Buddhistick\u00fd u\u010ditel angel Kyodo williams popisuje, jak lp\u011bn\u00ed na \u0161kodliv\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bz\u00edch m\u016f\u017ee zvy\u0161ovat na\u0161e utrpen\u00ed:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 si p\u0159ehr\u00e1v\u00e1me v hlav\u011b a kter\u00e9 si uchov\u00e1v\u00e1me z minul\u00fdch \u017eivot\u016f, zp\u016fsobuj\u00ed, \u017ee recyklujeme p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m ji\u017e neslou\u017e\u00ed, pokud n\u00e1m v\u016fbec n\u011bkdy slou\u017eily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tyto p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy si pou\u0161t\u00edme st\u00e1le dokola a jako k\u0159e\u010dci v kole\u010dku; ve sv\u00e9m vnit\u0159n\u00edm \u017eivotn\u00edm v\u00fdvoji se nikam neposouv\u00e1me a v d\u016fsledku toho trp\u00edme jako dosp\u011bl\u00ed zran\u011bn\u00edmi z d\u011btstv\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tyto toxick\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy pomalu vytla\u010duj\u00ed potenci\u00e1l radosti a lehkosti, kter\u00fd je p\u0159irozen\u00fdm pr\u00e1vem ka\u017ed\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 bytosti….. Pokud se tomuto vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed, d\u011bjov\u00e9 linii „ne a ne“ – nemilovan\u00ed, nevid\u011bn\u00ed, nedocen\u011bn\u00ed, necht\u011bn\u00ed, nep\u011bstovan\u00ed, ne dost dob\u0159\u00ed, ne dost chyt\u0159\u00ed, ne dost atraktivn\u00ed, ne dost mocn\u00ed, ne dost bohat\u00ed, ne t\u00e9 spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 barvy nebo pohlav\u00ed nebo postaven\u00ed nebo t\u0159\u00eddy – jednodu\u0161e odevzd\u00e1me, pak se vzd\u00e1v\u00e1me jedin\u00e9 v\u011bci, kter\u00e1 m\u016f\u017ee zm\u011bnit n\u00e1\u0161 vztah k cel\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti: odpov\u011bdnosti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u010casto \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m: „Nen\u00ed to va\u0161e vina, ale je to va\u0161e zodpov\u011bdnost“. Je zcela pravda, \u017ee v \u017eivot\u011b existuje mnoho podm\u00ednek, kter\u00e9 prop\u016fj\u010duj\u00ed m\u00e9n\u011b ne\u017e \u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed zku\u0161enost. Je v\u0161ak tak\u00e9 pravda, \u017ee na konci va\u0161ich dn\u016f na t\u00e9to planet\u011b budete sv\u016fj \u017eivot \u017e\u00edt jen vy. To, jak pro\u017eijete jak\u00e9koli podm\u00ednky, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m \u017eivot naserv\u00edruje, p\u0159\u00edmo souvis\u00ed s t\u00edm, jakou zodpov\u011bdnost se rozhodnete p\u0159evz\u00edt. Nikdo z n\u00e1s nem\u016f\u017ee ovlivnit v\u0161echny (pokud v\u016fbec n\u011bjak\u00e9) podm\u00ednky, ale m\u016f\u017eeme si vybrat, jak budeme pro\u017e\u00edvat podm\u00ednky, ve kter\u00fdch se ocitneme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pokud neza\u010dneme vyvracet hlubok\u00fd vnit\u0159n\u00ed m\u00fdtus, kter\u00fd v sob\u011b mnoz\u00ed z n\u00e1s nos\u00ed, \u017ee si nezaslou\u017e\u00edme v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed radost, l\u00e1sku nebo lehkost v \u017eivot\u011b, proto\u017ee jsme _______ (dopl\u0148te do pr\u00e1zdn\u00e9ho m\u00edsta podle vlastn\u00edho v\u00fdb\u011bru), pak se sami odsuzujeme do role ob\u011bt\u00ed ve vlastn\u00edch filmech. [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Brian McLaren je sv\u011bdkem toho, jak n\u00e1s Sedm\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh m\u016f\u017ee osvobodit od jin\u00fdch nespravedliv\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f, v\u010detn\u011b p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu ob\u011bti:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, na kter\u00e9 jsme se pod\u00edvali – p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy nadvl\u00e1dy, revoluce, o\u010disty, izolace – tyto p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy vytv\u00e1\u0159ej\u00ed ob\u011bti. Tyto p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy \u010din\u00ed lidi ob\u011b\u0165mi a velmi \u010dasto jsou \u017eivoty lid\u00ed t\u011bmito p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy devastov\u00e1ny, ni\u010deny nebo ukon\u010deny. Dalo by se \u0159\u00edci, \u017ee v \u017eivotech milion\u016f lid\u00ed se zku\u0161enost, \u017ee jsou ob\u011bt\u00ed t\u011bchto jin\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f, st\u00e1v\u00e1 nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed realitou jejich \u017eivota. Tato realita se st\u00e1v\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhem viktimizace. Sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed r\u00e1mce Sedm\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhu je to, \u017ee komunikuje s lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed se stali ob\u011bt\u00ed jin\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f, a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: „R\u00e1di bychom v\u00e1m dali svolen\u00ed, aby se tento p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh nestal ur\u010duj\u00edc\u00edm faktorem va\u0161eho \u017eivota, ale sp\u00ed\u0161e v\u00e1m pomohl vid\u011bt a ch\u00e1pat sebe sama n\u011bjak\u00fdm jin\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem.“ V tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se jedn\u00e1 o p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh, kter\u00fd se stal ob\u011bt\u00ed jin\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f. Dominace vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed ob\u011bti. Revoluce vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed ob\u011bti. O\u010dista vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed ob\u011bti. Ob\u011bti v\u0161ak maj\u00ed alternativu v tom, jak definovat sv\u016fj \u017eivot. Sedm\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee osvobodit od toho, aby n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot byl n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem definov\u00e1n \u00fatlakem, zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00edm, vyko\u0159is\u0165ov\u00e1n\u00edm, marginalizac\u00ed nebo o\u010der\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00edm. [2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n [1] angel Kyodo williams, foreword to Valerie Mason-John, Detox Your Heart: Meditations for Healing Emotional Trauma, <\/em>rev. ed. (Somerville, MA: Wisdom Publications, 2017), ix, x.<\/p>\n\n\n\n [2] Adapted from Brian McLaren and Gareth Higgins, \u201cVictimization Stories<\/a>,\u201d<\/u><\/a> Learning How to See<\/em>, season 5, ep. 6 (Albuquerque, NM: Center for Action and Contemplation, 2023), podcast. Available as MP3 audio and pdf transcript. For further resources, see The Seventh Story<\/a> <\/em>and The Porch Community<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit:<\/strong> Joel and Jasmin F\u00f8restbird, Untitled <\/em>(detail), 2018, photograph, public domain<\/a>. Click here to enlarge image<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Stories are layered like the rings of a tree.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u010casto \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m: „Nen\u00ed to va\u0161e vina, ale je to va\u0161e zodpov\u011bdnost“. Je zcela pravda, \u017ee v \u017eivot\u011b existuje mnoho podm\u00ednek, kter\u00e9 prop\u016fj\u010duj\u00ed m\u00e9n\u011b ne\u017e \u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed zku\u0161enost. Je v\u0161ak tak\u00e9 pravda, \u017ee na konci va\u0161ich dn\u016f na t\u00e9to planet\u011b budete sv\u016fj \u017eivot \u017e\u00edt jen vy. To, jak pro\u017eijete jak\u00e9koli podm\u00ednky, kter\u00e9 v\u00e1m \u017eivot naserv\u00edruje, p\u0159\u00edmo souvis\u00ed s t\u00edm, jakou zodpov\u011bdnost se rozhodnete p\u0159evz\u00edt. Nikdo z n\u00e1s nem\u016f\u017ee ovlivnit v\u0161echny (pokud v\u016fbec n\u011bjak\u00e9) podm\u00ednky, ale m\u016f\u017eeme si vybrat, jak budeme pro\u017e\u00edvat podm\u00ednky, ve kter\u00fdch se ocitneme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[1428,1552],"class_list":["post-8267","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-odpovednost","tag-viktimizace","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8267","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8267"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8267\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8269,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8267\/revisions\/8269"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8267"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8267"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8267"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Star\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy v na\u0161\u00ed hlav\u011b zp\u016fsobuj\u00ed stagnaci<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Negativn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy br\u00e1n\u00ed osobn\u00ed odpov\u011bdnosti za n\u00e1s \u017eivot<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Nen\u00ed to va\u0161e vina, ale je to va\u0161e zodpov\u011bdnost \u2013 m\u016f\u017eeme si vybrat<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Opus\u0165me roli ob\u011bti<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Za\u010dn\u011bme sebe ch\u00e1pat jinak, ne\u017e jako ob\u011b\u0165 jin\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh\u016f. Dovolte si \u017e\u00edt svobodn\u011b sv\u016fj \u017eivot<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n