{"id":9265,"date":"2024-08-19T10:05:35","date_gmt":"2024-08-19T08:05:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/?p=9265"},"modified":"2024-08-19T10:05:39","modified_gmt":"2024-08-19T08:05:39","slug":"co-dela-mentora-mentorem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/2024\/08\/19\/co-dela-mentora-mentorem\/","title":{"rendered":"Co d\u011bl\u00e1 mentora mentorem"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">T\u0159ic\u00e1t\u00fd \u010dtvrt\u00fd t\u00fdden: Moudrost mentor\u016f<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Otec Richard popisuje, jak\u00e9 jsou podle n\u011bj z\u00e1kladn\u00ed vlastnosti skute\u010dn\u00e9ho mentora:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Velkorysost<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prvn\u00ed vlastnost mentor\u016f bych nazval \u201evelkorysost du\u0161e\u201c. Mento\u0159i velkoryse p\u0159ij\u00edmaj\u00ed r\u016fznorodost, odli\u0161nost a tajemstv\u00ed jedine\u010dn\u00e9ho charakteru ka\u017ed\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka i to, kde se nach\u00e1z\u00ed na sv\u00e9 cest\u011b. Bez t\u00e9to vnit\u0159n\u00ed velkorysosti se v\u017edy sna\u017e\u00edme ka\u017ed\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka za\u0159adit do sv\u00e9 vlastn\u00ed \u0161katulky. O\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1me, \u017ee budou myslet, chovat se a st\u00e1t se p\u0159esn\u011b jako my, proto\u017ee my jsme referen\u010dn\u00edm bodem. Chceme, aby byli katol\u00edci, vzd\u011blan\u00ed nebo kapitalist\u00e9 jako my. Bez velkorysosti du\u0161e nem\u016f\u017eeme potvrdit, potvrdit nebo zrcadlit du\u0161e a cesty druh\u00fdch.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">P\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za druh\u00e9, abychom mohli b\u00fdt mentorem, mus\u00edme m\u00edt schopnost prost\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed. Mus\u00edme um\u011bt n\u011bkoho doprov\u00e1zet, p\u0159\u00e1telit se s n\u00edm a kr\u00e1\u010det s n\u00edm jednodu\u0161e kv\u016fli vztahu. Pokud se na n\u011bj zam\u011b\u0159ujeme kv\u016fli pos\u00edlen\u00ed ega, profesn\u00edmu postupu nebo pen\u011bz\u016fm, pak nejsme mentorem. Tyto starosti u skute\u010dn\u00fdch mentor\u016f jednodu\u0161e odpadaj\u00ed, proto\u017ee v\u011bd\u00ed, \u017ee jde o p\u0159ed\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a sd\u00edlen\u00ed \u017eivota. Kdy\u017e za\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me tento tok \u017eivota od n\u00e1s k druh\u00e9mu \u010dlov\u011bku, nestar\u00e1me se o to, zda za to dostaneme zaplaceno.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">up\u0159\u00edmnost<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Za t\u0159et\u00ed, pokud mentor nen\u00ed schopen svobodn\u011b mluvit o tom, \u017ee jde dol\u016f stejn\u011b jako nahoru, nen\u00ed mentorem. C. S. Lewis jednou \u0159ekl, \u017ee pro n\u011bj \u201enic nebylo dobr\u00e9, dokud to nebylo chv\u00edli dole ve sklep\u011b\u201c. [1] Skute\u010dn\u00fd mentor m\u00e1 trp\u011blivost, autoritu a odvahu pod\u011blit se o to, kdy a jak byl \u201echv\u00edli dole ve sklep\u011b\u201c. Nen\u00ed to jen o \u0161plh\u00e1n\u00ed a \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch. Pokud n\u011bkdo \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee m\u016f\u017eeme m\u00edt nebo b\u00fdt \u010d\u00edmkoli, \u010d\u00edm chceme, je to objektivn\u00ed le\u017e a \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 to ne-mentor. Jen bohat\u00ed lid\u00e9 v prvn\u00edm sv\u011bt\u011b by byli natolik privilegovan\u00ed, aby tomu v\u011b\u0159ili. Mentor nenab\u00edz\u00ed \u201e\u0161kolen\u00ed o n\u00e1roc\u00edch\u201c. [2] Pozve n\u00e1s na cestu a \u0159ekne: \u201eMus\u00ed\u0161 se na ni vydat s\u00e1m\u201c. Tak\u00e9 \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed: \u201eBudu t\u011b doprov\u00e1zet. P\u016fjdu na t\u00e9 cest\u011b s tebou. Kdy\u017e m\u011b budete pot\u0159ebovat, zavolejte mi.\u201c M\u016f\u017eeme lidi v\u00e9st jen tak daleko, jak daleko jsme sami do\u0161li. Pokud jsme ne\u0161li svou cestu, jak bychom mohli v\u00e9st nebo doprov\u00e1zet n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho na jeho cest\u011b?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Vnit\u0159n\u00ed autorita zralosti<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I kdy\u017e nejsme ve form\u00e1ln\u00edm mentorsk\u00e9m vztahu s druh\u00fdmi, pokud neust\u00e1le zrajeme, pokud vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me v\u0161e, co jsme za\u017eili, pro pr\u00e1ci na vlastn\u00ed du\u0161i, pak si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee u\u017e n\u011bco d\u00e1v\u00e1me dal\u0161\u00ed generaci. St\u00e1v\u00e1me se generativn\u00ed lidskou bytost\u00ed a \u017eivot z n\u00e1s bude proudit jen t\u00edm, \u017ee jsme t\u00edm, k\u00fdm jsme. P\u0159esn\u011b to se \u0159\u00edkalo o Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161i: \u201eVych\u00e1zela z n\u011bho s\u00edla\u201c (Lk 6,19). M\u011bl vnit\u0159n\u00ed autoritu, a kdy\u017e m\u00e1me vnit\u0159n\u00ed autoritu, nab\u00edz\u00edme sv\u00fdm byt\u00edm a nesen\u00edm sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, uzemn\u011bn\u00ed a potvrzen\u00ed tak\u00e9 lidem kolem n\u00e1s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159e\u010dt\u011bte si tuto meditaci na str\u00e1nk\u00e1ch cac.org.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Translated with DeepL.com (free version)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h6 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Prameny:<\/h6>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">[1] Derek Brewer, \u201cThe Tutor: A Portrait,\u201d in&nbsp;<em>Remembering C. S. Lewis<\/em>, ed. James T. Como, 3rd ed. (San Francisco: Ignatius Press, 2005), 149.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">[2] See Bill Plotkin,&nbsp;<em>Nature and the Human Soul: Cultivating Wholeness and Community in a Fragmented World<\/em>&nbsp;(Novato, CA: New World Library, 2008), 102\u2013103.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Adapted from Richard Rohr,&nbsp;<em><a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-ehikitk-tlkrhyidn-h\/\">Mentoring: Beloved Sons Series<\/a>&nbsp;<\/em>(Albuquerque, NM: Center for Action and Contemplation, 2009). Available as MP3 audio download.\u202f&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Image credit and inspiration<\/strong>: Jenna Keiper,&nbsp;<em>a walk in the fog with Richard, Kirsten, and Patrick<\/em>&nbsp;(detail), 2019, photo, Albuquerque.&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/email.cac.org\/t\/d-l-ehikitk-tlkrhyidn-k\/\">Click here to enlarge image.<\/a><em>Patrick Boland, Kirsten Oates, and Richard Rohr walk together\u2014students and teacher\u2014navigating a pathway on a cold, foggy morning.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>O mentorstv\u00ed: \u201eBudu t\u011b doprov\u00e1zet. P\u016fjdu na t\u00e9 cest\u011b s tebou. Kdy\u017e m\u011b budete pot\u0159ebovat, zavolejte mi.\u201c M\u016f\u017eeme lidi v\u00e9st jen tak daleko, jak daleko jsme sami do\u0161li. Pokud jsme ne\u0161li svou cestu, jak bychom mohli v\u00e9st nebo doprov\u00e1zet n\u011bkoho jin\u00e9ho na jeho cest\u011b?\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":9263,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9265","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-frantiskanskarodina","latest_post"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9265","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9265"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9265\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9266,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9265\/revisions\/9266"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9263"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9265"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9265"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.frantiskani.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9265"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}