Howard Thurman (1899-1981) se zam\u00fd\u0161lel nad t\u00edm, \u017ee mu rozj\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed pom\u00e1h\u00e1 rozli\u0161ovat mezi soucitem a l\u00edtost\u00ed. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Pro soucit u\u017e je tam m\u00edsta dost … [v\u010detn\u011b] sebel\u00edtosti, t\u00e9 lepkav\u00e9 hmoty, kter\u00e1 ni\u010d\u00ed v\u0161e, \u010deho se dotkne….. Je ve mn\u011b l\u00edtost – l\u00edtost nad druh\u00fdmi. Ale je v n\u00ed n\u011bco, \u010demu se ned\u00e1 v\u011b\u0159it; je sm\u00ed\u0161en\u00e1 s p\u00fdchou, aroganc\u00ed, lstivost\u00ed. Vid\u00edm to jen tehdy, kdy\u017e se v tich\u00e9m \u010dase vystav\u00edm Bo\u017e\u00edm o\u010d\u00edm. Teprve te\u010f vid\u00edm, co je m\u016fj soucit ve skute\u010dnosti za\u010d a z jak\u00fdch zdroj\u016f pramen\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u016fh v m\u00e9m srdci vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed prostor pro soucit: v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee tam, kde za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 m\u016fj \u017eivot, za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 i tv\u016fj \u017eivot; v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee … tv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby nelze odd\u011blit od … m\u00fdch pot\u0159eb; v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee radosti m\u00e9ho srdce nejsou nikdy jen moje – ani moje smutky. Bojuju proti Bo\u017e\u00edmu p\u016fsoben\u00ed ve sv\u00e9m srdci; chci b\u00fdt ponech\u00e1n s\u00e1m sob\u011b. Chci, aby m\u00e9 hranice z\u016fstaly pevn\u00e9, abych m\u011bl klid. Ale i te\u010f, kdy\u017e se v tichu obrac\u00edm k [Bohu], je [Bo\u017e\u00ed] d\u00edlo ve mn\u011b st\u00e1le stejn\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n B\u016fh pracuje na roz\u0161i\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed hranic m\u00e9ho srdce. [1]<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ve\u0159ejn\u00e1 teolo\u017eka Nadia Bolz-Weberov\u00e1 b\u011bhem n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bvy v\u011bznice odm\u00edt\u00e1 poku\u0161en\u00ed d\u00edvat se na druh\u00e9 s l\u00edtost\u00ed m\u00edsto se soucitem. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n D\u00edv\u00e1m se t\u011bm dv\u011bma mlad\u00fdm mu\u017e\u016fm do o\u010d\u00ed a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m si: Nebudu v\u00e1s litovat. Ale v t\u00e9to chv\u00edli uvid\u00edm by\u0165 jen zlomek va\u0161\u00ed bolesti a uzn\u00e1m, \u017ee je podobn\u00e1 t\u00e9 m\u00e9 a velmi se j\u00ed nepodob\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n V m\u00e9m pojet\u00ed nen\u00ed l\u00edtost ani obdobou soucitu.\u202fL\u00edtost je jen paternalistick\u00fd bratranec pohrd\u00e1n\u00ed. Umo\u017e\u0148uje n\u00e1m vid\u011bt druh\u00e9 jako \u201ety m\u00e9n\u011b \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9, ne\u017e jsme my sami\u201c (term\u00edn, kter\u00fd nesn\u00e1\u0161\u00edm). L\u00edtost udr\u017euje druh\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka v odstupu a m\u011b v p\u0159ehnan\u00e9m stavu spokojenosti…. Soucit n\u00e1s naopak p\u0159ibli\u017euje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tak\u017ee ne, nelituji mu\u017ee, kter\u00e9 jsem potkala….. Stejn\u011b jako j\u00e1 a jako vy jsou to slo\u017eit\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 bytosti. Za\u017eili l\u00e1sku, o kter\u00e9 nev\u00edm, a maj\u00ed opravdu velk\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edb\u011bhy, kter\u00e9 nikdy neusly\u0161\u00edm….. Tak\u017ee \u201elitovat\u201c je jen na z\u00e1klad\u011b toho m\u00e1la, co te\u010f o jejich p\u0159\u00edb\u011bz\u00edch v\u00edm, je reduktivn\u00ed….<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tento sv\u011bt v\u00e1m zlom\u00ed srdce. Smutku je dost a ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 sv\u016fj \u010das.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ale tento sv\u011bt m\u00e1 tak\u00e9 tis\u00edce podob l\u00e9k\u016f.<\/p>\n\n\n\n J\u00e1 jsem v n\u011bm je\u0161t\u011b nena\u0161la uzdraven\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sebel\u00edtost, izolaci, p\u0159edst\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017ee m\u011b nic nebol\u00ed, srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, zatvrzov\u00e1n\u00ed se, st\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ed soudem (i kdy\u017e je to ur\u010dit\u011b dobr\u00fd pocit).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Ale na\u0161la jsem ho v soucitu se sebou i s druh\u00fdmi, zachov\u00e1n\u00ed otev\u0159en\u00e9ho srdce ve chv\u00edl\u00edch, kdy se chci uzav\u0159\u00edt, … vyu\u017eit\u00ed sv\u00e9 bolesti k tomu, abych ji vid\u011bla v druh\u00fdch, a ne jen v sob\u011b. [2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch cac.org.<\/p>\n\n\n\n [1] Howard Thurman,\u202fMeditations of the Heart<\/em> (Boston, MA: Beacon Press, 1953, 1981), 49. <\/p>\n\n\n\n [2] Nadia Bolz-Weber, \u201cHumans Are Inconveniently Complex<\/a>,\u201d The Corners<\/em> (blog), March 11, 2024. Used with permission. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit and inspiration<\/strong>: Cynthia Magana, untitled<\/a> <\/em>(detail), 2016, photo, Unsplash. Click here to enlarge image.<\/a> In order to care for each other, we must also take care of ourselves.<\/em> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Co mne tr\u00e1p\u00ed ja sebel\u00edtost, izolaci, p\u0159edst\u00edr\u00e1n\u00ed, \u017ee m\u011b nic nebol\u00ed, srovn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, zatvrzov\u00e1n\u00ed se, st\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ed soudem (i kdy\u017e je to ur\u010dit\u011b dobr\u00fd pocit).<\/p>\n Ale na\u0161la jsem cestu v soucitu se sebou \u00a0i s druh\u00fdmi, zachov\u00e1n\u00ed otev\u0159en\u00e9ho srdce ve chv\u00edl\u00edch, kdy se chci uzav\u0159\u00edt, … vyu\u017eit\u00ed sv\u00e9 bolesti k tomu, abych ji vid\u011bla v druh\u00fdch, a ne jen v sob\u011b.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8885,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[1729,1728,672],"class_list":["post-8908","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-litost","tag-sebelitost","tag-soucit","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8908","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8908"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8908\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8909,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8908\/revisions\/8909"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8885"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8908"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8908"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8908"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}B\u016fh d\u011bl\u00e1 v m\u00e9m srdci m\u00edsto pro soucit. <\/h4>\n\n\n\n
B\u016fh roz\u0161i\u0159uje hranice m\u00e9ho srdce<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
L\u00edtost je n\u011bkdy pov\u00fd\u0161en\u00e1 ale soucit naopak p\u0159ibli\u017euje<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Sv\u011bt je pln\u00fd smutku, ale m\u00e1 i l\u00e9k<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Je j\u00edm soucit se sebou i sdruh\u00fdmi<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n