed vlastn\u00ed v\u016fle, nebo\u0165 to ve v\u00e1s zcela pat\u0159\u00ed Bohu. [2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

B\u016fh s l\u00e1skou ch\u00e1pe skrz naskrz a nav\u017edy. <\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Pravdou je, \u017ee B\u016fh v\u00e1s nekone\u010dn\u011b miluje a nekone\u010dn\u011b dob\u0159e v\u00ed, kdo jste. S nekone\u010dnou moudrost\u00ed t\u011b B\u016fh s l\u00e1skou ch\u00e1pe skrz naskrz a nav\u017edy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pravdivost v\u016f\u010di sob\u011b<\/h5>\n\n\n\n

Soulad je pravdivost, vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00e1 soucitem. M\u016f\u017eete b\u00fdt pravdiv\u00ed sami k sob\u011b. V \u010dem spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 pravdivost v\u016f\u010di sob\u011b? Je to to, \u017ee jsi nekone\u010dn\u011b vz\u00e1cn\u00fd, zlomen\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk. Tato nekone\u010dn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska k v\u00e1m prostupuje va\u0161i zlomenost skrz naskrz. Je s v\u00e1mi nevysv\u011btliteln\u011b nav\u017edy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n

[1] See Carl R. Rogers, On Becoming a Person: A Therapist\u2019s View of Psychotherapy<\/em> (Boston, MA: Houghton Mifflin, 1961), chapter 14. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

[2] See Thomas Merton, Conjectures of a Guilty Bystander<\/em> (Garden City, NY: Doubleday and Company, 1966), 142. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Adapted from James Finley, \u201cAn Introduction to Depression and Spiritual Healing<\/a>,\u201d 2023 Daily Meditations: The Prophetic Path<\/em>, Center for Action and Contemplation, April 4, 2023, video, 24:44. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Image credit:<\/strong> A path from one week to the next\u2014CAC Staff Exercise in Grief and Lamentation<\/em> credits from left to right: Jennifer Tompos, Jenna Keiper, Jenna Keiper. Used with permission. Click here to enlarge image<\/a>.

On retreat, the CAC staff used watercolors to connect to our collective grief. This is one of the watercolor paintings that came from that exercise.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bezpodm\u00edne\u010dn\u00e1 pozitivn\u00ed \u00facta l\u00e9ka\u0159e k v\u00e1m zt\u011bles\u0148uje propastnou nekone\u010dnou pozitivn\u00ed \u00factu Boha k v\u00e1m jako milovan\u00e9mu. P\u0159\u00edtomnost klinick\u00e9ho l\u00e9ka\u0159e se pak st\u00e1v\u00e1 zt\u011blesn\u011bn\u00fdm projevem vyv\u011braj\u00edc\u00edho pramene t\u00e9to hlubinn\u00e9 dimenze a d\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u00e1m najevo, \u017ee jste nep\u0159ekonateln\u011b vz\u00e1cn\u00ed ve v\u0161ech sv\u00fdch cest\u00e1ch. Shrneme-li Thomase Mertona, je ve v\u00e1s n\u011bco, co nepodl\u00e9h\u00e1 brutalit\u011b va\u0161\u00ed vlastn\u00ed v\u016fle, nebo\u0165 to ve v\u00e1s zcela pat\u0159\u00ed Bohu. [2]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7037,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[672,1132],"class_list":["post-7049","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-soucit","tag-terapeut","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7049","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7049"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7049\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7050,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7049\/revisions\/7050"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7037"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7049"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7049"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7049"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}