P\u0159iznali jsme Bohu, sob\u011b i druh\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku p\u0159esnou povahu sv\u00fdch k\u0159ivd.-Krok 5 Dvan\u00e1cti krok\u016f<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Richard Rohr ozna\u010duje odpov\u011bdnost a zpov\u011b\u010f za z\u00e1sadn\u00ed v procesu uzdravov\u00e1n\u00ed:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ran\u00ed k\u0159es\u0165an\u00e9 byli povzbuzov\u00e1ni k \u00fa\u010dasti na uzdravuj\u00edc\u00ed s\u00edle spole\u010dn\u00e9 zpov\u011bdi: \u201eVyzn\u00e1vejte si tedy navz\u00e1jem sv\u00e9 h\u0159\u00edchy a modlete se jeden za druh\u00e9ho, a to v\u00e1s uzdrav\u00ed\u201c (Jak 5,16). P\u00e1t\u00fd krok Dvan\u00e1cti krok\u016f \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 tot\u00e9\u017e. Je z\u0159ejm\u00e9, \u017ee ur\u010dit\u00e1 p\u0159edstava vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 odpov\u011bdnosti a osobn\u00ed zodpov\u011bdnosti za na\u0161e chyby a selh\u00e1n\u00ed je pro uzdraven\u00ed nebo obnoven\u00ed skute\u010dn\u00fdch lidsk\u00fdch vztah\u016f nezbytn\u00e1. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Kdy\u017e si my lid\u00e9 up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b a pokorn\u011b \u201ep\u0159izn\u00e1me\u201c navz\u00e1jem \u201ep\u0159esnou povahu sv\u00fdch chyb\u201c, v\u017edy dojde k lidsk\u00e9mu a zlid\u0161\u0165uj\u00edc\u00edmu setk\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 ob\u011b strany hluboce obohat\u00ed, a dokonce zm\u011bn\u00ed \u017eivot – \u010dasto nav\u017edy! U\u017e to nen\u00ed cvi\u010den\u00ed, jak dos\u00e1hnout mor\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010distoty nebo znovu z\u00edskat Bo\u017e\u00ed l\u00e1sku, ale ve skute\u010dnosti p\u0159\u00edm\u00e9 setk\u00e1n\u00ed s Bo\u017e\u00ed l\u00e1skou. Nejde o potrest\u00e1n\u00ed jedn\u00e9 strany, ale o osvobozen\u00ed obou stran. B\u016fh odol\u00e1v\u00e1 na\u0161emu zlu a p\u0159em\u00e1h\u00e1 ho dobrem, nebo jak by mohl B\u016fh tot\u00e9\u017e \u017e\u00e1dat od n\u00e1s! B\u016fh n\u00e1s \u0161okuje a omra\u010duje l\u00e1skou. Jedin\u011b l\u00e1ska p\u016fsob\u00ed skute\u010dnou, zdravou vnit\u0159n\u00ed prom\u011bnu. N\u00e1tlak, pocit viny, vyh\u00fdb\u00e1n\u00ed se nebo spole\u010densk\u00fd tlak to nedok\u00e1\u017eou. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Bez omluvy a odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed se nic nov\u00e9ho nestane. To jsou bo\u017esk\u00e9 technologie, kter\u00e9 regeneruj\u00ed ka\u017edou dobu a ka\u017edou situaci. Ti \u201enespoutan\u00ed\u201c jsou nejl\u00e9pe p\u0159ipraveni k tomu, aby rozv\u00e1zali zbytek sv\u011bta. [1] <\/p>\n\n\n\n Spisovatelka a aktivistka Adrienne Maree Brownov\u00e1 normalizuje d\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed chyb a pr\u00e1ci na odpov\u011bdnosti nam\u00edsto \u201eru\u0161en\u00ed\u201c druh\u00fdch: <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n \u0158ekneme si, \u017ee jsme ubl\u00ed\u017eili lidem a komu. \u0158ekneme si pro\u010d a kdo a jak n\u00e1m ubl\u00ed\u017eil. \u0158ekneme si, co ud\u011bl\u00e1me, abychom se uzdravili a zahojili r\u00e1ny, kter\u00e9 po n\u00e1s z\u016fstaly. Budeme zodpov\u011bdn\u00ed, d\u016fsledn\u00ed ve sv\u00e9 zodpov\u011bdnosti, v\u0161ichni se budeme odnau\u010dovat, v\u0161ichni se budeme plazit k d\u016fstojnosti. Budeme se u\u010dit stanovovat a udr\u017eovat hranice, komunikovat bez manipulace, d\u00e1vat a p\u0159ij\u00edmat souhlas, \u017e\u00e1dat o pomoc, milovat sv\u00e9 st\u00edny, ani\u017e bychom jim dovolili ovl\u00e1dat na\u0161e vztahy, a pamatovat, \u017ee jsme ze zem\u011b, ze z\u00e1zraku, z celku, z mohutn\u00e9 \u0159eky – l\u00e1sky, \u017eivota, \u017eivota, l\u00e1sky. <\/p>\n\n\n\n V\u0161ichni m\u00e1me p\u0159ed sebou pr\u00e1ci. Na\u0161e pr\u00e1ce je ve sv\u011btle. Nem\u00e1me dokonalou mor\u00e1ln\u00ed p\u016fdu, na kter\u00e9 bychom mohli st\u00e1t, formov\u00e1ni touto toxickou slo\u017eitou dobou, jakou jsme. Mo\u017en\u00e1 nem\u00e1me \u010das ani emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed kapacitu, abychom spole\u010dn\u011b pro\u0161li ka\u017edou cestu. V\u0161ichni se v tuto chv\u00edli zm\u00edt\u00e1me v nezn\u00e1mu, jsme vyd\u011b\u0161en\u00ed, napjat\u00ed a\u017e za hranice sv\u00fdch mo\u017enost\u00ed, styd\u00edme se a uv\u011bdomujeme si, \u017ee budoucnost je v na\u0161ich rukou. V\u0161ichni mus\u00edme ud\u011blat svou pr\u00e1ci. B\u00fdt zodpov\u011bdn\u00ed a j\u00edt se l\u00e9\u010dit, sou\u010dasn\u011b, nep\u0159etr\u017eit\u011b. Nikdy nen\u00ed pozd\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00e1s nezru\u0161\u00ed. Vzd\u00e1me-li se t\u00e9to strategie [ru\u0161en\u00ed], nau\u010d\u00edme se spole\u010dn\u011b jin\u00e9 strategie, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1m nakonec pomohou prolomit tyto cykly, osvobodit budouc\u00ed generace od b\u0159emene na\u0161\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9 i soukrom\u00e9 bolesti a nezanechat v kostech nic nevysloviteln\u00e9ho, \u017e\u00e1dnou hanbu v na\u0161\u00ed \u0161p\u00edn\u011b. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s je vz\u00e1cn\u00fd. My spole\u010dn\u011b mus\u00edme prolomit ka\u017ed\u00fd cyklus, kter\u00fd n\u00e1m na to d\u00e1v\u00e1 zapomenout. [2]<\/p>\n\n\n\n [1] Selected from Richard Rohr, Breathing under Water: Spirituality and the Twelve Steps,\u202f10th anniv. ed.\u202f(Cincinnati, OH: Franciscan Media, 2011,\u202f2021),\u202f35, 44, 38, 40, 46.<\/p>\n\n\n\n [2] adrienne maree brown, We Will Not Cancel Us: And Other Dreams of Transformative Justice (Chico, CA: AK Press, 2020), 76\u201377. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Image credit and inspiration: Jenna Keiper, drop (detail), 2020, photo, Albuquerque. Click here to enlarge image. Water\u2019s shapes and currents can be confusing. 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Jedin\u011b l\u00e1ska p\u016fsob\u00ed skute\u010dnou, zdravou vnit\u0159n\u00ed prom\u011bnu<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Omluva a odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
V\u0161ichni poch\u00e1z\u00edme z\u00a0prachu zem\u011b<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
V\u0161ichni se pot\u0159ebujeme l\u00e9\u010dit<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Spole\u010dn\u011b najdeme strategii k osvobozen\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s je cenn\u00fd<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n