P\u0159\u00edtelkyn\u011b CAC Mirabai Starrov\u00e1 zalo\u017eila online komunitu pro truchl\u00edc\u00ed, Holy Lament: Ztr\u00e1ta a stesk jsou cestou transformace. Je to prostor pro lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed mohou spole\u010dn\u011b pro\u017e\u00edvat z\u00e1rmutek: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n O sv\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci s truchl\u00edc\u00edmi a poz\u016fstal\u00fdmi \u010dasto \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, \u017ee jde mnohem v\u00edce o transformaci ne\u017e o \u00fat\u011bchu. Existuj\u00ed jin\u00e1 m\u00edsta, kam m\u016f\u017eete j\u00edt, abyste se c\u00edtili l\u00e9pe, ale pro m\u011b smutek nen\u00ed probl\u00e9m, kter\u00fd je t\u0159eba vy\u0159e\u0161it, nebo nemoc, kterou je t\u0159eba vyl\u00e9\u010dit. Je to posv\u00e1tn\u00e1 realita, do kter\u00e9 je t\u0159eba vstoupit. Pro mnoh\u00e9 z n\u00e1s se otev\u00edr\u00e1 vrozen\u00e9 pr\u00e1vo na\u0161\u00ed du\u0161e, dokonce bych \u0159ekl, \u017ee na\u0161e touha po Bohu, kterou \u010dasto p\u0159ekr\u00fdv\u00e1 ka\u017edodenn\u00ed \u017eivot….. Kdy\u017e pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me hlubokou ztr\u00e1tu, zbavuje n\u00e1s to t\u011bchto p\u0159\u00edkrov\u016f … a poskytuje n\u00e1m to zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edstup k hlubok\u00e9 l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 intimit\u011b s bo\u017estv\u00edm….<\/p>\n\n\n\n Smrt je komplikovan\u00e1 a mocn\u00e1. Je to onen mezn\u00ed prostor, kter\u00fd n\u011bkdy za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me mezi t\u00edmto sv\u011btem a v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed realitou, o n\u00ed\u017e jsme v\u017edy tu\u0161ili, \u017ee je pravdiv\u00e1….. P\u0159iv\u00e1d\u00ed n\u00e1s do posv\u00e1tn\u00e9ho prostoru, a\u0165 u\u017e se n\u00e1m to l\u00edb\u00ed, nebo ne. Krom\u011b smrti milovan\u00e9 osoby v\u0161ak existuje mnoho dal\u0161\u00edch ztr\u00e1t: tento rozpad vztahu, … v\u00e1\u017en\u00e1 zdravotn\u00ed diagn\u00f3za, kter\u00e1 v\u0161echno zm\u011bn\u00ed, zran\u011bn\u00ed, kter\u00e9 znovu rozvine dosavadn\u00ed zp\u016fsob \u017eivota. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee jak\u00fdkoli druh ztr\u00e1ty, kter\u00fd zahrnuje smrt toho, k\u00fdm jsme byli, je mocn\u00fdm katalyz\u00e1torem pro tento druh setk\u00e1n\u00ed s posv\u00e1tnem, o kter\u00e9m mluv\u00edm…..<\/p>\n\n\n\n Jsme kultura, kter\u00e1 m\u00e1 extr\u00e9mn\u00ed fobii ze smutku, a nepom\u00e1h\u00e1 n\u00e1m ani to, \u017ee na ni navazuj\u00ed n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed, kter\u00e1 \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed: „Jdi tudy. Tam le\u017e\u00ed transcendence. M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 meditovat, aby ses zbavil sv\u00e9 bolesti. M\u016f\u017eete se modlit, abyste se zbavili utrpen\u00ed. Vlastn\u011b to m\u016f\u017eete obej\u00edt v\u0161echno dohromady, pokud se p\u0159iklon\u00edte k tomuto souboru v\u00edry, praktik nebo tvrzen\u00ed v\u00edry.“ Kombinace kulturn\u00ed negramotnosti v oblasti z\u00e1rmutku a d\u016frazu patriarch\u00e1ln\u00edch n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fdch struktur na to, abychom se povznesli nad chaotickou realitu na\u0161eho lidstv\u00ed, je receptem na to, jak se z\u00e1rmutku vyhnout. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Mirabai Starrov\u00e1 za\u017eila, jak j\u00ed individu\u00e1ln\u00ed ztr\u00e1ta umo\u017enila vstoupit do kolektivn\u00ed soun\u00e1le\u017eitosti:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Kdy\u017e mi zem\u0159ela dcera, za\u017eila jsem dv\u011b v\u011bci. Prvn\u00ed byla, \u017ee nikdo nem\u016f\u017ee v\u011bd\u011bt, \u010d\u00edm pr\u00e1v\u011b te\u010f proch\u00e1z\u00edm. Ale rychle za t\u00edm n\u00e1sledovalo: „Ach, ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd kdy za\u017eil smrt d\u00edt\u011bte, to v\u00ed.“ A to se mi l\u00edbilo. Uv\u011bdomovala jsem si v kostech vlastn\u00edho t\u011bla… \u017ee v pr\u016fb\u011bhu \u010dasu existovaly matky, kter\u00fdm zem\u0159ely d\u011bti, a matky pr\u00e1v\u011b te\u010f [jejich\u017e d\u011bti um\u00edraj\u00ed] ….. V\u0161ichni pat\u0159\u00edme k sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem. Sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem to bylo poprv\u00e9, kdy jsem se usadila v s\u00edti vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho byt\u00ed – kdy jsem si uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee sem pat\u0159\u00edm a \u017ee pat\u0159\u00edme k sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem. I kdy\u017e pr\u00e1v\u011b te\u010f byla \u0159ada na mn\u011b, abych byla dr\u017eena touto s\u00edt\u00ed, je\u0161t\u011b jsem si to nedok\u00e1zala p\u0159edstavit, ale v\u011bd\u011bla jsem, \u017ee jednou n\u011bjak budu moci ud\u011blat n\u011bco z toho dr\u017een\u00ed ostatn\u00edch matek, kter\u00e9 p\u0159ijdou. A to jsem d\u011blala a d\u011bl\u00e1m. <\/p>\n\n\n\n P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na cac.org.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Adapted from Mike Petrow, Paul Swanson, and Richard Rohr, \u201cNecessary Suffering with Mirabai Starr,\u201d<\/a>Everything Belongs,<\/em>\u202fseason 1, ep. 6 (Albuquerque, NM: Center for Action and Contemplation, 2024), podcast. Available as MP3 audio and PDF transcript.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit and inspiration:<\/strong> Siim Lukka, untitled <\/em>(detail), 2017, photo, Estonia. Unsplash<\/a>. Click here to enlarge image<\/a>. We make room for our personal and collective grief by letting the sorrow burn through.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Kdy\u017e mi zem\u0159ela dcera, za\u017eila jsem dv\u011b v\u011bci. Prvn\u00ed byla, \u017ee nikdo nem\u016f\u017ee v\u011bd\u011bt, \u010d\u00edm pr\u00e1v\u011b te\u010f proch\u00e1z\u00edm. Ale rychle za t\u00edm n\u00e1sledovalo: „Ach, ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00fd kdy za\u017eil smrt d\u00edt\u011bte, to v\u00ed.“ A to se mi l\u00edbilo…V\u0161ichni pat\u0159\u00edme k sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem. Sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem to bylo poprv\u00e9, kdy jsem se usadila v s\u00edti vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9ho byt\u00ed – kdy jsem si uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee sem pat\u0159\u00edm a \u017ee pat\u0159\u00edme k sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9025,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[1766,1077,1321],"class_list":["post-9044","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-setkani-v-zarmutku","tag-smutek","tag-zarmutek","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9044","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9044"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9044\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9045,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9044\/revisions\/9045"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9025"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9044"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9044"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9044"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}p\u0159\u00edstup k hlubok\u00e9 l\u00e1skypln\u00e9 intimit\u011b s bo\u017estv\u00edm<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Setk\u00e1n\u00ed v posv\u00e1tn\u00e9m<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Z\u00e1rmutku se nevyh\u00fdbejme<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
uv\u011bdomila, \u017ee sem pat\u0159\u00edm a \u017ee truchl\u00edc\u00ed pat\u0159\u00edme k sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n