Autorka Connie Zweigov\u00e1 p\u00ed\u0161e o tom, jak se s p\u0159ib\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00edm v\u011bkem p\u0159esouv\u00e1 d\u016fraz z na\u0161ich „rol\u00ed“ na na\u0161i „du\u0161i“ a jak n\u00e1m pr\u00e1ce se st\u00edny umo\u017e\u0148uje objevit hlub\u0161\u00ed identitu: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n St\u00edn je na\u0161e osobn\u00ed nev\u011bdom\u00ed, ta \u010d\u00e1st na\u0161\u00ed mysli, kter\u00e1 se nach\u00e1z\u00ed za na\u0161\u00edm v\u011bdom\u00edm nebo pod n\u00edm…. St\u00edn je kl\u00ed\u010dem k odstran\u011bn\u00ed vnit\u0159n\u00edch p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eek, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m br\u00e1n\u00ed v nalezen\u00ed poklad\u016f pozdn\u00edho \u017eivota….. <\/p>\n\n\n\n St\u00edn je jako temn\u00e1 komora, v n\u00ed\u017e d\u0159\u00edmaj\u00ed na\u0161e pocity, sny a obrazy. Pr\u00e1ce se st\u00ednem je jako proces v\u00fdvoje, v n\u011bm\u017e se na\u0161e pocity, sny a obrazy vracej\u00ed k \u017eivotu. <\/p>\n\n\n\n V souvislosti s v\u011bkem se v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s nau\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee b\u00fdt nez\u00e1visl\u00fd, rychl\u00fd, produktivn\u00ed a siln\u00fd je vysoce cen\u011bno a vede to k odm\u011bn\u00e1m v podob\u011b uzn\u00e1n\u00ed a postaven\u00ed. Na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b se u\u010d\u00edme, \u017ee jejich opa\u010dn\u00e9 vlastnosti – z\u00e1visl\u00e9, pomal\u00e9, neproduktivn\u00ed a slab\u00e9 – jsou znehodnoceny a vedou k neschv\u00e1len\u00ed a hanb\u011b. Je p\u0159irozen\u00e9, \u017ee se ob\u00e1v\u00e1me ztr\u00e1ty t\u011bchto spole\u010densky p\u0159ijateln\u00fdch vlastnost\u00ed, kdy\u017e st\u00e1rneme, zpomalujeme, m\u00e9n\u011b pracujeme a v\u00edce pot\u0159ebujeme druh\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Pokud na\u0161e p\u0159edstavy a asociace se st\u00e1rnut\u00edm z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed mimo na\u0161e v\u011bdom\u00ed, d\u0159\u00edmaj\u00ed v temn\u00e9 komo\u0159e, pak… si ani nev\u0161imneme, \u017ee je nevn\u00edm\u00e1me. Podobn\u011b jako m\u016fj dev\u011btaosmdes\u00e1tilet\u00fd p\u0159\u00edtel, kter\u00fd mi \u0159ekl, \u017ee nechce b\u00fdt se „star\u00fdmi lidmi“, proto\u017ee nen\u00ed jako oni, pop\u00edr\u00e1me svou realitu a odm\u00edt\u00e1me \u010d\u00e1st sebe sama. Na\u0161e fyzick\u00e9, kognitivn\u00ed a emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed zm\u011bny s sebou nesou t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 b\u0159emeno studu. Ale bez tohoto uv\u011bdom\u011bn\u00ed jsou na\u0161e p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti ztraceny. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Kdy\u017e se nau\u010d\u00edme nav\u00e1zat v\u011bdom\u00fd vztah s t\u011bmi \u010d\u00e1stmi sebe sama, kter\u00e9 jsou mimo v\u011bdom\u00ed, m\u016f\u017eeme se naladit na mnoho sv\u00fdch vnit\u0159n\u00edch hlas\u016f a odhalit, kter\u00e9 z nich pro n\u00e1s mohou b\u00fdt pr\u016fvodci pr\u00e1v\u011b te\u010f – a kter\u00e9 mohou sabotovat na\u0161e sny. M\u016f\u017eeme se nau\u010dit zpomalit, se zv\u011bdavost\u00ed se obr\u00e1tit do sv\u00e9ho nitra a otev\u0159\u00edt se tomu, co n\u00e1s vol\u00e1, ani\u017e bychom to zavrhli – a ani\u017e bychom se t\u00edm nechali ovl\u00e1dnout. Tomu \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m „romantika“ se st\u00ednem. [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Otec Richard uzn\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee pr\u00e1ce se st\u00ednem, kter\u00e1 spo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 v p\u0159ekon\u00e1n\u00ed identifikace s na\u0161imi rolemi a osobnostmi, trv\u00e1 cel\u00fd \u017eivot: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n S l\u00edtost\u00ed mus\u00edm ozn\u00e1mit, \u017ee pr\u00e1ce se st\u00ednem pokra\u010duje a\u017e do konce \u017eivota, jen s t\u00edm rozd\u00edlem, \u017ee u\u017e nejsme tak p\u0159ekvapeni sv\u00fdmi p\u0159ekvapen\u00edmi ani tak tot\u00e1ln\u011b pon\u00ed\u017eeni sv\u00fdmi pon\u00ed\u017een\u00edmi! Jak st\u00e1rneme, za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1me od sebe o\u010dek\u00e1vat r\u016fzn\u00e9 formy polovi\u010datosti, klamu, marnivosti nebo iluz\u00ed. Nyn\u00ed je v\u0161ak dok\u00e1\u017eeme prohl\u00e9dnout, co\u017e ni\u010d\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161inu jejich hry a s\u00edly. <\/p>\n\n\n\n V ml\u00e1d\u00ed se v\u0161ichni tak siln\u011b ztoto\u017e\u0148ujeme se svou osobnost\u00ed, \u017ee se st\u00e1v\u00e1me experty na pop\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed a u\u010d\u00edme se eliminovat nebo pop\u00edrat v\u0161e, co ji nepodporuje. Na\u0161e st\u00ednov\u00e9 j\u00e1 z n\u00e1s v\u0161ech na ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u00farovni d\u011bl\u00e1 pokrytce, n\u011bkoho, kdo sp\u00ed\u0161e hraje roli, ne\u017e aby byl „skute\u010dn\u00fd“. V\u0161ichni jsme v t\u00e9 \u010di on\u00e9 sk\u0159\u00edni a spole\u010dnost n\u00e1s dokonce podporuje v tom, abychom sv\u00e9 role hr\u00e1li. Obvykle v\u0161ichni ostatn\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161 st\u00edn vid\u00ed, proto je z\u00e1sadn\u00ed, abychom se dozv\u011bd\u011bli, co o n\u00e1s v\u0161ichni ostatn\u00ed v\u011bd\u00ed – krom\u011b n\u00e1s! [2]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" V ml\u00e1d\u00ed se v\u0161ichni tak siln\u011b ztoto\u017e\u0148ujeme se svou osobnost\u00ed, \u017ee se st\u00e1v\u00e1me experty na pop\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed a u\u010d\u00edme se eliminovat nebo pop\u00edrat v\u0161e, co ji nepodporuje. Na\u0161e st\u00ednov\u00e9 j\u00e1 z n\u00e1s v\u0161ech na ur\u010dit\u00e9 \u00farovni d\u011bl\u00e1 pokrytce, n\u011bkoho, kdo sp\u00ed\u0161e hraje roli, ne\u017e aby byl „skute\u010dn\u00fd“. V\u0161ichni jsme v t\u00e9 \u010di on\u00e9 sk\u0159\u00edni a spole\u010dnost n\u00e1s dokonce podporuje v tom, abychom sv\u00e9 role hr\u00e1li. Obvykle v\u0161ichni ostatn\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161 st\u00edn vid\u00ed, proto je z\u00e1sadn\u00ed, abychom se dozv\u011bd\u011bli, co o n\u00e1s v\u0161ichni ostatn\u00ed v\u011bd\u00ed – krom\u011b n\u00e1s!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7132,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[255,1155,473,1154],"class_list":["post-7139","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-nas-stin","tag-nase-skutecne-ja","tag-nevedomi","tag-nevedomi-2","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7139","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7139"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7139\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7141,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7139\/revisions\/7141"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7132"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7139"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7139"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7139"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Nev\u011bdom\u00ed je kl\u00ed\u010d k nalezen\u00ed pokladu<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Pr\u00e1ce se st\u00ednem \u2013 nev\u011bdom\u00edm – n\u00e1s vrac\u00ed k \u017eivotu<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Ob\u00e1v\u00e1m se ztr\u00e1ty p\u0159ijet\u00ed spole\u010dnost\u00ed?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Boj\u00edme se reality?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Chceme sly\u0161et na\u0161e vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlasy?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Spolu se st\u00e1rnut\u00edm se n\u00e1m s nev\u011bdom\u00edm pracuje snadn\u011bji<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
V\u00a0ml\u00e1d\u00ed z n\u00e1s nev\u011bdom\u00ed \u010din\u00ed herce, ale nejsme skute\u010dn\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n