{"id":9149,"date":"2024-07-22T08:42:25","date_gmt":"2024-07-22T06:42:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=9149"},"modified":"2024-07-22T08:42:29","modified_gmt":"2024-07-22T06:42:29","slug":"tvari-v-tvar-bolesti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2024\/07\/22\/tvari-v-tvar-bolesti\/","title":{"rendered":"Tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159 bolesti"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
T\u0159ic\u00e1t\u00fd t\u00fdden: D\u00fdch\u00e1n\u00ed pod vodou, druh\u00fd t\u00fdden<\/h6>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed\u0161-li sv\u016fj dar k olt\u00e1\u0159i a vzpomene\u0161-li si tam, \u017ee tv\u016fj bratr nebo sestra proti tob\u011b n\u011bco maj\u00ed, jdi se s n\u00edm nejd\u0159\u00edve usm\u00ed\u0159it a pak se vra\u0165 a p\u0159edlo\u017e sv\u016fj dar. -Matou\u0161 5,23-24<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ud\u011blali jsme si seznam v\u0161ech osob, kter\u00fdm jsme ubl\u00ed\u017eili, a byli jsme ochotni je v\u0161echny usm\u00ed\u0159it.   -Krok 8 Dvan\u00e1cti krok\u016f<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Otec Richard pojmenov\u00e1v\u00e1 d\u016fle\u017eitost uzn\u00e1n\u00ed \u0161patnosti a ubl\u00ed\u017een\u00ed a z\u00e1rove\u0148 d\u016fv\u011bry v dar milosti:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Napravit d\u0159\u00edv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed chyby<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Navzdory vy\u0161\u0161\u00ed ekonomii milosti a milosrdenstv\u00ed, kterou Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 \u017eil a u\u010dil, neodhodil zcela ni\u017e\u0161\u00ed ekonomii z\u00e1sluh nebo \u201ezadostiu\u010din\u011bn\u00ed\u201c. Navz\u00e1jem na sebe navazuj\u00ed a ni\u017e\u0161\u00ed sama o sob\u011b nesta\u010d\u00ed na skute\u010dn\u011b velk\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed \u00fakoly – l\u00e1sku, odpu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed, sn\u00e1\u0161en\u00ed nespravedliv\u00e9ho utrpen\u00ed a samotnou smrt. Kdy\u017e p\u0159ech\u00e1z\u00edme na zralej\u0161\u00ed stupn\u011b l\u00e1sky a prom\u011bny, nep\u0159eskakujeme d\u0159\u00edv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed stupn\u011b. Mus\u00edme se vr\u00e1tit zp\u011bt a napravit d\u0159\u00edv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed chyby. Jinak se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t, \u017ee n\u00e1s – nebo ty, kter\u00fdm jsme ubl\u00ed\u017eili – ne\u010dek\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 uzdraven\u00ed ani otev\u0159en\u00e1 budoucnost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

v\u0161e mus\u00ed b\u00fdt sm\u00ed\u0159eno a vy\u00fa\u010dtov\u00e1no<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

B\u016fh n\u00e1m pln\u011b odpou\u0161t\u00ed, ale dopad nebo \u201ekarma\u201c na\u0161ich chyb z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 a my se st\u00e1le mus\u00edme vracet a napravovat pouta, kter\u00e1 jsme poru\u0161ili. Jinak n\u00e1m druz\u00ed nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt schopni odpustit a pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b neodpust\u00edme ani my sami sob\u011b. \u201e\u00da\u017easn\u00e1 milost\u201c nen\u00ed zp\u016fsob, jak se vyhnout up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fdm lidsk\u00fdm vztah\u016fm. Je to sp\u00ed\u0161e zp\u016fsob, jak je znovu obnovit – ale nyn\u00ed ji\u017e s milost\u00ed – pro osvobozen\u00ed obou stran. V duchovn\u00edm sv\u011bt\u011b nic jen tak nezmiz\u00ed, v\u0161e mus\u00ed b\u00fdt sm\u00ed\u0159eno a vy\u00fa\u010dtov\u00e1no. [1] <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anne Lamottov\u00e1 vypr\u00e1v\u00ed o tom, jak ji jej\u00ed syn pohnal k odpov\u011bdnosti pot\u00e9, co na internetu zve\u0159ejnila necitliv\u00e9 koment\u00e1\u0159e, a zam\u00fd\u0161l\u00ed se nad pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00edm milosrdenstv\u00ed:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Omluva<\/h4>\n\n\n\n

[M\u016fj syn] m\u011b po\u017e\u00e1dal, abych se ve\u0159ejn\u011b omluvila. Necht\u011bla jsem, proto\u017ee stovky lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed m\u011b napadli, byly tak zlomysln\u00e9….. M\u016fj syn mi \u0159ekl, \u017ee o to nejde. \u0160lo o to, \u017ee jsem ud\u011blala n\u011bco pod svou \u00farove\u0148, co ubl\u00ed\u017eilo mnoha lidem, a \u017ee mus\u00edm v\u011bci napravit. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mluvili jsme o tom po telefonu a on \u0159ekl: \u201eM\u00e1m t\u011b r\u00e1d, ale ud\u011blala jsi chybu. Ud\u011blala jsi hroznou v\u011bc. Pros\u00edm, omluv se. Nehodl\u00e1m to nechat b\u00fdt. A j\u00e1 t\u011b taky nenech\u00e1m odej\u00edt.\u201c A taky jsem se na to pod\u00edval. M\u011bl slzy na kraj\u00ed\u010dku. Bylo mi \u0161patn\u011b od \u017ealudku. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pozd\u011bji mi poslal e-mail: \u201eMus\u00ed\u0161 ud\u011blat spr\u00e1vnou v\u011bc, mami. M\u00e1m t\u011b r\u00e1d.\u201c  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Napsala jsem ve\u0159ejnosti, \u017ee je mi to hluboce, jednozna\u010dn\u011b l\u00edto, i kdy\u017e jsem se ve skrytu du\u0161e st\u00e1le c\u00edtila nepochopen\u00e1….. Ud\u011blala jsem to nedokonale, jak nejl\u00e9pe jsem um\u011bla, p\u0159iznala jsem, \u017ee jsem se m\u00fdlila. Vyj\u00e1d\u0159il jsem l\u00edtost. Bylo to hrozn\u00e9. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u016fj syn mi byl vd\u011b\u010dn\u00fd, ale na chv\u00edli odta\u017eit\u00fd…. Projeven\u00ed milosrdenstv\u00ed ho n\u011bco st\u00e1lo a projeven\u00ed milosrdenstv\u00ed v\u016f\u010di mn\u011b samotn\u00e9 m\u011b st\u00e1lo je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edc, a to n\u00e1s oba rozrostlo, \u017ee jsem to pod\u011blala na tak velk\u00e9m jevi\u0161ti. Nau\u010dilo m\u011b to, \u017ee milosrdenstv\u00ed je pl\u00e1\u0161\u0165, kter\u00fd v\u00e1s obklop\u00ed a ochr\u00e1n\u00ed….. M\u016f\u017ee v\u00e1m pomoci si odpo\u010dinout a znovu se na chv\u00edli nadechnout, co\u017e je to jedin\u00e9, co kdy m\u00e1me. [2] <\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch cac.org.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Translated with DeepL.com (free version)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n

[1] Selected from Richard Rohr, Breathing under Water: Spirituality and the Twelve Steps<\/a>,\u202f<\/em>10th anniv. ed.\u202f<\/em>(Cincinnati, OH: Franciscan Media, 2011,\u202f<\/em>2021),\u202f65. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

[2] Anne Lamott, Hallelujah Anyway: Rediscovering Mercy<\/em> (New York: Riverhead Books, 2017), 41\u201342. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Image credit and inspiration:<\/strong> Jenna Keiper, bubble detail <\/em>(detail), 2020, photo, Albuquerque. Click here to enlarge image<\/a>. Air is released as bubbles when water hits water. Where do we find oxygen when we’re underwater?<\/em> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

R.Rohr: B\u016fh n\u00e1m pln\u011b odpou\u0161t\u00ed, ale dopad nebo \u201ekarma\u201c na\u0161ich chyb z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 a my se st\u00e1le mus\u00edme vracet a napravovat pouta, kter\u00e1 jsme poru\u0161ili. Jinak n\u00e1m druz\u00ed nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt schopni odpustit a pravd\u011bpodobn\u011b neodpust\u00edme ani my sami sob\u011b.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9143,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[1795,1794],"class_list":["post-9149","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-richard-rohr-ofm-centrum-pro-zivot-a-rozjimani","tag-odpousteni","tag-omluva","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9149","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9149"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9149\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9150,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9149\/revisions\/9150"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9143"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9149"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9149"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9149"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}