Richard Rohr se zam\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed nad na\u0161\u00ed pot\u0159ebou lidsk\u00e9 a bo\u017esk\u00e9 intimity:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Velk\u00fdm tajemstv\u00edm je toto: nekone\u010dn\u00fd B\u016fh skute\u010dn\u011b hled\u00e1 a tou\u017e\u00ed po intimit\u011b s lidskou du\u0161\u00ed. Jakmile takovou intimitu za\u017eijeme nebo po takov\u00e9m spojen\u00ed zatou\u017e\u00edme, teprve intimn\u00ed jazyk milenc\u016f popisuje, co se d\u011bje: tajemstv\u00ed, n\u011bha, v\u00fdjime\u010dnost, zvl\u00e1\u0161tnost, nahota, riziko, ext\u00e1ze, neust\u00e1l\u00e1 touha a samoz\u0159ejm\u011b utrpen\u00ed. To je slovn\u00edk svat\u00fdch. Na\u0161e nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed tajemstv\u00ed a touhy se druh\u00fdm odhaluj\u00ed, a dokonce je sami objevujeme, pouze v p\u0159\u00edtomnosti smutku, selh\u00e1n\u00ed, nouze, kdy\u017e jsme velmi zraniteln\u00ed a kdy\u017e se c\u00edt\u00edme zcela v bezpe\u010d\u00ed v n\u00e1ru\u010d\u00ed l\u00e1sky. Kdy\u017e se tak stane, v\u017edy dojde k roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed byt\u00ed na obou stran\u00e1ch. Jsme potom v\u011bt\u0161\u00edmi lidmi. Ti, kdo tam nikdy nedo\u0161li, z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed mal\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Teprve kdy\u017e jsme na takov\u00e9m citliv\u00e9m m\u00edst\u011b, m\u016f\u017ee n\u00e1m B\u016fh bezpe\u010dn\u011b zjevit sv\u00e9 \u201enitro\u201c. Ti, kdo jsou sob\u011bsta\u010dn\u00ed, z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed cizinci tajemstv\u00ed Bo\u017e\u00ed l\u00e1sky, proto\u017ee ji v\u017edy zneu\u017eij\u00ed. Pouze pot\u0159eba milovan\u00e9ho um\u00ed p\u0159ijmout pot\u0159ebu a dar miluj\u00edc\u00edho a pouze pot\u0159eba miluj\u00edc\u00edho um\u00ed p\u0159ijmout pot\u0159ebu a dar milovan\u00e9ho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jak se toto tajemstv\u00ed intimity stane neskryt\u00fdm? Jedin\u011b tehdy, kdy\u017e se p\u0159estaneme skr\u00fdvat – p\u0159ed Bohem, p\u0159ed sebou sam\u00fdmi a alespo\u0148 p\u0159ed jedn\u00edm dal\u0161\u00edm \u010dlov\u011bkem. Takov\u00e9 riskantn\u00ed sebeodhalen\u00ed je to, co m\u00e1m na mysli pod pojmem intimita, a je to zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm se p\u0159ed\u00e1v\u00e1 l\u00e1ska. K intimit\u011b doch\u00e1z\u00ed, kdy\u017e odhal\u00edme sv\u00e9 nitro – a to je v\u017edy d\u011bsiv\u00e9. Mus\u00edme b\u00fdt p\u0159ipraveni na to, \u017ee budeme odm\u00edtnuti, a bolest z odm\u00edtnut\u00ed po sebeodhalen\u00ed je tak velk\u00e1, \u017ee n\u011bkdy m\u016f\u017ee trvat roky, ne\u017e se odhodl\u00e1me znovu riskovat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Richard se s v\u00e1mi pod\u011bl\u00ed o to, co mu praxe celib\u00e1tu odhalila o intimit\u011b:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Zaj\u00edmalo by m\u011b, zda v\u00edme, jak b\u00fdt intimn\u00ed s Bohem, pokud jsme nikdy nepraktikovali vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 sebeodhalen\u00ed alespo\u0148 s jedn\u00edm \u010dlov\u011bkem. Up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b o t\u00e9to mo\u017enosti pochybuji. Sexualita vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed z\u0159ejmou a ide\u00e1ln\u00ed n\u00e1dobu pro opravdovou intimitu, alespo\u0148 ob\u010das. Celib\u00e1t odhaluje, \u017ee stra\u0161n\u00e1 spousta sexu v\u016fbec nen\u00ed o intimit\u011b. Zdrav\u00fd celib\u00e1t a zdrav\u00e1 sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed setk\u00e1n\u00ed vy\u017eaduj\u00ed hlubokou, opravdovou intimitu; nezdrav\u00e9 projevy \u010dasto p\u0159isp\u00edvaj\u00ed k jej\u00edmu \u00fa\u010dinn\u00e9mu vyh\u00fdb\u00e1n\u00ed se. (P\u00ed\u0161u to po t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 pades\u00e1ti letech str\u00e1ven\u00fdch v celib\u00e1tn\u00edm spole\u010denstv\u00ed mu\u017e\u016f a po poradenstv\u00ed spoust\u011b dal\u0161\u00edch lid\u00ed v sexualizovan\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b).<\/p>\n\n\n\n Intimita nen\u00ed jen dob\u0159e st\u0159e\u017een\u00fdm tajemstv\u00edm du\u0161e, nen\u00ed jen tajemstv\u00edm, kter\u00e9 se vzp\u00edr\u00e1 logice, nen\u00ed jen chudobou, kter\u00e9 se vyh\u00fdb\u00e1me; v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee zraniteln\u00e1 intimita je vstupem do ve\u0161ker\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 a bo\u017esk\u00e9 l\u00e1sky a spojovac\u00edm \u010dl\u00e1nkem mezi n\u00ed. Ve skute\u010dnosti nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, co je d\u0159\u00edv; d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je jen to, abychom pro\u0161li touto branou strachu a na\u0161li to, co \u017eije uvnit\u0159. Intimn\u00ed l\u00e1ska je t\u00edm prav\u00fdm chr\u00e1mem, po kter\u00e9m v\u0161ichni tou\u017e\u00edme. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee mus\u00edme cht\u00edt milovat a b\u00fdt milov\u00e1ni – jinak tam nikdy nedojdeme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch cac.org.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Adapted from Richard Rohr, \u201cHuman Intimacy and Divine Union,\u201d Radical Grace<\/em> 25, no. 2 (Spring 2012): 3, 22. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit and inspiration<\/strong>: Nina Hill, untitled <\/em>(detail), 2020, photo, Unsplash<\/a>. Click here to enlarge image.<\/a> The connective energy of human touch, entwining our hands and our hearts. We are not alone.<\/em> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" R.Rohr: v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee zraniteln\u00e1 intimita je vstupem do ve\u0161ker\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 a bo\u017esk\u00e9 l\u00e1sky a spojovac\u00edm \u010dl\u00e1nkem mezi n\u00ed. Ve skute\u010dnosti nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, co je d\u0159\u00edv; d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je jen to, abychom pro\u0161li touto branou strachu a na\u0161li to, co \u017eije uvnit\u0159. Intimn\u00ed l\u00e1ska je t\u00edm prav\u00fdm chr\u00e1mem, po kter\u00e9m v\u0161ichni tou\u017e\u00edme. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee mus\u00edme cht\u00edt milovat a b\u00fdt milov\u00e1ni – jinak tam nikdy nedojdeme.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8960,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[347],"class_list":["post-8975","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-intimita","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8975","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8975"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8975\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8977,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8975\/revisions\/8977"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8960"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8975"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8975"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8975"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}B\u016fh skute\u010dn\u011b hled\u00e1 a tou\u017e\u00ed po intimit\u011b s lidskou du\u0161\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
B\u016fh n\u00e1m m\u016f\u017ee bezpe\u010dn\u011b zjevit sv\u00e9 \u201enitro\u201c.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
K intimit\u011b doch\u00e1z\u00ed, kdy\u017e odhal\u00edme sv\u00e9 nitro<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
v\u00edme, jak b\u00fdt intimn\u00ed s Bohem, pokud jsme nikdy nepraktikovali vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 sebeodhalen\u00ed alespo\u0148 s jedn\u00edm \u010dlov\u011bkem ?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
zraniteln\u00e1 intimita je vstupem do ve\u0161ker\u00e9 lidsk\u00e9 a bo\u017esk\u00e9 l\u00e1sky a spojovac\u00edm \u010dl\u00e1nkem mezi n\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n