{"id":9262,"date":"2024-08-18T08:46:13","date_gmt":"2024-08-18T06:46:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=9262"},"modified":"2024-08-18T08:46:15","modified_gmt":"2024-08-18T06:46:15","slug":"uzitecny-vztah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2024\/08\/18\/uzitecny-vztah\/","title":{"rendered":"U\u017eite\u010dn\u00fd vztah"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">T\u0159ic\u00e1t\u00fd \u010dtvrt\u00fd t\u00fdden: Moudrost mentor\u016f<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Otec Richard Rohr poprv\u00e9 porozum\u011bl mentorstv\u00ed p\u0159i studiu mu\u017esk\u00fdch inicia\u010dn\u00edch ob\u0159ad\u016f z kultur a tradic cel\u00e9ho sv\u011bta.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Odysse\u016fv Mentor<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Slovo \u201ementor\u201c poch\u00e1z\u00ed z \u0159eck\u00e9 mytologie. Mentor bylo jm\u00e9no moudr\u00e9ho a d\u016fv\u011bryhodn\u00e9ho Odysseova r\u00e1dce. Kdy\u017e se Odysseus vydal na svou dlouhou cestu, pov\u011b\u0159il Mentora veden\u00edm sv\u00e9ho syna T\u00e9lemacha jako jeho u\u010ditele a str\u00e1\u017ece jeho du\u0161e.\u202f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Moudr\u00fd mentor n\u00e1s povede k&nbsp;osobn\u00edm hlubin\u00e1m<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Po v\u011brohodn\u00fdch mentorech tou\u017e\u00edme na ka\u017ed\u00e9 etap\u011b na\u0161\u00ed cesty. V z\u00e1padn\u00ed kultu\u0159e, a dokonce i v k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 tradici, m\u00e1me jen m\u00e1lo pr\u016fvodc\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed by n\u00e1s vedli do hloubky cel\u00e9 \u017eivotn\u00ed cesty. Nem\u00e1me t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 mentory, kte\u0159\u00ed by j\u00edm sami pro\u0161li a vr\u00e1tili se, aby n\u00e1s j\u00edm provedli.\u202fSamoz\u0159ejm\u011b existuje mnoho \u0161\u00e9f\u016f, duchovn\u00edch, kou\u010d\u016f a u\u010ditel\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed mlad\u0161\u00edm lidem ochotn\u011b porad\u00ed, jak \u201evy\u0159e\u0161it\u201c jejich probl\u00e9my, aby byli zase \u201enorm\u00e1ln\u00ed\u201c, ale skute\u010dn\u00fd mentor vede lidi do jejich probl\u00e9m\u016f a skrze n\u011b. Je to trochu chaotick\u00e9 a divok\u00e9, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 sv\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9. Moudr\u00fd mentor vede n\u011bkoho k jeho vlastn\u00edmu st\u0159edu a ke St\u0159edu, ale oklikou, vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 jeho dvou krok\u016f vzad, aby ho vedl t\u0159i kroky vp\u0159ed. M\u016f\u017ee to vypadat neproduktivn\u011b, ale ve skute\u010dnosti je to cesta Bo\u017e\u00ed moudrosti. [1]&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Mentor n\u00e1m jde p\u0159\u00edkladem<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Pot\u0159ebujeme n\u011bkoho, kdo s n\u00e1mi bude solid\u00e1rn\u00ed, abychom se nau\u010dili, co to znamen\u00e1 b\u00fdt solid\u00e1rn\u00ed sami se sebou a nakonec i s ostatn\u00edmi. Zapomn\u011bli jsme, jak Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 formoval sv\u00e9 u\u010dedn\u00edky? V\u0161echna Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161ova slova v evangeli\u00edch si m\u016f\u017eeme p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst b\u011bhem n\u011bkolika hodin, ale Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 str\u00e1vil disciplinac\u00ed lid\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed ho n\u00e1sledovali, dlouh\u00e9 t\u0159i roky. To, co jim dal, nebyla ani tak jeho slova, ale jeho p\u0159\u00edklad a jeho energie, jeho \u010das a jeho dotek. \u201eKde bydl\u00edte?\u201c zeptali se prvn\u00ed dva Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161ovi u\u010dedn\u00edci. \u201ePoj\u010fte se pod\u00edvat,\u201c odpov\u011bd\u011bl jim, \u201aa tak se \u0161li pod\u00edvat, kde bydl\u00ed, a z\u016fstali s n\u00edm po zbytek toho dne\u2018 (Jan 1,39).\u202fJak v\u00fdmluvn\u00e9 vypr\u00e1v\u011bn\u00ed! V Janov\u011b evangeliu dokonce jeden z u\u010dedn\u00edk\u016f polo\u017eil Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161ovi hlavu na prsa (viz Jan 13,23-25).\u202fV\u011bd\u011bli, jak se p\u0159ed\u00e1v\u00e1 energie: ne prim\u00e1rn\u011b k\u00e1z\u00e1n\u00edm a knihami, ale vztahy a p\u0159\u00edtomnost\u00ed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A rad\u00ed &#8211; D\u016fv\u011b\u0159uj sv\u00e9 intuici<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Nepochybuji o tom, \u017ee jedn\u00edm z hlavn\u00edch d\u016fvod\u016f, pro\u010d jsem ve sv\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b dok\u00e1zal n\u011bkter\u00e9 zaj\u00edmav\u00e9 v\u011bci, je mno\u017estv\u00ed mu\u017e\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed ve mne b\u011bhem m\u00e9 formace v\u011b\u0159ili. Vzpom\u00edn\u00e1m si na jednoho star\u00e9ho \u0159eholn\u00edka, kter\u00fd mi jako mlad\u00e9mu franti\u0161k\u00e1novi \u0159ekl: \u201eRicharde, chci, abys v\u017edy d\u016fv\u011b\u0159oval sv\u00e9 intuici. Slib mi, \u017ee jim bude\u0161 v\u017edycky v\u011b\u0159it, i kdy\u017e se budou ob\u010das m\u00fdlit. Sm\u011br je spr\u00e1vn\u00fd a j\u00e1 osobn\u011b za tebe budu bojovat v pozad\u00ed, pokud k tomu n\u011bkdy dojde.\u201c A tak jsem se rozhodl, \u017ee se za tebe postav\u00edm. Je t\u0159eba \u0159\u00edkat v\u00edc? Toho dne byl m\u00fdm duchovn\u00edm otcem a jeden d\u016fv\u011bryhodn\u00fd duchovn\u00ed otec, matka, p\u0159\u00edtel nebo mentor m\u016f\u017ee vynahradit stovku t\u011bch negativn\u00edch. [2]&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch cac.org.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Translated with DeepL.com (free version)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">[1] Adapted from Richard Rohr with Joseph Martos,&nbsp;<em>From Wild Man to Wise Man: Reflections on Male Spirituality<\/em>&nbsp;(Cincinnati, OH: Franciscan Media, 1990, 1996, 2005, 2024), 4, 5.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">[2] Rohr,&nbsp;<em>Wild Man<\/em>, 131\u2013133, 136.\u202f&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><strong>Image credit and inspiration<\/strong>: Jenna Keiper,&nbsp;<em>a walk in the fog with Richard, Kirsten, and Patrick<\/em>&nbsp;(detail), 2019, photo, Albuquerque.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-ehiahd-tlkrhyidn-h\/\">Click here to enlarge image.<\/a><em>Patrick Boland, Kirsten Oates, and Richard Rohr walk together\u2014students and teacher\u2014navigating a pathway on a cold, foggy morning.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pot\u0159ebujeme n\u011bkoho, kdo s n\u00e1mi bude solid\u00e1rn\u00ed, abychom se nau\u010dili, co to znamen\u00e1 b\u00fdt solid\u00e1rn\u00ed sami se sebou a nakonec i s ostatn\u00edmi. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9263,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9262","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-frantiskanskarodina","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9262","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9262"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9262\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9264,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9262\/revisions\/9264"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9263"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9262"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9262"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9262"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}