U\u010ditelka CAC Barbara Holmesov\u00e1 se s n\u00e1mi pod\u011bl\u00ed o to, jak za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 spole\u010dn\u00e9 uzdraven\u00ed pot\u00e9, co vytvo\u0159\u00edme prostor pro spole\u010dn\u00e9 truchlen\u00ed: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Jsem zahradnice, milovnice temn\u00e9 p\u016fdy a zako\u0159en\u011bn\u00fdch tajemstv\u00ed. Skute\u010dnost, \u017ee z navlh\u010den\u00fdch semen nakonec vyra\u0161\u00ed kv\u011btiny, bylinky a zelenina, je v\u017edycky z\u00e1zrak. Je tak\u00e9 radostn\u00fdm p\u0159ekvapen\u00edm, kdy\u017e lid\u00e9, kter\u00fdm bylo extr\u00e9mn\u011b ubl\u00ed\u017eeno, nach\u00e1zej\u00ed klid a uzdraven\u00ed, i kdy\u017e trauma pokra\u010duje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Moje anekdotick\u00e1 pozorov\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00ed komunity m\u011b p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dila, \u017ee ko\u0159eny uzdraven\u00ed jsou hluboce zasety stejn\u00fdm Duchem, kter\u00fd se vzn\u00e1\u0161el nad stvo\u0159en\u00edm b\u011bhem prom\u011bny sv\u011bta „nech\u0165 se stane“. \u0160amani a ko\u0159en\u00e1\u0159i, teti\u010dky a lidov\u00ed l\u00e9\u010ditel\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed u\u017e d\u00e1vno ode\u0161li, n\u00e1s u\u010dili, \u017ee v\u0161e, co pot\u0159ebujeme k uzdraven\u00ed, m\u00e1me na dosah. Dokonce i slan\u00e9 slzy dok\u00e1zaly vyl\u00e9\u010dit syrov\u00e9 r\u00e1ny, pokud jsme dok\u00e1zali vydr\u017eet bolest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jak vypad\u00e1 uzdraven\u00ed komunit, kter\u00e9 jsou zahlceny p\u0159etrv\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00edm traumatem? Jak mohou komunity p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt? Ti z n\u00e1s, kte\u0159\u00ed vyrostli v atakovan\u00fdch komunit\u00e1ch, v\u00e1m \u0159eknou, \u017ee existuje mnoho mechanism\u016f, jak se s t\u00edm vyrovnat. Jedn\u00edm z prvn\u00edch krok\u016f k uzdraven\u00ed a p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed je velk\u00fd dou\u0161ek reality. Ne\u017e se m\u016f\u017eeme uzdravit, mus\u00edme si p\u0159iznat, \u017ee jsme byli zlomeni. Nem\u016f\u017eeme se uzdravit, dokud nep\u0159izn\u00e1me smutek ud\u00e1losti, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s zranily, neuvoln\u00edme duchovn\u00ed toxiny, kter\u00e9 v n\u00e1s zanechaly, a neotev\u0159eme se n\u011b\u010demu nov\u00e9mu. Spole\u010dn\u00e9 truchlen\u00ed nab\u00edz\u00ed n\u011bco, co nem\u016f\u017eeme z\u00edskat, kdy\u017e truchl\u00edme sami. [1] <\/p>\n\n\n\n Autorka Marcie Alvis Walkerov\u00e1 je sv\u011bdkem toho, jak vytvo\u0159en\u00ed prostoru pro truchlen\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee d\u00e1t vzniknout autentick\u00e9 vd\u011b\u010dnosti a chv\u00e1le: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kdysi za\u010d\u00ednaly bohoslu\u017eby ztr\u00e1tou a n\u00e1\u0159kem. Dnes v\u011bt\u0161ina kostel\u016f za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 chv\u00e1lou a uct\u00edv\u00e1n\u00edm. Netvrd\u00edm, \u017ee jedno je lep\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e druh\u00e9, ale kdybych si mohl vybrat, mysl\u00edm, \u017ee biblick\u00e1 postava jako Job, kter\u00fd byl opu\u0161t\u011bn\u00fd, bez domova, na mizin\u011b a pokryt\u00fd bol\u00e1ky, \u0161p\u00ednou a odsouzen\u00edm, by rad\u011bji nav\u0161t\u00edvil bohoslu\u017ebu ze star\u00e9 \u0161koly m\u00e9ho ml\u00e1d\u00ed, zat\u00edmco dne\u0161n\u00ed v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed, koupaj\u00edc\u00ed se ve sv\u011btle sv\u00ed\u010dek a adorace, by mnohem rad\u011bji dali p\u0159ednost bohoslu\u017eb\u011b, kter\u00e1 za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 a kon\u010d\u00ed na povzn\u00e1\u0161ej\u00edc\u00ed houpa\u010dce chv\u00e1ly a vd\u011b\u010dnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Kdybych si mohla vybrat, … mysl\u00edm, \u017ee uk\u0159i\u017eovan\u00fd Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 popravovan\u00fd na k\u0159\u00ed\u017ei by si vybral n\u00e1\u0159ek, proto\u017ee p\u0159ed vzk\u0159\u00ed\u0161en\u00edm a hostinou na b\u0159ehu byla tma a hrob. <\/p>\n\n\n\n C\u00edrkev m\u00e9ho ml\u00e1d\u00ed tak\u00e9 hodovala. Tak\u00e9 jsme zp\u00edvali ty chv\u00e1ly. Tak\u00e9 jsme byli vd\u011b\u010dn\u00ed. Ale tato chv\u00e1la a tato vd\u011b\u010dnost byla zat\u00ed\u017eena t\u011b\u017ekou histori\u00ed zat\u00ed\u017eenou velkou bolest\u00ed a velkou nespravedlnost\u00ed. Ne\u017e jsme mohli nab\u00eddnout p\u00edsn\u011b chv\u00e1ly a vd\u011b\u010dnosti, nebo hostinu, nebo spole\u010denstv\u00ed, museli jsme si navz\u00e1jem p\u0159ipomenout v\u0161echny d\u016fvody, pro\u010d jsme byli tak velmi, velmi vd\u011b\u010dn\u00ed. A museli jsme si dop\u0159\u00e1t \u010das na pl\u00e1\u010d nad v\u0161\u00edm, co n\u00e1m bylo vzato a st\u00e1le je br\u00e1no. [2] <\/p>\n\n\n\n [1] Adapted from Barbara Holmes and Donny Bryant, \u201cHealing<\/a>,\u201d The Cosmic We<\/em><\/a>, season 4, episode 5 (Albuquerque, NM: Center for Action and Contemplation, 2023), podcast, MP3 audio. Image credit:<\/strong> A path from one week to the next\u2014Alma Thomas, The Eclipse <\/em>(detail), 1970, acrylic on canvas, Smithsonian<\/a>. Alma Thomas, Snow Reflections on Pond <\/em>(detail), 1973, acrylic on canvas, Smithsonian<\/a>. Alma Thomas, Snoopy\u2014Early Sun Display on Earth<\/em> (detail), 1970, acrylic on canvas, Smithsonian<\/a>. Click here to enlarge image<\/a>. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Jedn\u00edm z prvn\u00edch krok\u016f k uzdraven\u00ed a p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed je velk\u00fd dou\u0161ek reality. Ne\u017e se m\u016f\u017eeme uzdravit, mus\u00edme si p\u0159iznat, \u017ee jsme byli zlomeni. Nem\u016f\u017eeme se uzdravit, dokud nep\u0159izn\u00e1me smutek ud\u00e1losti, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s zranily, neuvoln\u00edme duchovn\u00ed toxiny, kter\u00e9 v n\u00e1s zanechaly, a neotev\u0159eme se n\u011b\u010demu nov\u00e9mu. 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A jsou st\u00e1le nadosah<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Uzdraven\u00ed komunity za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 z\u00e1rmutkem<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Mo\u017en\u00e1 je t\u0159eba za\u010d\u00edt n\u00e1\u0159kem jako Job<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Ten by si mo\u017en\u00e1 vybral i Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Navz\u00e1jem si p\u0159ipomenout co n\u00e1m nylo vzato a je st\u00e1le br\u00e1no<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n
[2] Marcie Alvis Walker, Everybody Come Alive: A Memoir in Essays<\/em> (New York: Convergent, 2023), 245\u2013246.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Many pieces form a collective, which makes a whole. We heal together.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n