Ne\u017e v\u0161ak bude\u0161 moci milovat bli\u017en\u00edho – sv\u00e9ho bratra nebo sestru – jako sebe sama, mus\u00ed\u0161 nejprve milovat s\u00e1m sebe. A abyste mohli nejprve milovat sami sebe, mus\u00edte v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee B\u016fh v\u00e1s miluje nyn\u00ed a miluje v\u00e1s nav\u017edy.-Arcibiskup Desmond Tutu, B\u016fh m\u00e1 sen<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Richard Rohr spojuje na\u0161i schopnost milovat druh\u00e9 s na\u0161\u00ed schopnost\u00ed p\u0159ij\u00edmat Bo\u017e\u00ed l\u00e1sku.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Autentick\u00e1 l\u00e1ska je z jednoho kusu. Jak milujeme cokoli, tak milujeme v\u0161echno. Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 n\u00e1m p\u0159ikazuje: \u201eMilujte sv\u00e9 bli\u017en\u00ed, jako milujeme sami sebe.\u201c Spojuje dv\u011b velk\u00e1 p\u0159ik\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed l\u00e1sky k Bohu a k bli\u017en\u00edmu a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee jsou si \u201epodobn\u00e1\u201c (Mt 22,39). \u010casto si mysl\u00edme, \u017ee to znamen\u00e1 milovat bli\u017en\u00edho stejnou l\u00e1skou – takovou, jakou milujeme sami sebe -, zat\u00edmco ve skute\u010dnosti to znamen\u00e1, \u017ee je to tent\u00fd\u017e Zdroj a tat\u00e1\u017e L\u00e1ska, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1m umo\u017e\u0148uje milovat sebe, druh\u00e9 i Boha z\u00e1rove\u0148! Takto bohu\u017eel v\u011bt\u0161ina lid\u00ed l\u00e1sku, soucit a odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed nech\u00e1pe – a p\u0159esto je to jedin\u00fd zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm v\u016fbec funguj\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Uvnit\u0159 dualistick\u00e9ho v\u011bdom\u00ed nem\u016f\u017eeme up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b milovat druh\u00e9ho ani odpou\u0161t\u011bt ur\u00e1\u017eky. Mnoho pastor\u016f a kn\u011b\u017e\u00ed prok\u00e1zalo Bo\u017e\u00edmu lidu velkou medv\u011bd\u00ed slu\u017ebu t\u00edm, \u017ee mu k\u00e1zali evangelium, ale nedali mu n\u00e1stroje, jak ho \u017e\u00edt. Jak \u0159ekl Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161: \u201eOd\u0159\u00edznuti od vinn\u00e9ho kmene nem\u016f\u017eete nic d\u011blat\u201c (Jan 15,5). \u201eVinn\u00fd kmen a ratolesti\u201c nab\u00edzej\u00ed jeden z nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edch k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdch mystick\u00fdch obraz\u016f nedvojnosti mezi Bohem a du\u0161\u00ed. V Bohu a s Bohem mohu milovat v\u0161echno a v\u0161echny – dokonce i sv\u00e9 nep\u0159\u00e1tele. S\u00e1m a s\u00e1m se svou v\u016fl\u00ed a intelektem budu v obt\u00ed\u017en\u00fdch situac\u00edch \u010dasem jen z\u0159\u00eddka schopen milovat. Mnoho lid\u00ed se sna\u017e\u00ed milovat silou v\u016fle, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e jedin\u00fdm zdrojem jsou oni sami. Sna\u017e\u00ed se dodr\u017eovat druh\u00e9 p\u0159ik\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed bez prvn\u00edho. To nikdy dlouhodob\u011b nefunguje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n A kone\u010dn\u011b, mezi l\u00e1skou a utrpen\u00edm je samoz\u0159ejm\u011b p\u0159\u00edm\u00e1 linie. Pokud n\u011bkoho nebo n\u011bco hluboce a velmi milujeme, je pom\u011brn\u011b jist\u00e9, \u017ee budeme brzy trp\u011bt, proto\u017ee jsme nab\u00eddli kontrolu druh\u00e9mu, a cena sebedarov\u00e1n\u00ed se brzy projev\u00ed. Nepochybn\u011b pr\u00e1v\u011b proto je n\u00e1m \u0159e\u010deno, abychom byli ve sv\u00e9 l\u00e1sce v\u011brn\u00ed, proto\u017ee takov\u00e1 dlouhodob\u00e1 v\u011brnost a skute\u010dn\u011b v\u011bdom\u00e1 l\u00e1ska n\u00e1s v\u017edy povede k nutn\u00e9mu o\u0159ez\u00e1n\u00ed (Jan 15,2) narcistick\u00e9ho j\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Dokud nemilujeme a dokud netrp\u00edme, v\u0161ichni se sna\u017e\u00edme p\u0159ij\u00edt na \u017eivot a smrt rozumem. Pak se v n\u00e1s otev\u0159e V\u011bt\u0161\u00ed zdroj a my \u201emysl\u00edme\u201c a c\u00edt\u00edme zcela jinak d\u00edky \u201epozn\u00e1n\u00ed L\u00e1sky, kter\u00e1 je nad ka\u017ed\u00e9 pozn\u00e1n\u00ed\u201c (Ef 3,19). Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 by tedy p\u0159irozen\u011b \u0159ekl n\u011bco jako: \u201eToto je m\u00e9 p\u0159ik\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed: Milujte se navz\u00e1jem!\u201c. (Jan 13,34). Autentick\u00e1 l\u00e1ska (kter\u00e1 je v\u017edy v\u00edc ne\u017e cit) nejprve otev\u00edr\u00e1 dve\u0159e v\u011bdom\u00ed a \u017eivosti, a pak utrpen\u00ed pro tuto l\u00e1sku udr\u017euje tyto dve\u0159e otev\u0159en\u00e9 pro vstup mysli, t\u011bla a v\u016fle. P\u0159edpokl\u00e1d\u00e1m, \u017ee pro v\u011bt\u0161inu z n\u00e1s je to pr\u00e1ce na cel\u00fd \u017eivot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na cac.org.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Adapted from Richard Rohr: Essential Teachings on Love<\/a><\/em>, selected by\u202fJoelle Chase and Judy Traeger (Maryknoll, NY: Orbis Books, 2018), 206\u2013207. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit and inspiration<\/strong>: Cynthia Magana, untitled<\/a> <\/em>(detail), 2016, photo, Unsplash. Click here to enlarge image.<\/a> In order to care for each other, we must also take care of ourselves.<\/em> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" V Bohu a s Bohem mohu milovat v\u0161echno a v\u0161echny – dokonce i sv\u00e9 nep\u0159\u00e1tele. S\u00e1m a s\u00e1m se svou v\u016fl\u00ed a intelektem budu v obt\u00ed\u017en\u00fdch situac\u00edch \u010dasem jen z\u0159\u00eddka schopen milovat. Mnoho lid\u00ed se sna\u017e\u00ed milovat silou v\u016fle, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e jedin\u00fdm zdrojem jsou oni sami. Sna\u017e\u00ed se dodr\u017eovat druh\u00e9 p\u0159ik\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed bez prvn\u00edho. To nikdy dlouhodob\u011b nefunguje.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8885,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[1710,154],"class_list":["post-8884","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-dualisticke-vedomi","tag-laska","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8884","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8884"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8884\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8886,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8884\/revisions\/8886"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8885"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8884"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8884"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8884"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Zdroj a tat\u00e1\u017e L\u00e1ska, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1m umo\u017e\u0148uje milovat sebe, druh\u00e9 i Boha z\u00e1rove\u0148<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Mnoho lid\u00ed se sna\u017e\u00ed milovat silou v\u016fle, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e jedin\u00fdm zdrojem jsou oni sami.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
dlouhodob\u00e1 v\u011brnost a skute\u010dn\u011b v\u011bdom\u00e1 l\u00e1ska n\u00e1s v\u017edy povede k nutn\u00e9mu omezen\u00ed narcistick\u00e9ho j\u00e1.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Autentick\u00e1 l\u00e1ska otev\u00edr\u00e1 dve\u0159e v\u011bdom\u00ed a \u017eivosti<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n