{"id":8402,"date":"2024-02-29T08:19:25","date_gmt":"2024-02-29T07:19:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=8402"},"modified":"2024-02-29T08:19:29","modified_gmt":"2024-02-29T07:19:29","slug":"hnev-a-zarmutek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2024\/02\/29\/hnev-a-zarmutek\/","title":{"rendered":"Hn\u011bv a z\u00e1rmutek"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Dev\u00e1t\u00fd t\u00fdden: Kdy\u017e se hn\u011bv setk\u00e1 s l\u00e1skou<\/h6>\n\n\n\n

Mirabai Starrov\u00e1 p\u00ed\u0161e o siln\u00fdch emoc\u00edch, v\u010detn\u011b hn\u011bvu, kter\u00e9 jsou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed ztr\u00e1ty milovan\u00e9 osoby:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hn\u011bv m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt p\u0159irozenou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed z\u00e1rmutku<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Pokud je z\u00e1rmutek p\u0159irozenou reakc\u00ed na ztr\u00e1tu … pak je p\u0159irozen\u00fd i hn\u011bv, kter\u00fd je b\u011b\u017en\u00fdm atributem z\u00e1rmutku. S\u00edla na\u0161eho hn\u011bvu \u010dasto koreluje s hloubkou na\u0161\u00ed l\u00e1sky. Hn\u011bv m\u00e1 na cest\u011b z\u00e1rmutkem mnoho podob. N\u011bkdy se projevuje jako podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bnost na n\u00edzk\u00e9 \u00farovni a jindy jako \u0159vouc\u00ed ohe\u0148, kter\u00fd se \u010dasto vyb\u00edj\u00ed na nevhodn\u00fdch c\u00edlech. N\u011bkdy je zam\u011b\u0159en na osobu, kterou pova\u017eujeme za zodpov\u011bdnou za na\u0161i ztr\u00e1tu…..<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Z\u00e1rmutek je sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed duchovn\u00ed prom\u011bny<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

N\u011bkdy je hn\u011bv nam\u00ed\u0159en proti Bohu: „Co je to za Boha, kter\u00fd mohl dopustit takov\u00e9 utrpen\u00ed?“ nebo „U\u010dili m\u011b v\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee m\u011b B\u016fh miluje. Z\u0159ejm\u011b to bylo \u0161patn\u011b…“ I kdy\u017e je l\u00e1kav\u00e9 redukovat tuto zku\u0161enost na krizi v\u00edry, takov\u00e9 jednoduch\u00e9 vysv\u011btlen\u00ed by mohlo zast\u0159\u00edt bohatou duchovn\u00ed prom\u011bnu, kter\u00e1 se odehr\u00e1v\u00e1, jak by \u0159ekl Jan od K\u0159\u00ed\u017ee (1542-1591), v temnot\u00e1ch na\u0161\u00ed vlastn\u00ed du\u0161e. V\u0161echno, o \u010dem jsme si mysleli, \u017ee v\u00edme, jako by se rozpadalo a my nem\u00e1me kam jinam se obr\u00e1tit ne\u017e do st\u0159edu radik\u00e1ln\u00ed nev\u011bdomosti. Z\u00e1rmutek rozb\u00edj\u00ed na\u0161e z\u00e1klady a spou\u0161t\u00ed celkovou reorientaci smyslu. Ne\u017e se vrhneme do p\u0159etv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed st\u0159ep\u016f, m\u016f\u017eeme se rozhodnout, \u017ee si v trosk\u00e1ch sedneme a nech\u00e1me se jednodu\u0161e zlomit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u016fvodn\u00ed b\u016fh nebyl B\u016fh<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Na m\u00edst\u011b zk\u00e1zy se setk\u00e1me tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 s vlastn\u00ed bezd\u016fvodnost\u00ed. Uvid\u00edme tak\u00e9 extr\u00e9mn\u00ed chudobu na\u0161eho dosavadn\u00edho pojet\u00ed Boha. Krabice, do n\u00ed\u017e jsme v\u017edy uzav\u00edrali posv\u00e1tno, byla n\u00e1sil\u00edm na\u0161\u00ed ztr\u00e1ty zbo\u0159ena. B\u016fh, kter\u00e9ho jsme si vytvo\u0159ili (s pomoc\u00ed spole\u010dnosti, rodiny, c\u00edrkve), utekl. Nen\u00ed divu, \u017ee se c\u00edt\u00edme opu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed. Nen\u00ed divu, \u017ee se zlob\u00edme. Ale ten b\u016fh nebyl B\u016fh. Na\u0161e du\u0161e to nyn\u00ed v\u011bd\u00ed…. Z\u00e1rmutek je p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k obnoven\u00ed autentick\u00e9ho spojen\u00ed s Tajemstv\u00edm. [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anglik\u00e1nsk\u00e1 teolo\u017eka Maggie Rossov\u00e1 p\u00ed\u0161e o slz\u00e1ch jako o p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti „o\u010distit“ n\u00e1\u0161 hn\u011bv a bolest:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vyplakat hn\u011bv ze sebe<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

V\u011bt\u0161inou je n\u00e1\u0161 hn\u011bv zp\u016fsoben neochotou \u010delit zran\u011bn\u00ed, kter\u00e9 c\u00edt\u00edme, a skute\u010dn\u00fdm d\u016fvod\u016fm, kter\u00e9 za n\u00edm stoj\u00ed. Nau\u010dit se plakat, abychom se osvobodili od hn\u011bvu a poznali „klid“, neub\u00edr\u00e1 na sebe\u00fact\u011b a nesouvis\u00ed se shazov\u00e1n\u00edm sebe sama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naopak, pokud se sna\u017e\u00edme hledat Boha jedn\u00edm srdcem, nau\u010dit se vyplakat ze sebe hn\u011bv je ot\u00e1zkou sebe\u00facty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Slzy sm\u00fdvaj\u00ed hn\u011bv<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159edstava, \u017ee slzy z n\u00e1s sm\u00fdvaj\u00ed hn\u011bv, je mrav\u016fm mocensky orientovan\u00e9 z\u00e1padn\u00ed spole\u010dnosti ciz\u00ed. Jsme podm\u00edn\u011bni t\u00edm, abychom sv\u016fj hn\u011bv ospravedl\u0148ovali, abychom hledali spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 m\u00edsto, kam svalit vinu, a abychom se v\u017edy c\u00edtili dob\u0159e. V\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s si hn\u011bv a slzy spojuje se slzami, kter\u00e9 pramen\u00ed ze zlosti, nikoli se slzami, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s od hn\u011bvu o\u010di\u0161\u0165uj\u00ed. Ale … slzy hn\u011bvu jsou samy o sob\u011b … znamen\u00edm volby, potenci\u00e1ln\u00ed zm\u011bny. [2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch cac.org.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n

[1] Mirabai Starr, \u201cThe Second Sacred Gate: Grief, Anger, and Transformation,\u201d Oneing <\/em> 6, no. 1, Anger <\/em>(Spring 2018): 79\u201380. Available in print<\/a> and PDF download<\/u><\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[2] Maggie Ross, The Fountain and the Furnace: The Way of Tears and Fire <\/em>(Mahwah, NJ: Paulist Press, 1987), 133.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Image credit:<\/strong> Benjamin Yazza, Untitled <\/em>(detail), New Mexico, 2023, photograph, used with permission. Click here to enlarge image<\/a>.

Anger is a spark that motivates us forward. Love is a pathway that funnels our motivation in an impactful direction.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Na m\u00edst\u011b zk\u00e1zy se setk\u00e1me tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 s vlastn\u00ed bezd\u016fvodnost\u00ed. Uvid\u00edme tak\u00e9 extr\u00e9mn\u00ed chudobu na\u0161eho dosavadn\u00edho pojet\u00ed Boha. Krabice, do n\u00ed\u017e jsme v\u017edy uzav\u00edrali posv\u00e1tno, byla n\u00e1sil\u00edm na\u0161\u00ed ztr\u00e1ty zbo\u0159ena. B\u016fh, kter\u00e9ho jsme si vytvo\u0159ili (s pomoc\u00ed spole\u010dnosti, rodiny, c\u00edrkve), utekl. Nen\u00ed divu, \u017ee se c\u00edt\u00edme opu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed. Nen\u00ed divu, \u017ee se zlob\u00edme. Ale ten b\u016fh nebyl B\u016fh. Na\u0161e du\u0161e to nyn\u00ed v\u011bd\u00ed…. Z\u00e1rmutek je p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed k obnoven\u00ed autentick\u00e9ho spojen\u00ed s Tajemstv\u00edm. [1]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8389,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[898,1594,1126,1077,277],"class_list":["post-8402","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-hnev","tag-jiny-buh","tag-slzy","tag-smutek","tag-tajemstvi","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8402","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8402"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8402\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8403,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8402\/revisions\/8403"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8389"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8402"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8402"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8402"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}