Otec Richard se s v\u00e1mi pod\u011bl\u00ed o univerz\u00e1ln\u00ed pot\u0159ebu vyj\u00e1d\u0159it sv\u016fj z\u00e1rmutek:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Lidsk\u00fdm instinktem je blokovat utrpen\u00ed a bolest. To plat\u00ed zejm\u00e9na na Z\u00e1pad\u011b, kde jsme byli ovlivn\u011bni „racionalismem“ osv\u00edcenstv\u00ed. Jak m\u016f\u017ee potvrdit ka\u017ed\u00fd, kdo za\u017eil z\u00e1rmutek, nen\u00ed to racion\u00e1ln\u00ed. My opravdu neum\u00edme truchlit! Jednodu\u0161e nev\u00edme, co si se svou bolest\u00ed po\u010d\u00edt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Velk\u00e9 tradice moudrosti se n\u00e1s sna\u017e\u00ed nau\u010dit, \u017ee smutek nen\u00ed n\u011bco, p\u0159ed \u010d\u00edm bychom m\u011bli ut\u00edkat. Je to limin\u00e1ln\u00ed prostor, \u010das transformace. Ve skute\u010dnosti nem\u016f\u017eeme riskovat, \u017ee se sv\u00e9 bolesti zbav\u00edme, dokud se nenau\u010d\u00edme, co n\u00e1s m\u00e1 nau\u010dit, a ona – smutek, utrpen\u00ed, ztr\u00e1ta, bolest – n\u00e1s m\u00e1 v\u017edycky co nau\u010dit! Bohu\u017eel mnoho z n\u00e1s bylo nau\u010deno, \u017ee z\u00e1rmutek a smutek jsou n\u011bco, co m\u00e1me potla\u010dit, pop\u0159\u00edt nebo se jim vyhnout.\u202fRad\u011bji bychom se zlobili, ne\u017e abychom byli smutn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Snad nejjednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed a nejobs\u00e1hlej\u0161\u00ed definice smutku zn\u00ed „nedokon\u010den\u00e1 bolest“. C\u00edt\u00edme se jako d\u00e9mon, kter\u00fd se v n\u00e1s to\u010d\u00ed, a p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 n\u00e1s to bol\u00ed, tak\u017ee okam\u017eit\u011b hled\u00e1me vin\u00edka. Mus\u00edme se nau\u010dit z\u016fstat otev\u0159en\u00ed sv\u00e9mu smutku a trp\u011bliv\u011b \u010dekat na to, co n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee nau\u010dit. Kdy\u017e se kolem sv\u00e9ho smutku nebo z\u00e1rmutku p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 uzav\u0159eme, kdy\u017e se ho sna\u017e\u00edme napravit, ovl\u00e1dnout nebo pochopit, jen si odp\u00edr\u00e1me jeho lekce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Svat\u00fd Efr\u00e9m Syrsk\u00fd (303-373) pova\u017eoval slzy za sv\u00e1tostn\u00e9 znamen\u00ed Bo\u017e\u00edho milosrdenstv\u00ed. Pou\u010duje: „Dejte Bohu pl\u00e1\u010d a zv\u011bt\u0161ete slzy ve sv\u00fdch o\u010d\u00edch: skrze va\u0161e slzy a [Bo\u017e\u00ed] dobrotu se du\u0161e, kter\u00e1 byla mrtv\u00e1, obnov\u00ed.“ [1] Jak\u00fd jin\u00fd druh \u010dlov\u011bka ne\u017e v\u011bt\u0161ina z n\u00e1s! V charismatick\u00fdch kruz\u00edch, kter\u00fdch jsem se \u00fa\u010dastnil v prvn\u00edch letech sv\u00e9 slu\u017eby, byly svat\u00e9 slzy b\u011b\u017enou zku\u0161enost\u00ed. Svat\u00ed Franti\u0161ek a Kl\u00e1ra z Assisi \u00fadajn\u011b plakali neust\u00e1le – cel\u00e9 dny!<\/p>\n\n\n\n „Re\u017eim pl\u00e1\u010de“ je jin\u00fd zp\u016fsob byt\u00ed ve sv\u011bt\u011b. Je jin\u00fd ne\u017e re\u017eim napravov\u00e1n\u00ed, vysv\u011btlov\u00e1n\u00ed nebo kontrolov\u00e1n\u00ed. Kone\u010dn\u011b m\u016f\u017eeme svobodn\u011b vn\u00edmat tragiku v\u011bc\u00ed, smutek v\u011bc\u00ed. Slzy o\u010di\u0161\u0165uj\u00ed na\u0161e o\u010di fyzicky i duchovn\u011b, tak\u017ee m\u016f\u017eeme za\u010d\u00edt vid\u011bt jasn\u011bji. N\u011bkdy mus\u00edme plakat velmi dlouho, proto\u017ee nevid\u00edme pravdiv\u011b nebo v\u016fbec dob\u0159e. Slzy p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed, a\u017e kdy\u017e si uv\u011bdom\u00edme, \u017ee nem\u016f\u017eeme napravit a zm\u011bnit realitu. Situace je absurdn\u00ed, nespravedliv\u00e1, \u0161patn\u00e1, nemo\u017en\u00e1. Ona nem\u011bla zem\u0159\u00edt, on nem\u011bl zem\u0159\u00edt. Jak se to mohlo st\u00e1t? Teprve kdy\u017e jsme dovedeni na okraj vlastn\u00edch zdroj\u016f, m\u016f\u017eeme kone\u010dn\u011b svobodn\u011b p\u0159ej\u00edt do re\u017eimu pl\u00e1\u010de.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To, \u017ee n\u00e1s slzy o\u010distily, pozn\u00e1me podle toho, \u017ee pak u\u017e nemus\u00edme nikoho obvi\u0148ovat, dokonce ani sami sebe. Je to naprost\u00e1 prom\u011bna a o\u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed du\u0161e a my v\u00edme, \u017ee to p\u0159i\u0161lo od Boha. Je to tak, jak to je, a n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem je v tom B\u016fh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch cac.org.<\/p>\n\n\n\n [1] Ephrem, sermon on Isaiah 26:10, in\u202fPenthos: The Doctrine of Compunction in the Christian East,\u202f<\/em>by Ir\u00e9n\u00e9e Hausherr, trans. Anselm Hufstader (Kalamazoo, MI: Cistercian Publications, 1982), 29. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Adapted from Richard Rohr,\u202fBeloved Sons Series: Men and Grief<\/em><\/a> (Albuquerque, NM: Center for Action and Contemplation, 2005). Available as MP3 audio download<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit and inspiration:<\/strong> Siim Lukka, untitled <\/em>(detail), 2017, photo, Estonia. Unsplash<\/a>. Click here to enlarge image<\/a>. We make room for our personal and collective grief by letting the sorrow burn through.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" R.Rohr: To, \u017ee n\u00e1s slzy o\u010distily, pozn\u00e1me podle toho, \u017ee pak u\u017e nemus\u00edme nikoho obvi\u0148ovat, dokonce ani sami sebe. Je to naprost\u00e1 prom\u011bna a o\u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed du\u0161e a my v\u00edme, \u017ee to p\u0159i\u0161lo od Boha. Je to tak, jak to je, a n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem je v tom B\u016fh.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9025,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[1704,1126,155],"class_list":["post-9024","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-bolest","tag-slzy","tag-utrpeni","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9024","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9024"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9024\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9026,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9024\/revisions\/9026"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9024"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9024"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9024"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Lidsk\u00fdm instinktem je blokovat utrpen\u00ed a bolest<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
smutek, utrpen\u00ed, ztr\u00e1ta, bolest – n\u00e1s m\u00e1 v\u017edycky co nau\u010dit<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Neodp\u00edrej lekci smutku<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Svat\u00ed Franti\u0161ek a Kl\u00e1ra z Assisi \u00fadajn\u011b plakali neust\u00e1le<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
. Slzy o\u010di\u0161\u0165uj\u00ed na\u0161e o\u010di fyzicky i duchovn\u011b<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Je to tak, jak to je, a n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem je v tom B\u016fh.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n