Advok\u00e1t Carl Siciliano vypr\u00e1v\u00ed o tom, jak se ve vztahu ke komunit\u011b LGBTQ \u010dasto dost\u00e1val do rozporu s t\u00edm, co u\u010dily k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 c\u00edrkve: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n L\u00e1ska, kterou jsem objevil v Bohu, kdy\u017e jsem byl mlad\u0161\u00ed, byla divok\u00e1 a bezmezn\u00e1. Ale jak jsem dosp\u00edval a dosp\u011bl do sv\u00e9 queer orientace, musel jsem po\u010d\u00edtat s t\u011b\u017ek\u00fdmi ot\u00e1zkami. Jak mohli p\u0159edstavitel\u00e9 n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed zasv\u011bcen\u00e9ho Bohu l\u00e1sky hanobit mou komunitu? Pro\u010d mus\u00ed sv\u00e1 dogmata up\u0159ednost\u0148ovat p\u0159ed \u017eivoty Bo\u017e\u00edch queer d\u011bt\u00ed? Jak je mo\u017en\u00e9, \u017ee duchovn\u00ed tradice, kter\u00e1 vychov\u00e1vala m\u00e9 prvn\u00ed roky slu\u017eby, je tou samou entitou, kter\u00e1 tak lehkomysln\u011b p\u0159iv\u00e1d\u00ed mlad\u00e9 lidi v m\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010di do zk\u00e1zy? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Nyn\u00ed se mi za\u010dala r\u00fdsovat odpov\u011b\u010f: Co kdy\u017e jsem se od tohoto konfliktu nem\u011bl odvr\u00e1tit, ale naopak jsem byl povol\u00e1n se mu postavit? Co kdy\u017e jsem m\u011bl b\u00fdt sv\u011bdkem devastace p\u00e1chan\u00e9 na mlad\u00fdch LGBT lidech a pou\u017e\u00edt sv\u016fj hlas pro pravdu, abych vyk\u0159ikl, \u017ee takov\u00e9 krutosti nejsou cestou Krista?…<\/p>\n\n\n\n Thomas Merton napsal o \u201ev\u011b\u010dn\u00e9m konfliktu\u201c [1] uvnit\u0159 k\u0159es\u0165anstv\u00ed – konfliktu mezi t\u011bmi, kdo se st\u00e1vaj\u00ed samospravedliv\u00fdmi a odsuzuj\u00ed h\u0159\u00edchy druh\u00fdch, a t\u011bmi, kdo se u\u010d\u00ed pokorn\u011b p\u0159ij\u00edmat svou bytostnou jednotu s bli\u017en\u00edmi. Douf\u00e1m, \u017ee c\u00edrkev k takov\u00e9 poko\u0159e dosp\u011bje a bude \u010dinit pok\u00e1n\u00ed za stra\u0161liv\u00e9 \u0161kody, kter\u00e9 zp\u016fsobila queer lidem, zejm\u00e9na queer d\u011btem. Nev\u00edm, zda se toho do\u017eiji. V\u00edm jen, \u017ee si nedok\u00e1\u017eu p\u0159edstavit, jak lze \u0161kodliv\u00e9 prvky c\u00edrkve uzdravit, pokud nedok\u00e1\u017eu vyko\u0159enit vztek a rozd\u011blen\u00ed ve sv\u00e9m vlastn\u00edm srdci. U\u017e m\u011b nebav\u00ed b\u00fdt na\u0161tvan\u00fd. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Po t\u0159i desetilet\u00ed Siciliano podporoval LGBTQ ml\u00e1de\u017e trp\u00edc\u00ed z\u00e1vislost\u00ed, odm\u00edtnut\u00edm a zlomen\u00fdm srdcem. Je sv\u011bdkem jejich z\u00e1rmutku skrze sv\u00e9 porozum\u011bn\u00ed Kristov\u011b smrti a vzk\u0159\u00ed\u0161en\u00ed: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Jako teenager jsem tou\u017eil vid\u011bt Kristovu tv\u00e1\u0159 na vlastn\u00ed o\u010di. Str\u00e1vil jsem mnoho a mnoho hodin v modlitb\u00e1ch a rozj\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed, zoufale jsem se sna\u017eil zahl\u00e9dnout sv\u00e9ho milovan\u00e9ho Boha. Tato touha se zm\u011bnila. Po cel\u00e1 desetilet\u00ed jsem toti\u017e znovu a znovu vid\u011bl tv\u00e1\u0159 uk\u0159i\u017eovan\u00e9ho Krista. Vid\u011bl jsem Krista, kdy\u017e se Cheri dusila slzami v kuchyni SafeSpace. Vid\u011bl jsem Krista, kdy\u017e se mnou Ali sed\u011bl v z\u00e1rmutku na stanici metra a kdy\u017e jsem se d\u00edval do ohromen\u00fdch, smutkem zasa\u017een\u00fdch o\u010d\u00ed KJ, Rashona a mnoha dal\u0161\u00edch mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed, kdy\u017e mi vypr\u00e1v\u011bli, jak\u00e9 to je, kdy\u017e je opust\u00ed rodina a sp\u00ed na ulici.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Po v\u011bt\u0161inu sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota jsem se d\u00edval na zlomen\u00e9ho Krista, Krista pron\u00e1sledovan\u00fdch, Krista, kter\u00fd je k n\u00e1m p\u0159ipout\u00e1n v na\u0161\u00ed opu\u0161t\u011bnosti. Nyn\u00ed je mou nejhlub\u0161\u00ed touhou vid\u011bt uzdraven\u00ed jejich ran, sv\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed toho, co bylo zlomeno, set\u0159en\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9 slzy, \u201enapraven\u00ed v\u0161eho\u201c. <\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch cac.org.<\/p>\n\n\n\n [1] Thomas Merton, Contemplative Prayer<\/em> (New York: Herder and Herder, 1969), 30. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Carl Siciliano, Making Room: Three Decades of Fighting for Beds, Belonging, and a Safe Place for LGBTQ Youth <\/em>(New York: Convergent, 2024), 242\u2013243, 245, 263. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit and inspiration<\/strong>: Cynthia Magana, untitled<\/a> <\/em>(detail), 2016, photo, Unsplash. Click here to enlarge image.<\/a> In order to care for each other, we must also take care of ourselves.<\/em> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Po v\u011bt\u0161inu sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota jsem se d\u00edval na zlomen\u00e9ho Krista, Krista pron\u00e1sledovan\u00fdch, Krista, kter\u00fd je k n\u00e1m p\u0159ipout\u00e1n v na\u0161\u00ed opu\u0161t\u011bnosti. Nyn\u00ed je mou nejhlub\u0161\u00ed touhou vid\u011bt uzdraven\u00ed jejich ran, sv\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00ed toho, co bylo zlomeno, set\u0159en\u00ed ka\u017ed\u00e9 slzy, \u201enapraven\u00ed v\u0161eho\u201c.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8885,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[1716,1717],"class_list":["post-8903","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-lgbtq","tag-lide-na-okraji","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8903","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8903"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8903\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8904,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8903\/revisions\/8904"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8885"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8903"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8903"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8903"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Jin\u00e1 orientace<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Rozhodl jsem LGBTQ p\u0159ed c\u00edrkv\u00ed h\u00e1jit<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Dojde c\u00edrkev k poko\u0159e?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Opu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed lid\u00e9 na ulici<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Vid\u00edm v nich Krista uk\u0159i\u017eovan\u00e9ho <\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n